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How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 6:45pm On Feb 17, 2017
Good day friends, This is my first topic on this wonderful forum.
I love maturity and will love matured comments.
Lets go.
- "Nothing like a perfect Man"- 70% of ladies have this convinction firmly,
Are you suprised?many ladies have experienced nightmares in the hand of a man they perceived as Perfect.
The raw truth is that "THERE IS NO ALREADY MADE PERFECT MAN" but rather you can mould an imperfect guy into perfection.
Sometimes, we ladies underrate the high amount of influentiality we have on Menfolk.
YES, A woman can control a man, this topic will look at 5 Ways at how a woman can harness such a controlling ability to mould a PERFECT MAN.
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1. MANAGE HIS WEAKNESS:- is he a stammerer?a disabled?timid?poor in dressing?extreme introvert?etc .
Sweetheart,manage it! Don't feed on it,rather with love, it can be handled and corrected.. Stop putting him on the spotlight all the time.
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2. BE PART OF HIS VISION: You have to cheer him up, and play a role in any legitimate visionary project that he is handling.
He will appreciate it.
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3. BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE:- He embark on a project and fail, build him up with encouraging ideas.
The confidence level should not be low while you are there.
Be his psychologist and councillor.
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4. SCOLD HIM:- This is very important, a perfect man is a responsible man.
If he fails to live up to his responsibilities on anything, confront it.
Don't look the other way, let him know where he failed and how to correct himself. Scold him. Do it.
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5. INSTILL A FINANCIAL SAVING LIFESTYLE IN HIM :- Don't be the party type all the time, maybe he earns below 100k a month,yet you are expecting him to be spending up to 250k on you monthly.
It sucks. Do you dream of buying a new house or business empire with him?
Then instill in him how to save up.
Love you all.
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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 6:48pm On Feb 17, 2017
How to Mould the Perfect Woman will be my topic next time.

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by yomi007k(m): 6:50pm On Feb 17, 2017
grin

I was hoping to see get a bucket of clay, add 5 bucjrts of cement ..bla bla bla.



Well u try sha, weh don ma.

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 6:53pm On Feb 17, 2017
yomi007k:
grin

I was hoping to see get a bucket of clay, add 5 bucjrts of cement ..bla bla bla.



Well u try sha, weh don ma.
thanks, but oga,I hate being called "MA"
Its mamaish.
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Berbierklaus(f): 6:55pm On Feb 17, 2017
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again grin


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package undecided
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though grin

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 6:56pm On Feb 17, 2017
Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again grin


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package undecided

I'm a complete package though grin
funny you. Offtopic pls re u into MMM?

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Nobody: 6:59pm On Feb 17, 2017
Marriage is just overrated
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:01pm On Feb 17, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
Marriage is just overrated
no.is not.
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by yomi007k(m): 7:02pm On Feb 17, 2017
Amarabae:
thanks, but oga,I hate being called "MA"
Its mamaish.


Sorry..my bad...wat do u like being called?
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by zpakln(f): 7:02pm On Feb 17, 2017
this post is absorbing
@op Nice one. Don't mind those yeye comments
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Draei: 7:08pm On Feb 17, 2017
You yourself, are you perfect
in the first instance? Hell Naah.

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by naijamakossa(m): 7:08pm On Feb 17, 2017
Amarabae:
How to Mould the Perfect Woman will be my topic next time.
na that one I wan hear grin
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Nobody: 7:10pm On Feb 17, 2017
Amarabae:
no.is not.
Ok oo. I hear you. I suppose you've studied the western life. Nigeria overrates marriage
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:10pm On Feb 17, 2017
yomi007k:



