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Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by djeezy(m): 6:06pm On Mar 20, 2017
Joy1706:

Honey, there are men out there dying to have me ergo my man knows to step up his game before another man steals me
Darling don't be so full of yourself na. From what you are typing, I doubt if you are even married. Anyway marriage is not by force, so u can stay away from it. see I'm a lawyer and I've handled lots of divorce cases. What both parties spill at the hearing will enlighten you on marriage.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by klassic(m): 6:09pm On Mar 20, 2017
kimbra:
Why is the lady disturbing herself?, the bitčh didn't appear in your matrimonial bed. Your husband chose to sleep with her there...height of disrespect!. This is what happens when you marry men with flawed values.

Are you married? Guess if you are and you think the man has flawed values you should think again.
You women are quick to change once you have settled down in his house in the name of marriage and then leave him out in the cold.
You would check up on him whilst dating him every second, send him dirty pics and videos while he is at work to ensure he comes home immediately after work.
Give him everything you know he likes and perhaps he decides to marry you not only out of love but those other perks (side attractions) you display.
Like an equivicator, you instill the desire while dating him, only to take away the performance when you become his wife.Not knowing that's when you are supposed to do more to keep him at home.
The husband is used to the perks you offer him, it is now a habit for him. You no longer fill that void.
Example; while dating him, you clubbed, partied and had wild adventurous sex (romantic) games with him.He enjoyed it just fine and knowing he has a high appetite for sex, decided to marry you.
Now you wear wrapper all day, no longer attractive, no so churchy you no longer go out with him to have fun, the sex life is practically dead, once I 3months that if he is lucky to have any at all. And all through the act you lie like a log of wood.
Now what exactly is he suppose to do? Become old too or churchy cos you chose to be?
Life is just starting for him and don't make him look old.
No man is happy to cheat or cheats happily whether emotionally or otherwise.
For most men that cheat, there is always a wife that failed in her duties same with women that cheats.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by DanseMacabre(m): 6:17pm On Mar 20, 2017
choix007:

Oh thanks for the correction
Peace.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Icaretoo: 6:23pm On Mar 20, 2017
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Na u sabi....
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by SURElee(f): 6:26pm On Mar 20, 2017
I still don't get it. Why do we women go fighting ourselves? Your husband who married you from amongst his many girlfriends and side chicks and puts you in the house, and you go fighting a small riff raff he's having an affair with? I feel its degrading. Now the small riff raff has insulted Mrs lagbaja and her mood has changed. We women should channel that anger towards the men by communicating to find out where we err. Like riff raff said the husband comes to her begging and even had the guts to say she would report madam and madam would be beaten.

Am weak for days. This thing called marriage is complex. Am no longer tripped by the colourful aso ebi I see couples display weekly at owambe because we never know of the happenings behind closed doors.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by SURElee(f): 6:40pm On Mar 20, 2017
klassic:


Are you married? Guess if you are and you think the man has flawed values you should think again.
You women are quick to change once you have settled down in his house in the name of marriage and then leave him out in the cold.
You would check up on him whilst dating him every second, send him dirty pics and videos while he is at work to ensure he comes home immediately after work.
Give him everything you know he likes and perhaps he decides to marry you not only out of love but those other perks (side attractions) you display.
Like an equivicator, you instill the desire while dating him, only to take away the performance when you become his wife.Not knowing that's when you are supposed to do more to keep him at home.
The husband is used to the perks you offer him, it is now a habit for him. You no longer fill that void.
Example; while dating him, you clubbed, partied and had wild adventurous sex (romantic) games with him.He enjoyed it just fine and knowing he has a high appetite for sex, decided to marry you.
Now you wear wrapper all day, no longer attractive, no so churchy you no longer go out with him to have fun, the sex life is practically dead, once I 3months that if he is lucky to have any at all. And all through the act you lie like a log of wood.
Now what exactly is he suppose to do? Become old too or churchy cos you chose to be?
Life is just starting for him and don't make him look old.
No man is happy to cheat or cheats happily whether emotionally or otherwise.
For most men that cheat, there is always a wife that failed in her duties same with women that cheats.

