Is the doctor your doctor or hers? The doctor clerked her to ascertain the number of times she had abortion or by diagnosis? My brother, open your eyes and tell yourself the truth, '' a woman that will pose to be reserved and yet had had abortion twice is not worth it, even though everybody deserves a second chance.'' You may not be able to erase this from your mind if you continue the relationship. Be advised.
It reminds me of one movie by Osuofia who took a supposedly reserved/virgin girl to a hotel, and the girl was telling him virtually how all the rooms looked like and which one has a good pillow, what a paradox!

The doctor is ours and I believe he did the right thing to tell me. Funny story you gat there.

Let the past remain in the past you may not understand the situation she was in when she did it but if you truely love her you would help her start all over again she needs your support, understanding and care

she is nt worth it den.cnce she has bin kipin it away 4rm u.probably 4 years.pls tell ha to go

Two abortions in a life time is small. I've heard of a lady who have done more than that in a semester alone. Although it is expected that every person have had a sexual past, No man would be happy to use a second hand product.

argggh! such incredulity

All the woman i hail o hmmm

All the woman i hail o hmmm

yea actualy, it shouldnt be a big deal since our girls now abort like play dis days, my babe had abort like 5 times and none was my own. imagin

@ Mugsmasher rember there is judgement for all murderers. God is watching

Sorry guy, can i ask u dis simple question ? how many girls got pregnant for you? did u asked them to keep the pregnancy and how many ladies did you slept with, without condom, even when they beg for it? you see; we are not saint. Even God forgive us when we offend him, or are you saying she can not concieve? and also it did not occur to you dat she loves you and would not like to loose u, and she thought of a way to keep and arrive at that solution: LIE. That doctor is a bad person i must say.

Hmmmmmmm she killed two of her kids . . so what kind of advice do you need huh . . .  to be with a female murderer . This is not funny

tinacollin:

Sorry guy, can i ask u dis simple question ? how many girls got pregnant for you? did u asked them to keep the pregnancy and how many ladies did you slept with, without condom, even when they beg for it? you see; we are not saint. Even God forgive us when we offend him, or are you saying she can not concieve? and also it did not occur to you dat she loves you and would not like to loose u, and she thought of a way to keep and arrive at that solution: LIE. That doctor is a bad person i must say.

regular people

busybody has a child now she is breastfeeding according to her

Honestly, do you think someone like busybody will just have sex once and have a child without her having abortions along the way?

Remember she is a single mother, so you can imagine how many pen.is-es have entered her toto over the years and how many missed period this idiot would have encountered before she finally had this one.

Truthfully, without any bias or beef against me, do you think busybody with all her noise on Nl wouldnt have commited abortion before this child?

Talk true!

@Poster,do you have an idea of the number of girls that have gone for abortions? A large % of girls around have at one point or the other had an abortion,so its not really about living a rough life(even though sometimes its related),it just happens. Sometimes gals lie maybe cos they feel guys cant handle the truth or for fear of losing the one they truely love. In her case she didnt lie,she just didnt tell. Be smart and decide right.

xynerise:
It would have been better if she told me herself.  I was shocked when the doctor told me to stop my gal from aborting her baby or I will loose her. Since I met her she had not been pregnant so what is the doctor talking about. The doctor later told me my gal had aborted twice and the third might kill her. She was feeling a slight pain in her stomach when i took her to the hospital. Now I am confused on what to do. She had been lying all this while that she never lived a rough life in her school days. I dont want to take a harsh action cos I love her but what will an average man do in this situation? This is a true story but I am not the victim. Need your contribution pls.   

This is 2014, update please...

Wait,your vex is that she did not tell you? Please, I beg, do tell, if she had told you, would you have dated her?