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Please Advice! by ennon92(m): 1:37pm On Mar 08, 2017
There was a girl i met in an inter-state bus while shuttling from Lagos to ijebu ode around 2014. She sat next to me at the extreme back seat, Initially i didnt notice her talkmore of giving her attention but suddenly she started giving me the green light by asking for my nokia torchlight phone which i held on my hand to hear music as the journey seemed boring to her. Thereafter, we started talking from one topic to another.To minimise a long story short, i collected her number, as time goes on, we got talking n became good friends. She made me understand that her relationship to her fiance is on the verge of collapse when i asked if she was into a relationship. I later told her my feelings for her in which she declined around 2015. Forward to last year June, i was adamant to let her know i truly have genuine intentions for her in which she later accepted to give it a shot.

Futhermore, During the course of the relationship, we have good times as well as bad times together. Attimes we dont talk for like two days but we still get along. The bone of contention now is that a quarrel ensued on phone last friday, we didnt talk until Sunday evening i placed a call through. I knew it was because of the little ish that made her not to flash me @least but initially she denied, later she revealed it was because of the ish. Since i made the call this past sunday, i didnt call her since then till this moment neither she did call. I have already made up my mind not to call her again unless she call.
NB: Myself n her friend she works with in the same place do chat but i havent table the matter to her, i dnt even want to

To my question:
[1] I hope am justified?
[2] Is it that she has moved on?


Pls ignore any blunder as am not a good writer
Re: Please Advice! by YUNGLURD(m): 1:52pm On Mar 08, 2017
Dont call her either, its a game, lets see who surrenders first.

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Re: Please Advice! by agbonkamen(f): 1:53pm On Mar 08, 2017
Ayam not understanding

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Re: Please Advice! by ennon92(m): 2:05pm On Mar 08, 2017
agbonkamen:
Ayam not understanding
how do u mean?

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Re: Please Advice! by Nobody: 2:11pm On Mar 08, 2017
Just what if she doesn't have credit to call you. Have you thought of that?.
Re: Please Advice! by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 08, 2017
Whatever decision you make Op, don't discuss her with her friend. angry
Re: Please Advice! by LilSmith55(m): 2:29pm On Mar 08, 2017
Don't knw what to Advise, Not understood

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Re: Please Advice! by ennon92(m): 2:31pm On Mar 08, 2017
kimbra:
Just what if she doesn't have credit to call you. Have you thought of that?.

she was online throughout yesterday.


Thanks!
Re: Please Advice! by ennon92(m): 2:32pm On Mar 08, 2017
Aderola15:
Whatever decision you make Op, don't discuss her with her friend. angry
Thanks!
Re: Please Advice! by ennon92(m): 2:40pm On Mar 08, 2017
YUNGLURD:
Dont call her either, its a game, lets see who surrenders first.
Thanks!
Re: Please Advice! by Olami90: 2:50pm On Mar 08, 2017
Don't conclude for her. It is better you av heart to heart talk.
Obviously you both have ego problem. For a relationship to thrive, u both must let go of ur ego. Else you should free one another, marriage is way beyond physical attraction.

A relationship with constant fight to the extent of keeping malice isn't a healthy one, and a terrible red flag. The earlier you tell yourselves d truth, d better for you

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