thesicilian:
What's her business with her husband's phone?

ShoProperties:
My own reason for putting password on my phone is just to save myself from giving a long explanation whenever my partner sees a random message on my phone be it from male friends or female as she will definately want to dig deep .

thesicilian:
What's her business with her husband's phone?

ZarZar:


Part of the vows, what's yours is mine & what's mine is yours. End of the stories.

ShoProperties:
loool and password is part of it too like ladies will even allow there partner check there account balance dont even let me go there

ZarZar:


Yes, everything. Why should there be secrets? No comment on the last part. Money is money now But your money is my money & my money is my money. Period. LOL!

coolesmile:
Why do you need to check your husband's phone?

ShoProperties:
I don’t share my passwords with my fiance. If she needs to get on my Phone I’ll type the password in for her, but won’t give it to her. Do I have anything to hide on my Phone ? Not at all. I don’t cheat. I’m not up to anything illegal. The worst thing on my Phone is some porn that I might be a little embarrassed if she found, but it’s nothing that would make her angry with me. Do I trust her? Yes. I don’t think she would snoop through my personal files. I know that she trusts me. I know that she respects my right to some privacy, even from my romantic partner.

So why don’t I share my password with her? Well, because it’s just that, MY password. It is for my own personal knowledge and I feel most comfortable if I keep it to myself. It’s healthy and important for a couple to have some boundaries. I share my deepest, most intimate secrets with my partner, but I also appreciate that she respects my right to have some things that are mine.

ZarZar:


You sound like an upstanding guy & if that's the understanding you have in your relationship, then big ups to both of you. Because at least you let her see. That arrangement wouldn't work for everybody though. Like personally, I don't like secrecy at all. I like complete openness & the sense that I have an option to pick up his phone any time I want. Limited access or being told it's "private" would create a whole lot of different issues. Transparency = me being free. No walls. No suspicion. Nada.

Sunnymatey:
I dated this girl, each time l return from work she picks up my phone and question me base on the numbers she see on my received, dialed calls, messages and if nothing implicating is seen it means l ve deleted them. Now the issue here is not she checking whatever but me answering those questions when l needed to rest. Even a call from a female boss or colleague is a big issue. Is it not adviceable to lock my phone with a code to save myself of the stress?

ferrari45:
Part of the vows, what's yours is mine & what's mine is yours. End of the stories.

hope her money is his too... women!!!

Bumbae1:
So no Trust
Why are they together

ShoProperties:
I don’t share my passwords with my fiance. If she needs to get on my Phone I’ll type the password in for her, but won’t give it to her. Do I have anything to hide on my Phone ? Not at all. I don’t cheat. I’m not up to anything illegal. The worst thing on my Phone is some porn that I might be a little embarrassed if she found, but it’s nothing that would make her angry with me. Do I trust her? Yes. I don’t think she would snoop through my personal files. I know that she trusts me. I know that she respects my right to some privacy, even from my romantic partner.

So why don’t I share my password with her? Well, because it’s just that, MY password. It is for my own personal knowledge and I feel most comfortable if I keep it to myself. It’s healthy and important for a couple to have some boundaries. I share my deepest, most intimate secrets with my partner, but I also appreciate that she respects my right to have some things that are mine.