Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
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Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com / Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! / Need Your Advise On This One Romancelanders... (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by rosalieene(f): 7:38am On Feb 22, 2017
lmaoooo just let her go, I don't see any future between you both
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by sonmvayina(m): 9:00am On Feb 22, 2017
Both of you are still very young..24 and 23. There is so much time ahead of you..it is up to you. you can see this as a good experience and see what you can learn from it and move on or you can hang on follow it up by forgiving her and giving her another chance...trust me when ur older the things you will regret are the things you did not do.....
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by popefuse(m): 9:49am On Feb 22, 2017
Ahhhh God even himself regreted he create humans
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Sylar3333: 10:13am On Feb 22, 2017
Bear in mind, you still need to pay your house rent so you need here grin grin grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Krystalzkris(f): 10:17am On Feb 22, 2017
krattoss:
hey shocked
hwfa na.... How tnx
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Nobody: 10:22am On Feb 22, 2017
Krystalzkris:
hwfa na.... How tnx
just on a lowkey shaa.. strike really affecting me ..
promised u something undecided
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Krystalzkris(f): 10:30am On Feb 22, 2017
krattoss:
just on a lowkey shaa..
strike really affecting me ..

promised u something undecided
I hear as Una destroy Una school finish.... And yes u promised me something...
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Nobody: 10:36am On Feb 22, 2017
Krystalzkris:
I hear as Una destroy Una school finish.... And yes u promised me something...

they went too far..buh e don tey that vc been dey fall hands...just waiting for there sledge hammer to fall on us via reparations and damages..


no fear..ah dey ebonyi state now ..

when school reopens..am gonna make it up to u..

hope u ve settled everything baa..?
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Krystalzkris(f): 10:41am On Feb 22, 2017
krattoss:
they went too far..buh e don tey that vc been dey fall hands...just waiting for there sledge hammer to fall on us via reparations and damages..


no fear..ah dey ebonyi state now ..

when school reopens..am gonna make it up to u..

hope u ve settled everything baa..?
not really, still have pending issues....


Make all of Una get ready for payment... Una school go make sure una cough out all the pennies in ur piggy banks.... And you guys might not even win the case... Uniport taught us a lesson during our time
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by commyluv(f): 10:45am On Feb 22, 2017
op leave that gal and run for your life
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Nobody: 10:51am On Feb 22, 2017
Krystalzkris:
not really, still have pending issues....


Make all of Una get ready for payment... Una school go make sure una cough out all the pennies in ur piggy banks.... And you guys might not even win the case... Uniport taught us a lesson during our time
my sister..there was never a case..

in naija u don't fight the government no matter what.. just waiting for them to do with us whatever they want..

but that vc as$ gon be on red hot fire ooo..many queries to answer (via first ever protest kum riot in futo) and I know his rivals..they gon give him run for his money..

could have made some transfers but got an issh with ma ATM..and over here ..no civilization.. infact my villa better pass here

just breathe k?
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by igidaduro: 10:57am On Feb 22, 2017
Same old sh*t
Well from experience the babe will still leave you sooner or later, mine was worse
Fact
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 11:40am On Feb 22, 2017
sonmvayina:
Both of you are still very young..24 and 23. There is so much time ahead of you..it is up to you. you can see this as a good experience and see what you can learn from it and move on or you can hang on follow it up by forgiving her and giving her another chance...trust me when ur older the things you will regret are the things you did not do.....


Thanks for this!

Forgiving her is not the issue here, infact I have when my dad called me to plead on her behalf.

But I no more trust her & for the fact she might still be seeing the guy at my back.
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 12:04pm On Feb 22, 2017
Thanks to everyone for the advise...


She came to my place yesterday & continue begging that she will change & she will never have anything to do with the guy anymore. She even swear with her unclothedness & many thing...


This morning she did the same thing & with lots of crying.

When I ask her what makes her cheat on me for the first time despite the fact she knows she will be the loser if I find out, she said she can't explain & attribute everything to be spiritual (spiritual husband things), that she always love me...
She later told me if I don't forgiver her she will understand cos she knows she has really offended me but I should help her seek solution to the problem.

She told me anytime things are going well between us & she has put all her mind that she will always be for me that's when bad thought will start coming her mind.


I'm very confused at this stage, I don't know if to believe or not.

Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Krystalzkris(f): 1:28pm On Feb 22, 2017
krattoss:
my sister..there was never a case..

in naija u don't fight the government no matter what.. just waiting for them to do with us whatever they want..

but that vc as$ gon be on red hot fire ooo..many queries to answer (via first ever protest kum riot in futo) and I know his rivals..they gon give him run for his money..

could have made some transfers but got an issh with ma ATM..and over here ..no civilization.. infact my villa better pass here

just breathe k?
tryna keep my head above water.... Wetin you go dat kind bush go do nah??
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Nobody: 6:45pm On Feb 22, 2017
Krystalzkris:
tryna keep my head above water.... Wetin you go dat kind bush go do nah??
lol..


went on a street call shaa..

u no go understand..
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Krystalzkris(f): 6:46pm On Feb 22, 2017
krattoss:
lol..

went on a street call shaa..
u no go understand..
hmmmmm... Ok oo.. Be safe oo
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Nobody: 6:55pm On Feb 22, 2017
Krystalzkris:
hmmmmm... Ok oo.. Be safe oo
so how school naa?
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by majormofor(m): 10:18pm On Feb 22, 2017
AdexAbbey:
Thanks to everyone for the advise...


She came to my place yesterday & continue begging that she will change & she will never have anything to do with the guy anymore. She even swear with her unclothedness & many thing...