Guy, abeg you have no excuse. The man no get mouth? There is so something called communication, he should tell his wife, I saw something that attracted me to you initially, and thastv made me marry you. Communication is key! Do you know how many women lose weight because Oga complained?
Do you also know that some men would have a miss world as a wife who will be slim after having kids and steal cheat? Abeg some men are not just it

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Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by sshalom(m): 6:46pm On Mar 20, 2017
This is highest level of confidence on the wide and slippery way to hell shrouded in the garb of 'happening' 'know it all' 'boss woman' etc. Kwantinu!
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by klassic(m): 6:51pm On Mar 20, 2017
SURElee:


Guy, abeg you have no excuse. The man no get mouth? There is so something called communication, he should tell his wife, I saw something that attracted me to you initially, and thastv made me marry you. Communication is key! Do you know how many women lose weight because Oga complained?
Do you also know that some men would have a miss world as a wife who will be slim after having kids and steal cheat? Abeg some men are not just it

But some don't care jare. I do counselling too. So I know what I am saying. An example I encountered recently.
The man loves skimpy shorts when around the house.at least loves her to wear em, make her hair and look sexy the only Saturdays he has to spend at home. But she will have none of it cos she is a senior worker in the church and it is wrong biblically for her to do that.
Now let's go outting for weddings, namings and birthdays, she won't cos Sunday's as for church and family while Saturday is for house chores and fellowship.
Now he started attending all his functions alone cos he was tired of complaining.
He got to a point , he had his secretary go with him to occassions and then the secretary's friend whom he fell for. It took a pastor for the woman to realise her errors but then was it not too late?
Let's leave what happened for another day.
Hope you now understand my point. In marriage things are different.

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Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Thavik(m): 6:54pm On Mar 20, 2017
Tokziby:
It is finished!!!
Side chicks are no longer ashamed or scared of being called out.
Our moral values are dead and buried. Things that we usually stigmatized has become the norms of our society but something has definitely not changed with them, which is the law of nature. Whatever u sow, u shall reap. Karma is an effing b*tch, what goes around comes around. One day she will get married and history will surely repeat itself. Or maybe not, she will become a permanent tissue, use and dump!

Goodluck to ur sorry life, homewrecker. A lai nitiju omo ale jati jati. She even has the guts to enter another woman's room and probably have s*x on her matrimonial bed. angry angry angry
Oga calm down, karma is a fairy tale
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by klassic(m): 6:55pm On Mar 20, 2017
SURElee:
I still don't get it. Why do we women go fighting ourselves? Your husband who married you from amongst his many girlfriends and side chicks and puts you in the house, and you go fighting a small riff raff he's having an affair with? I feel its degrading. Now the small riff raff has insulted Mrs lagbaja and her mood has changed. We women should channel that anger towards the men by communicating to find out where we err. Like riff raff said the husband comes to her begging and even had the guts to say she would report madam and madam would be beaten.

Am weak for days. This thing called marriage is complex. Am no longer tripped by the colourful aso ebi I see couples display weekly at owambe because we never know of the happenings behind closed doors.

Now your last paragraph makes sense. Marriage is give and take and its about balancing everything.
I stand to be corrected if both parties will first communicate, secondly. Listen to each other and lastly take advice from each other and work on it.Marriage will be fun. Parties must be ready to play the fool and timing again matters. If you don't do it when he/she needs it, another will and if and whenever you decide to change your mind, it becomes immaterial cos the deed is already done.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:02pm On Mar 20, 2017
PaperLace:

Let's not make it look like most Nigerian men are that fit.
Has the side chick given birth? We'll see how the sidechick will look after delivery...

wetin this one wife go come do?
Why did you choose that pic grin
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:09pm On Mar 20, 2017
CFCman:

Why did you choose that pic grin
Hahahahahhaha. Na the pic fit the topic na, you like am? I can send it to you personally.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:13pm On Mar 20, 2017
PaperLace:

Hahahahahhaha. Na the pic fit the topic na, you like am? I can send it to you personally.
Please do cool
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by MultiCEO1(m): 7:16pm On Mar 20, 2017
Tokziby:
It is finished!!!
Side chicks are no longer ashamed or scared of being called out.
Our moral values are dead and buried. Things that we usually stigmatized has become the norms of our society but something has definitely not changed with them, which is the law of nature. Whatever u sow, u shall reap. Karma is an effing b*tch, what goes around comes around. One day she will get married and history will surely repeat itself. Or maybe not, she will become a permanent tissue, use and dump!

