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Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Apina(m): 12:20am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:Tnx for attempting to substitute ur thoughts for mine. But I am very much aware of my thoughts and what I intend to convey when I used parents and not just mothers, or are u tryna say there is not even a single woman who has walked away from her marriage in the past? I fail to understand what u mean by limited choices, are there no men/women over 30 who were raised by single mothers? or from broken homes?, so what's so special about the 21st century that didn't exist before it?. Marriages in the past that have functioned didn't just boil down to the male folks, it was a collective effort. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Joy1706(f): 1:04am On Mar 12, 2017 |
hedonistic:Typical brainless he goat |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by olayiwolar1(m): 1:09am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Welcome to the club |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by infolekan(m): 1:13am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre: Anyone replying you obviously didn't read what you wrote here. There's a reason why they say for better for worse in marriages. There's a reason why the whites you're so blindly trying to follow have marriage counsellors. There's a reason why homes are kept till old age. Most happy homes have one thing in common.......they have all had challenges. Where we are coming from determines our outlook atimes. I come from a home where my parents have had challenges and have worked on it and all I see now is a happy and contented couple that dint give up when the going got a little tough. You might probably come from a broken home or an unhappy one and sees divorce as the easiest way out. I could give you a million challenges of a single mother the wide world over. I've been here and there and believe me.....the movies make it look sweeter than it really is. They don't tell you the quiet cries in the night......the uncertainty of raising a child alone....the problems only a single mother would understand. People that reason like you hardly hold anything of value in esteem.....no margin for error or mistakes . Friendships of years ends with a little mistake.......acting like you're on a fiery move and destroying all and everything in the name of Westernization. And you think because the single mothers smile outside they're happier than the married ones that are trying to patch it up. Lemme leave you and rest. NB. Don't bother coming for me.....I won't be around to reply you. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by canDy4eva(f): 1:16am On Mar 12, 2017 |
ipobbigot7:d man weak me 2 o. Na him offend na him dey pose again |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by victor8269: 3:55am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Strahovski1: U Breaking people's homes has been your hobby since 1960 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Jabioro: 4:44am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:You are welcome.. Truth is bitter my dear. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by kingreign(m): 4:59am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:What I said is too much for you to comprehend till you've settled down into marriage. Now run along and stop asking nonsense questions. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by mylove4him(f): 6:28am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Benignasweety:Madam wedding ring or no wedding won't stop a man from doing what he needs to do. Stop depressing yourself. Get busy and tell urself that he isn't having an affair he just want to have a little fun. See eh I haven't really seen a committed man to his wife. Even the poor ones are not left out not to talk of a man that walks, have a car and he is presentable. He is nice to women. Calls them. You know these girls are vulnerable. A little friendship, they go out all there to think that the man loves them. So sis get busy and stop getting depressed. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Dshocker(m): 7:17am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Michellla: Please what is "banging" |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 7:24am On Mar 12, 2017 |
mylove4him:Thanks alot for your concern atleast. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Tomjazzy2: 7:53am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre: I was going to say some thing to you, but after I saw your siggy, I decided not to |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by 99foxxy(f): 8:09am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Just like my aunt case. How can a man disrespect his wife by sex chatting a woman with his wife on his side on the bed? May such men not have peace and may other men fvck the hell outta of their wives. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by alizma: 8:12am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:I am not supporting his action but every 2 out of three sincere married person who's marriage has survived at least a decade will admit to having being flirt with the opposite sex at one time or the other. however, this does not necessarily mean that they have stop loving their partner. and to answer your question, I don't need to see it mentioned that the man was ashamed but since their was no fight btw the two that could have made the man stepped out of his house, I can only GUESS that he was ashamed hence he choose to stay out of his house for the main time. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by alizma: 8:21am On Mar 12, 2017 |
ipobbigot7:if your partner has short temper, the best thing is to stay away at a time like this. probably not as much as three days. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by pressplay411(m): 8:29am On Mar 12, 2017 |
kingreign: Don't mind those advocating a divorce over sexting. Apparently their parents really shielded them from the challenges, infidelity included, they faced. Had their parents been as impulsive perhaps a majority would have been from broken homes. Divorce is quite selfish and should only be a last resort when all else fails. But what do you expect when teenagers are commenting on marital affairs? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 9:34am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:Trust me when i say I'm a liberalist. I've had my girl sex chat right beside me, and we both had a laugh about it. I believe just like myself, she should know when to draw the line between virtual and reality. I'm not stereotyped. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by MarieSucre(f): 10:47am On Mar 12, 2017 |
kingreign: Hahahahah Its clear that your wife will cheat on you. You're already preparing yourself for heartbreak. Best of luck in that. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by MarieSucre(f): 10:48am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Jabioro: You're right. I propose that Men who term themselves as "polygamous" should decide not to get married. It will save the world a lot of pain. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by MarieSucre(f): 10:50am On Mar 12, 2017 |
infolekan: If you intend to go through all the above in your marriage. That's your business. If you will allow your wife cheat on you. That's your business. If you will stay and try to change yourself and beg and plead and cook new soup for her so she does not leave you for another man. That is your business as her husband. But don't dare put that on somebody else. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by kingreign(m): 10:51am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:you are stüpîd. I know you're the type who'll cheat on their spouses. Go to hell. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by MarieSucre(f): 10:52am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Apina: I agree with you, it takes a collective effort for the marriage to work. But in the above story, it takes just one person(the husband) to chamge his ways. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by MarieSucre(f): 10:55am On Mar 12, 2017 |
kingreign: Bros you're pained. Are you not the one making excuses for cheating? I am telling you fact, using your own logic, the day you allow yourself to be transfered to another state or you deny her money or things she wants, it is her right and duty to go out and fvcck another man. Its your fault afterall. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by kingreign(m): 10:59am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:I cease to respond to your pained rants. You speak like one who has, is and would be an unrepentant serial cheat. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 10:59am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Strahovski1: Exactly its until he brings home STI that's when people start realizing the gravity of it. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by shaybebaby(f): 11:06am On Mar 12, 2017 |
infolekan:Likewise, I could give you a million challenges married peeps face worldwide, case in point- this very thread. Which is one out many. The issue here isn't that both don't come with their challenges. The issue is which one you would rather battle. Not all marriages are worth keeping. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Jabioro: 11:10am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:Hahaha..you're funny.. as it is from the beginning so shall it be forever.. the two popular religion have historically back it up.. Just do your best, remain in truthfulness and in obedience.You shall see the hand of God progressively.He lives not in deceit. These days it be well with you, all your endeavors shall encounter success, have success, taste success and be in victory.. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Apina(m): 11:22am On Mar 12, 2017 |
MarieSucre:Agreed, the husband got distracted but leaving isn't and shouldn't be the first option. Conflict resolution is a rare trait among among those of us who make up this present generation and that's why you find out that things escalate very quickly for the worse in so many marriages. And that's the difference between the generation of our parents and ours. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Tankotanko: 11:30am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Michellla:AND SO WHAT, Should the Heavens disappear because he might have cheated, don't get this at all. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by mylove4him(f): 1:04pm On Mar 12, 2017 |
Benignasweety:My dear you are welcome. Always remember you are not alone. My pastors wife will say leave a man for God. He shouldn't determine your happiness. Get busy and also try to be financial independent. Look good for yourself. Have friends you share your burden with. It helps a lot. You will realised that what u hold like pain or hurt is irrelevant. Need someone to talk to. PM me. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by mylove4him(f): 1:24pm On Mar 12, 2017 |
Pro2makx:Just be sure she is chatting with other guys too. |
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