This morning she did the same thing & with lots of crying.

When I ask her what makes her cheat on me for the first time despite the fact she knows she will be the loser if I find out, she said she can't explain & attribute everything to be spiritual (spiritual husband things), that she always love me...
She later told me if I don't forgiver her she will understand cos she knows she has really offended me but I should help her seek solution to the problem.

She told me anytime things are going well between us & she has put all her mind that she will always be for me that's when bad thought will start coming her mind.


I'm very confused at this stage, I don't know if to believe or not.

just be friends with her dats all I ask..dis is all lies to compliment d present situation..if another situation present itself she will still cheat.i rest my case dnt look at her fake cry..
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 7:43am On Feb 23, 2017
majormofor:


just be friends with her dats all I ask..dis is all lies to compliment d present situation..if another situation present itself she will still cheat.i rest my case dnt look at her fake cry..


Thanks so much... Have already made a decision since yesterday...
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 4:14pm On Mar 05, 2017
Update coming soon...




Did the bitch a strong thing!
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by futurism: 4:53pm On Mar 05, 2017
schumastic:
let me be the first to tell you this sad news.

THEY HAVE HAD SEX, REASON WHY SHE IS CONFUSE AND DON'T KNOW WHO TO CHOOSE.

IS SAD BUT SHE DOESN'T SEE A FUTURE WITH YOU CUS TO HER, YOU ARE NOT READY WHILE THE OTHER GUY IS.

JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE CUS AM SURE RIGHT NOW YOU DON'T TRUST HER OR LOVE HER AS MUCH AS YOU DO, WHICH ON THE LONG RUN WILL AFFECT THE RELATIONSHIP.


BEFORE I GO, ALWAYS HAVE THIS AT THE BACK OF YOUR MIND ''IS GOOD TO TRUST BUT IS BETTER NOT TO''

The dude is not yet standing on his feet and will not marry her in the next 3 years. She is 24 and you know she is ripe for marriage already.

The relationship has hit rock already. She knows dude can't marry her. Imagine a girl that paid his own RENT and has been doing other financial obligations ever since. She knows his capacity and financial incapacity
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 5:56pm On Mar 05, 2017
futurism:


The dude is not yet standing on his feet and will not marry her in the next 3 years. She is 24 and you know she is ripe for marriage already.

The relationship has hit rock already. She knows dude can't marry her. Imagine a girl that paid his own RENT and has been doing other financial obligations ever since. She knows his capacity and financial incapacity


I don't know if you are right or wrong but all I know is that have already move on with another gal & she is even the one begging to come back, infact her mum is now involve in this cos she has been calling to beg me & get back with her daughter. Never knew she can be hurt like that when she meet my new babe in my crib, either way she is at lost cos we can't end up together anymore.


Can't get married to someone I can't trust!
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by firstking01(m): 7:05pm On Mar 05, 2017
ikp120:
Lolzzz grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


Sorry man grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin D grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Abeg do wetin dey ya mind bro. LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
grin grin

Bros that girl na better green snake. See as she cast you finish. You still dey ask us for advice? undecided LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Bros that girl go use you cook pepper soup. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I wan stop laughing but I no fit. LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Bros, you mean you read all those things and you still get liver to ask for advice? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

My advice dey simple: Take her inside and fvck her any how you like because of the way she don cast you. When you finish, no cuddle her at all o, just tell her to dress up and go that you will get back to her later (just as job interviewers tell job seekers). LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
See waste of talent, lmao.
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by futurism: 7:55pm On Mar 05, 2017
AdexAbbey:



I don't know if you are right or wrong but all I know is that have already move on with another gal & she is even the one begging to come back, infact her mum is now involve in this cos she has been calling to beg me & get back with her daughter. Never knew she can be hurt like that when she meet my new babe in my crib, either way she is at lost cos we can't end up together anymore.


Can't get married to someone I can't trust!

I would have said something but no need.
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by smark61: 8:18pm On Mar 05, 2017
Some girls go just make u tire to love
For me if a girl had sex with som oda guy forget it we are through
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 7:10am On Mar 06, 2017
futurism:


I would have said something but no need.

Say what u want to say man, you might be helping someone... #Including me!
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by futurism: 12:19pm On Mar 06, 2017
AdexAbbey:


Say what u want to say man, you might be helping someone... #Including me!
hmmmmm.... are you sure?
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 1:43pm On Mar 06, 2017
futurism:
hmmmmm.... are you sure?


Yes boss!
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 1:45pm On Mar 06, 2017
smark61:
Some girls go just make u tire to love
For me if a girl had sex with som oda guy forget it we are through


May be yes may be no, especially when the said person has impacted your life positively... You may be tempted to forgive!
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by Truesapiosexual(f): 2:02pm On Mar 06, 2017
You are only 25, this shouldnt be your problem for now, you are young, still fresh and have a lot ahead of you..move on to the next girl cos Ms cheater will still cheat again and this time worse ,probably shock u to be a guest at her wedding, since she has started saying the other guy wants to come for her intro... My dear work on your future....
Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This! by AdexAbbey(m): 7:19am On Mar 07, 2017
Truesapiosexual:
You are only 25, this shouldnt be your problem for now, you are young, still fresh and have a lot ahead of you..move on to the next girl cos Ms cheater will still cheat again and this time worse ,probably shock u to be a guest at her wedding, since she has started saying the other guy wants to come for her intro... My dear work on your future....


Thanks for this!

But this gal won't let me be, she keep pleading & involving lots of people. Making them believe I don't have mind of forgiveness.

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