Goodluck to ur sorry life, homewrecker. A lai nitiju omo ale jati jati. She even has the guts to enter another woman's room and probably have s*x on her matrimonial bed. angry angry angry

Side chick stigmatization started with Christianity. Back in those days, it is madness and errant folly for a married woman to try picking fight with another woman in the name of sharing husband because the husband was meant to be shared in the first place. Such an act could earn such a wife a sack, a beating or any other form of punishment. Christianity changed that so there's nothing wrong with moral value here. Such has always been our value.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Elle277(f): 7:23pm On Mar 20, 2017
dfrost:


cheesy grin Ma, why are you vexing like this nah?
shebi nah the man give the side chic mouth to dey abuse the wife like that..I dodge them type oh
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:32pm On Mar 20, 2017
Side chicks ti take over
Ashawo kon jawo moh
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:35pm On Mar 20, 2017
grin too funny
When she don chop forbidden fruit why wont she be braze
Mrs take heart ur nicca is goneeeee grin


The mary kay comment tho (wicked)

The thing is one day side chic might marry the karma goes one and one .. make the lady either accept or move out
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:35pm On Mar 20, 2017
Kimbra how did i miss dis juice grin
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:36pm On Mar 20, 2017
djeezy:
Darling don't be so full of yourself na. From what you are typing, I doubt if you are even married. Anyway marriage is not by force, so u can stay away from it. see I'm a lawyer and I've handled lots of divorce cases. What both parties spill at the hearing will enlighten you on marriage.
Hmmm like a true Lawyer wink
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:39pm On Mar 20, 2017
Bumbae1:
Kimbr.a how did i miss dis juice grin
Could you imagine the nonsense?. grin

I pity the bitčh that'll sleep with my husband. grin
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:41pm On Mar 20, 2017
kimbra:
Could you imagine the nonsense?. grin

I pity the bitčh that'll sleep with my husband. grin
Gurllll she must have lost her mind ..

The lady even having convo with her .. lol someone would be in intensive care right now .. either her or ex hubby grin
Ahhh my dear mac don give side chics power o .. we need to prepare cheesy
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:45pm On Mar 20, 2017
Bumbae1:

Gurllll she must have lost her mind ..

The lady even having convo with her .. lol someone would be in intensive care right now .. either her or ex hubby grin
Ahhh my dear mac don give side chics power o .. we need to prepare cheesy
The lady fůcked up, girls like this one don't worth a phone convo. Get a guy to sweet talk her, she'll fall with time and pay some agberos to gang rape her. Since she wants a dïck. grin

Iranu!.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 7:48pm On Mar 20, 2017
SURElee:


Guy, abeg you have no excuse. The man no get mouth? There is so something called communication, he should tell his wife, I saw something that attracted me to you initially, and thastv made me marry you. Communication is key! Do you know how many women lose weight because Oga complained?
Do you also know that some men would have a miss world as a wife who will be slim after having kids and steal cheat? Abeg some men are not just it
That guy has 1001 reasons to justify the act of cheating in marriages. I deliberately refused to reply. grin
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 8:02pm On Mar 20, 2017
Lol, this woman also doesn't know how to go ham on a person verbally, hence the mistress feels she has the upperhand.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by akblings(m): 8:02pm On Mar 20, 2017
cheerokee:
Can someone help me with that Lil Wayne's picture , you know what I mean.. grin

Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 8:10pm On Mar 20, 2017
kimbra:
The lady fůcked up, girls like this one don't worth a phone convo. Get a guy to sweet talk her, she'll fall with time and pay some agberos to gang rape her. Since she wants a dïck. grin

Iranu!.
Kimbra jesu Baddest grin
Men u so blunt its refreshing grin
Don't blame you dis side chic na ogbologbo she not even remorseful she dey even give madam tips
Its true sha live by the d bye it grin cant stop laughing
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 8:12pm On Mar 20, 2017
ZarZar:
Lol, this woman also doesn't know how to go ham on a person verbally, hence the mistress feels she has the upperhand.
U can see the hubby was suffering sha
Her come back was weak
Poor guys bedroom action much have been weak too ..


The man didnt even take her to hotel thats how gullible the Mrs is he took her to his matrimonial home when he knows its one mumu his living with .. she should just get divorce or stay der n be cute cause she seems like there is no fight left .. even the abuse was weak grin
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 8:14pm On Mar 20, 2017
Bumbae1:

Kim.bra jesu Baddest grin
Men u so blunt its refreshing grin
Don't blame you dis side chic na ogbologbo she not even remorseful she dey even give madam tips
Its true sha live by the d bye it grin cant stop laughing
LMAO, they know the weaklings they play with.

How was your day?.
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by kingsfield(m): 8:15pm On Mar 20, 2017

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Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 20, 2017
kimbra:
LMAO, they know the weaklings they play with.

How was your day?.
Ok , n urs
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by Ifedinho08(m): 8:16pm On Mar 20, 2017
Ok
Re: This Side Chick Is Not Scared, See Conversation by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:16pm On Mar 20, 2017
Arthurwinner:
i rather not marry at all than cheat on a woman i took to the alter on my very matrimonial bed

Very easy to say now.

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