Sorry..my bad...wat do u like being called?
Amara. Don't call a young girl "MA" again.
It reminds of campus fellowship in my undergraduate days. When u join them,the next thing is they start adding MAMA to ur name.
Ur blessed Mama Gladys
Ur lifted Mama Chizoba. Hated it then
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by yomi007k(m): 7:11pm On Feb 17, 2017
Amarabae:
Amara. Don't call a young girl "MA" again.
It reminds of campus fellowship in my undergraduate days. When u join them,the next thing is they start adding MAMA to ur name.
Ur blessed Mama Gladys
Ur lifted Mama Chizoba. Hated it then


grin grin grin
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:12pm On Feb 17, 2017
naijamakossa:
na that one I wan hear grin
okay. No problem
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Berbierklaus(f): 7:12pm On Feb 17, 2017
Amarabae:
funny you. Offtopic pls re u into MMM?
Its not off topic Lady,tell me how many men have you moulded in your life?
Or is your current boyfriend the only boyfriend you ever had? or Even an average Nigerian lady.
After all the moulding and you guys breakup,won't another woman inherit the moulded specimen and still start her own moulding?

is nor only moulding grin

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:12pm On Feb 17, 2017
Draei:
You yourself, are you perfect
in the first instance? Hell Naah.
did I say otherwise?
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by GloriaNino: 7:13pm On Feb 17, 2017
Men can't be perfect, no matter how hard you try.. you just have to be patient with them, that's all

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Draei: 7:14pm On Feb 17, 2017
Amarabae:
did I say otherwise?
mould yourself first ma'm, ciao.!
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Nobody: 7:15pm On Feb 17, 2017
Sounds like a mother to me grin
Who get time .....
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Draei: 7:16pm On Feb 17, 2017
GloriaNino:
Men can't be perfect, no matter how hard you try.. you just have to be patient with them, that's all
Are girls perfect in the first place.?

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 17, 2017
Nice thread.
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:18pm On Feb 17, 2017
Draei:

mould yourself first ma'm, ciao.!
ok oga sir
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Nobody: 7:18pm On Feb 17, 2017
I have him smiley

Tim whose sensitive amd a good listener
Qasim the Maga to take me out
Kingston for wild hot sex grin
David with the big brain to solve life's equations
And Sony the church boy to please Mama cheesy
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:23pm On Feb 17, 2017
Berbierklaus:

Its not off topic Lady,tell me how many men have you moulded in your life?
Or is your current boyfriend the only boyfriend you ever had? or Even an average Nigerian lady.
After all the moulding and you guys breakup,won't another woman inherit the moulded specimen and still start her own moulding?

is nor only moulding grin
hmmm.
The current man in my life was into a strong addiction when we met.
It was frustrating him, I helped him to face it, I sought for help many places for him, manytimes it involves my financial contributions.
My sister, Today HE IS COMPLETELY FREE From the addiction.
Am not trying to boast nor bore u with story but to maintain the fact that a woman can play a crucial role in a man's life.

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by GloriaNino: 7:24pm On Feb 17, 2017
Draei:

Are girls perfect in the first place.?

No one is perfect, we're all trying our best but it better when your other half is trustworthy
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Nobody: 7:25pm On Feb 17, 2017
Benita27:
Nice thread.
Wow.. is that you on your d.p??
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:26pm On Feb 17, 2017
GloriaNino:


No one is perfect, we're all trying our best but it better when your other half is trustworthy
thankz sis. Excellent and brainy reply

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Berbierklaus(f): 7:28pm On Feb 17, 2017
Amarabae:
hmmm.
The current man in my life was into a strong addiction when we met.
It was frustrating him, I helped him to face it, I sought for help many places for him, manytimes it involves my financial contributions.
My sister, Today HE IS COMPLETELY FREE From the addiction.
Am not trying to boast nor bore u with story but to maintain the fact that a woman can play a crucial role in a man's life.
I understand you dear,my point is,what about your Exed man,you moulded him right,another woman is moulding him now grin
And the current one you are moulding,if it doesn't work out between you two,another woman will do the moulding tomorrow and the circle continues.

Happy moulding though grin

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Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Amarabae(f): 7:28pm On Feb 17, 2017
Benita27:
Nice thread.
you are welcome.
Re: How To Mould The "PERFECT MAN" by Draei: 7:30pm On Feb 17, 2017
GloriaNino:


No one is perfect, we're all trying our best but it better when your other half is trustworthy
Hmm, alryy..

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