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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:49pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
ok, let me be the badt guy here, every time you see her YOU WILL REMEMBER THAT SAID RELATIONSHIP. so better think about your next step very well. We wont want you to be disturbing ir neighbors with constant quarreling every day. God!!!! my trust in women keeps waning It happened once, it will happen again 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by CarlosTheJackal: 10:50pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by jakandeola(m): 10:50pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:sex her den dump her 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by CarlosTheJackal: 10:51pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by linearity: 10:52pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Why are people bringing spiritual angles into this? I can't remember any Bible verse condemning sleeping with cousins. If you believe in the Bible's procreation story, our great grand parents were brothers and sisters as in the same father, the same mother and the Bible is littered with plenty examples of cousins marrying each other. Because of the genetic closeness of cousins or close relations, science frown at close relations birthing offersprings because of the possibilities of abnormalities, this was not done because of some spiritual discernment. There is no different between her bleeping a complete stranger from outer space and her cousin, as far as the Bible or spiritual consequences are concern. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by chuksjuve(m): 10:53pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Alariwo2: and a public forum like nairaland is where you get the needed advise ? what happened yo the elders and deacons of your church? what happens to the Godly servants of God of your church? remember the internet never forgets... and to the Lady in question , how will she feel when she finds out that what she opened up to you in private has become a public gossip talk ... now I see why the Bible said my people perish for lack of knowledge. keep swimming in the ignorance of your twisted and perverted knowledge of the scriptures.. God have mercy on us.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:53pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Thats her past...everybody has a past these days a dirty past. Even me cant claim to be a saint, so just go ahead with your wedding or better still follow your instinct |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by rinzylee(m): 10:54pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Majikals: Kai.... Shebi if we beg people to give their lives to Christ and stay Holy them no good gree. Thank God for the reverential fear of God our parents put in us. Forgive her, pray for her and Marry her. ...Relocate far away from that cousin if you can, it will help the memories obliterate. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by viktimera(m): 10:54pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Bollinger(m): 10:54pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: Your fiance talks too much. Know this; There are some things in your past that you must never let your spouse know. Most couples cannot handle it. You for instance are a prime example based on your reaction. If my wife knew about half the crap i did when i was sowing my wild oats she would probably have a heart attack. I don't want to know what she did in the past and she is smart enough not to ask me of mine. We've been married almost two decades. Whatever mistakes your fiance made in the past stays in the past. What matters is who she is today. 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by notoriousbabe: 10:54pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:na cucumber I dey talk no be no be three month old baby prick wet day under you 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Omoluabi16(m): 10:55pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
whizqueen is viewing. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Coolgent(m): 10:56pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Chai this is first time of hearing marrying ur cousin is incest! Anyway different religion+culture. Op go ahead and marry her |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by babzo(m): 10:56pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Shes guility of some things- but not incest. Incest according to the Bible is brothers and sisters. Parents. Parents of spouse. Sex and marriage with cousins is permitted in many cultures and frowned upon by many others. In no culture or country is it incest. Bad in many places- but not incest. There are some advice you dont seek from the marketplace. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by olawonder(m): 10:56pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
With cousin is not so bad my friend. Most ppl hv experienced this, u know like during sleep overs and so on. No biggie just ignore and continue to nurture d love u hv for each other. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Amajerry83(m): 10:56pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Although it's bad it happened buy what has happened has happened. Since you can't change it just learn to love her more and forget she never said that. But women can be funny. How could she even think of telling you that. If you were to be some guys na the end of the relationship be that o. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:56pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:Knowingly or unknowingly? |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by blaqroy: 10:57pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Nothing will happen, she was so naive then and has realized her mistakes and asked God for forgiveness and what if you got to know after marrying her? Plz continue ur wedding plans MIB1: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by bfire(m): 10:57pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: Let me be frank with you. The moment you become taken by sentiment, events or pity you already lose the most important aspect of a relationship as it relates to marriage. Whatever you read here won't help; no matter how you're swayed by the respondent. The only thing and one way only that will secure your 'home' is to be sure what God is telling you about your marriage. Never be taken by human feelings; it will fail you. Many are the devices of the devil. You don't know which one you are presently been tempted with. I say again, only you can pray and solve this important decision you are about to take. Becareful. Shalom 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by kayo80(m): 10:58pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: Were you first cousins or second cousins? |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Okwyjesus(m): 10:58pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Majikals: I stopped reading comments when met this one above. Well said no plus no minus |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Alariwo2: 10:58pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
chuksjuve: the best of advice can come from the strangest of places and not the deacons or what have you omode gbon agba gbon lafi da otu Ife.. Don't underrate Nairaland or the internet at large. Nobody sabi pass |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by blaqroy: 10:58pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Hope you are not stupid jakandeola: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:59pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
notoriousbabe:Na cucumber I want give you na |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by BrainnewsNg(f): 10:59pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
LeView1: Please, where are you from? |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Ekiseme(m): 11:00pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Nso Ala! Tufiakwa! |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by notoriousbabe: 11:00pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:give lala |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by BrainnewsNg(f): 11:01pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid: Ladies and surprises are like abc |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Gfish: 11:01pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Grow up. you have a good woman. What if she didnt tell you. people make mistakes expecially when they young. The good thing is she knows she has sinned against God and asked for his forgiveness and she has her peace. with the way you think i dont think you are the righy guy to handle a Godly matured woman like your fiancee |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by odogwu2007(m): 11:03pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:bros u well at all? U are pained about what she did in the past? What of your own past? She was so kind to even tell you now u treat her like this? U need help. That's why some people just keep there past to there self. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by blaqroy: 11:04pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by ChiefSweetus: 11:04pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Ugh! One of the worst things ever, I know; But, her telling you is the ULTIMATE SIGN OF LOVE AND RESPECT. I'd find it hard to betray such trust and intimacy. Let her speak to the cousin, and let him know that you have been made aware. If he is sensible, he will keep away FOREVER. If he is stupid however, the onus is on your wife to inform him that his everlasting distance would be appreciated, nay, REQUIRED. Wife her bro. Many other girls will take such a secret to the grave with them, and a woman who can keep secrets from her lover will commit more secrets. You have a real one - take it from a cynic who has seen it all. |
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