professorfal:
If you'd really have the ambition to hit that one day, you've gat to make her feel great about her special day. its a step in the right direction.

professorfal:
If you'd really have the ambition to hit that one day, you've gat to make her feel great about her special day. its a step in the right direction.

babtaima:
So she's a friend of my friend who's supposedly a girl too, her birthday is coming up (it's tomorrow actually and my friend told me about her birthday, wanted to hit her with a cute surprise) and i wanna buy her expensive gifts and maybe give her money too... I do have interest in her though, been crushing over her recently but these girls ain't loyal... should i go ahead and make her day tomorrow or just miss her birthday over some lame excuse since i do not owe her anything (I'm good at making annoying excuses)... Since the said girl wouldn't mind hanging out with richer guys as money moves most girls mind these days (seen this in her character)... thoughts? Your goodness of heart will be much appreciated by responding to my question..

2dice01:
sure maga number 4 on the way

Fifthcolumnist:
Pls don't. You'll regret it if nothing goes down!

kimbra:
What happened to giving her a genuine gift because it's her birthday without an ulterior motive?.

babtaima:
So she's a friend of my friend who's supposedly a girl too, her birthday is coming up (it's tomorrow actually and my friend told me about her birthday, wanted to hit her with a cute surprise) and i wanna buy her expensive gifts and maybe give her money too... I do have interest in her though, been crushing over her recently but these girls ain't loyal... should i go ahead and make her day tomorrow or just miss her birthday over some lame excuse since i do not owe her anything (I'm good at making annoying excuses)... Since the said girl wouldn't mind hanging out with richer guys as money moves most girls mind these days (seen this in her character)... thoughts? Your goodness of heart will be much appreciated by responding to my question..

kimbra:
What happened to giving her a genuine gift because it's her birthday without an ulterior motive?.

I do have interest in her though, been crushing over her recently but these girls ain't loyal... should i go ahead and make her day tomorrow or just miss her birthday over some lame excuse since i do not owe her anything (I'm good at making annoying excuses)... Since the said girl wouldn't mind hanging out with richer guys as money moves most girls mind these days (seen this in her character)

lefulefu:

bros using money and gifts to woe a girl or to make her to love u is wrong.if u want to do it with an open mind and expect no reward in turn then by all means go ahead.u say u crushing on her..so whats stopping u telling her how u feel.

sirusX:

POINTS TO NOTE...

The gift ain't from the heart, if you give with the intention of receiving

Also, cz you have interests, that makes you emotionally involved

I'ld say; "if you need to spend, spend something you wouldn't mind loosing, else you might be filled with regrets"...thus your hesitation

PS: I do have a gf, and weird enough, I once did something similar for a friend cz she didn't have a boyfriend to make her day special, so since I had a little extra cash, I had to help spice up her day with a trifecta (movie, games & lunch)...although her description doesn't fit this your girl, it was worth it cz no attachments

professorfal:
If you'd really have the ambition to hit that one day, you've gat to make her feel great about her special day. its a step in the right direction.

lefulefu:

bros using money and gifts to woe a girl or to make her to love u is wrong.if u want to do it with an open mind and expect no reward in turn then by all means go ahead.u say u crushing on her..so whats stopping u telling her how u feel.

babtaima:

Should i rather by an inexpensive gift for my crush birthday or miss the whole event instead as damage control? you're really smart but look at it from my own perspective?!

kimbra:
What happened to giving her a genuine gift because it's her birthday without an ulterior motive?.

lefulefu:

how many guys in nigeria will just give one girl a gift without ulterior motive

kimbra:
Since she's your crush. Don't give her a gift just because you hope to date her. Do so because she's someone you like. If you're expecting a favour in return then it's a trade and not a gift.

Just what if after buying the gifts, she collects and tells you she's in a relationship?. I know how you would feel.

kimbra:
"How many?" I don't know. But do know some do.

babtaima:

The fear of rejection my brother.. No girl is worth stealing my pride. Except my future wife of course.

babtaima:

Sure.. Thanks for this helpful advice... I'm not that great with girls either, i end up in the friend zone much often bro..

lefulefu:

so if he"s buying her those gifts cos he"s expecting to dig his cane in her hole ...hope u will be here to console op if after buying all those things she still refuses in giving him the thing

lefulefu:

very very few .guy buy 100 naira mtn card for babe he will be asking,''ol baby..which time u go come my pad come spend the night"

kimbra:
Hmm!, do we call random friends for recharge card?.

Before she asked for card, they must have had something cooking.

lefulefu:

in that case if u really like thiis babe like u say then try make friends with her,call her on the phone...ask her about how she"s faring.let her see ur own qualities.but eventually u might ask her out oo.nothing go reduce ur status even if she says no.but dont use money to woo her make she no go turn u to maga50.

lefulefu:

sometimes its not that something is cooking.like a friend of mine last year did her birthday i sent her a little token of card as a birthday gift.just a gesture and nothing more and dont u know there are random girls begging guys for card and money on facebook? i have experienced dat one twice.

babtaima:

I just wanted to make an impression, make her impressed...? but it's not worth it i think?

kimbra:
Those ones don't know their left from right.

babtaima:
So she's a friend of my friend who's supposedly a girl too, her birthday is coming up (it's tomorrow actually and my friend told me about her birthday, wanted to hit her with a cute surprise) and i wanna buy her expensive gifts and maybe give her money too... I do have interest in her though, been crushing over her recently but these girls ain't loyal... should i go ahead and make her day tomorrow or just miss her birthday over some lame excuse since i do not owe her anything (I'm good at making annoying excuses)... Since the said girl wouldn't mind hanging out with richer guys as money moves most girls mind these days (seen this in her character)... thoughts? Your goodness of heart will be much appreciated by responding to my question..