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Men Cheat Because They Want To Cheat by FreeSpirited: 5:42am On Mar 15, 2017
Yes. Men take their time to plan their target. Its a plan toward a goal, getting laid. Even pastors and men of supposed high moral standard go through thesame preparatory stage before eventually hitting their target, humping up and down on a warm wet hole with the ecstacy of a conquest.

There's nothing like I fell because I was tempted or it was an accident. It takes a very strong resolve and discipline to remain faithful or to practice fidelity. however, just a moment of 'why not' thought is what needed to contemplate giving infidelity a try.

Once a man gets caught up contemplating infidelity or fantasizing a lady's ass, shape, moan(ringtone), boobs, lips, etc believe you me, such man has started his journey down the path of infidelity, just a matter of time if he doesn't snap out of this fantasy.

A man who sets off by first entertaining the thoughts and prospect of smashing a cunt will soon graduate to thinking its not a big deal after all, or might tell himself 'God will forgive ' or question the sanctity of fidelity. At this juncture, the only obstacle will be fear of being caught. And such fear is easily doused with secret preparation and cover-ups .

For men who hide under the cover of temptation as an excuse, it's possible to find yourself in a trap of being seduced by a colleague, housemaid, church friend, or a neighbour, but hardly can greenlight from those supposed sexual predators come unnoticed. Girls usually seduce with various shades of greenlight, however subtle men can sense this from afar. A real man truly committed to fidelity will quickly act to preempt those moves before it goes out of hand. Else he will be complicit in the long run and should be held responsible for his action

In the end, men get to cheat after convincing themselves
they could, either by believing its no big deal, (thinking: afterall its the norm)or thinking they can go scot free or believing no one will get to know of their escapade. So the cycle continues until they resolve to stop which is unlikely once it is started. Finally , men should own up to responsibility rather than blaming devil or temptation for their thirst for pvssie grin
Re: Men Cheat Because They Want To Cheat by Alleviating: 5:44am On Mar 15, 2017
sad
Re: Men Cheat Because They Want To Cheat by seunlly(m): 5:46am On Mar 15, 2017
bitter truth
Re: Men Cheat Because They Want To Cheat by femolacqua(m): 6:02am On Mar 15, 2017
True
Re: Men Cheat Because They Want To Cheat by FreeSpirited: 10:07am On Mar 15, 2017
Will like to read contrary opinions though
Re: Men Cheat Because They Want To Cheat by FreeSpirited: 9:43pm On May 21, 2017
seunlly:
bitter truth
Yea.....A bitter truth men won't want ladies to know about. grin

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