bukatyne:
@Amarabae,

Amaratrouble brought me here....

Interesting thread you've got here.

I absolutely believe we mould our spouses to our taste especially when you 'catch' them young.

Lovely face too

Amarabae:
thank sis,
forget those who were ctiticising the post, women can mould and influence a man into a confident successful guy.
you are his closest advicer, criticiser, morale booster, scolder, project supivisor, etc
your contribution in his life is very vital.
have a sweet week dear.

rapcy:


BRAVO
I can't believe ladies like Amarabae exist. Honestly, you are on point. Real men know what you wrote here are nothing but the truth. Any real man that knows what he wants will never argue what you wrote. People criticising your writeup knows little or nothing about supporting and keeping a man. Don't let them discourage you.
I won't mind if you can guest write for my blog anytime you're free

Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though

Amarabae:
that will be cool. Also u re free to post my threads on ur blog.

jakandeola:
I neva hate u I like u as a person I enjoy dis blog, but dat u hate our tribe

Amarabae:
hate? which tribe

jakandeola:

Amarabae:
hate? See me see wahala. how and where? Are u ok?

jakandeola:
uv start ur wahala am not in d mood. kip actin up

Berbierklaus:

Its not off topic Lady,tell me how many men have you moulded in your life?
Or is your current boyfriend the only boyfriend you ever had? or Even an average Nigerian lady.
After all the moulding and you guys breakup,won't another woman inherit the moulded specimen and still start her own moulding?

is nor only moulding

Amarabae:
back up ur accusation with fact. Mr accuser.

Amarabae:
that will be cool. Also u re free to post my threads on ur blog.

Amarabae:
How to Mould the Perfect Woman will be my topic next time.

Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though

Berbierklaus:

Its not off topic Lady,tell me how many men have you moulded in your life?
Or is your current boyfriend the only boyfriend you ever had? or Even an average Nigerian lady.
After all the moulding and you guys breakup,won't another woman inherit the moulded specimen and still start her own moulding?

is nor only moulding

Berbierklaus:
is nor only moulding [/font][/i]

Amarabae:
Good day friends, This is my first topic on this wonderful forum.
I love maturity and will love matured comments.
Lets go.
- "Nothing like a perfect Man"- 70% of ladies have this convinction firmly,
Are you suprised?many ladies have experienced nightmares in the hand of a man they perceived as Perfect.
The raw truth is that "THERE IS NO ALREADY MADE PERFECT MAN" but rather you can mould an imperfect guy into perfection.
Sometimes, we ladies underrate the high amount of influentiality we have on Menfolk.
YES, A woman can control a man, this topic will look at 5 Ways at how a woman can harness such a controlling ability to mould a PERFECT MAN.
...
1. MANAGE HIS WEAKNESS:- is he a stammerer?a disabled?timid?poor in dressing?extreme introvert?etc .
Sweetheart,manage it! Don't feed on it,rather with love, it can be handled and corrected.. Stop putting him on the spotlight all the time.
...

2. BE PART OF HIS VISION: You have to cheer him up, and play a role in any legitimate visionary project that he is handling.
He will appreciate it.
....

3. BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE:- He embark on a project and fail, build him up with encouraging ideas.
The confidence level should not be low while you are there.
Be his psychologist and councillor.
....

4. SCOLD HIM:- This is very important, a perfect man is a responsible man.
If he fails to live up to his responsibilities on anything, confront it.
Don't look the other way, let him know where he failed and how to correct himself. Scold him. Do it.
....

5. INSTILL A FINANCIAL SAVING LIFESTYLE IN HIM :- Don't be the party type all the time, maybe he earns below 100k a month,yet you are expecting him to be spending up to 250k on you monthly.
It sucks. Do you dream of buying a new house or business empire with him?
Then instill in him how to save up.
Love you all.
...

Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though

Amarabae:
thank sis,
forget those who were ctiticising the post, women can mould and influence a man into a confident successful guy.
you are his closest advicer, criticiser, morale booster, scolder, project supivisor, etc
your contribution in his life is very vital.
have a sweet week dear.

kriss27:
You sounds like a gold digger

Yes I'm a gold digger
And I'm in my house come and beat me

Amarabae:
How to Mould the Perfect Woman will be my topic next time.

Berbierklaus:

That is why I said unless he never had a mother to mould him or he is simply a dunce.
Every reasonable man knows that cheating on his wife is disastrous and any good mother knows to teach her son not to be a cheat.
And no,I won't scold a grown ass man from cheating,can't come and give my self hypertension on issues like cheating.

I still insist that moulding is for dunces,men who don't have a mind of their own,men who can't come with ideas that can better their lives, such men should not expect ME to do that for them,I will surely support an intelligent man.

Sister please meet intelligent men,you won't have to mould nothing
Because after you mould,another woman might still take over the moulding, to which end? Are they that daft?

Amarabae:
How to Mould the Perfect Woman will be my topic next time.

Berbierklaus:
Yes I'm a gold digger And I'm in my house come and beat me

Amarabae:
Amara. Don't call a young girl "MA" again.
It reminds of campus fellowship in my undergraduate days. When u join them,the next thing is they start adding MAMA to ur name.
Ur blessed Mama Gladys
Ur lifted Mama Chizoba. Hated it then

Berbierklaus:

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Hey sweedy

Kondomatic:
Good morning and happy Sunday

Same to you

Amarabae:
supporting is part of moulding. Don't u think so?
If you have a business guru as a husband and he cheats on you while away on a business trip? If you find out,will u "support"him? NO. Am sure u will confront and scold him.
Thats the Moulding we are talking about.

Amarabae:
hmmm.
The current man in my life was into a strong addiction when we met.
It was frustrating him, I helped him to face it, I sought for help many places for him, manytimes it involves my financial contributions.
My sister, Today HE IS COMPLETELY FREE From the addiction.
Am not trying to boast nor bore u with story but to maintain the fact that a woman can play a crucial role in a man's life.