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| Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 10:53am On Apr 02, 2017 |
In this part of the world we live, it is believed that men are expected to be sole givers in every relationship. This is what a fallacious and illogical societal belief has subjected many young men to. It is still one law that has kept defying the natural law of giving - 'He who gives, receives also'. Here, you give with the mentality that it is a sin or crime to expect from your girlfriend. If you still think that you are receiving from your girlfriend when the only thing she offers is opening her legs for you to make love, you probably need the help of Ben Carson, the famous American Neuro-surgeon!!! The truth is that young men in this part of the world give virtually everything they have...resources, time, attention, energy and even their semen!!! This has blinded us not to realize the fact that some females exhibit extreme stinginess! Most of us have succeeded in buying the idea that stinginess is a trait exhibited only by men. Women don't have anything to do with such trait. Really?  You mean they shoved this down our throats?I remember the day I received a N1,500 recharge from an ex. A friend who was with me was annoyingly surprised! This is because such was strange to him. He had been made the sole giver. He allowed the idea to be shoved down his throat. He told me he had never received even a N100 recharge from his girl. He would send her recharge before she would call him; no recharge, no calls! That's a good example of a stingy girl. Ladies, if your partner has to recharge your phone before you call him, you are a stingy girlfriend! If you have never bought common boxers and singlet for your man despite the fact that he spends on you, you are an unrepentant stinginess personified!  Sex is just a human act; it does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship. Ask yourself what you are gaining from your relationship apart from sex. As you give your love, care, attention and resources, you should be able to gain worthwhile things. There should be impact in your life in many ramifications. You are giving so don't tolerate stinginess. It is a monster that creates a source and a parasite in a relationship! Personally, I can't be stingy in a relationship but till I see that worthiness in a woman. Guys, share your experience dating a stingy girl  9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by professorfal: 10:55am On Apr 02, 2017 |
I don't pick my gfs' calls, I'd reject and call back so I can't decipher from phone calls. buying of gifts: just one girl bought me wristwatch out of 11 I've dated. Oga most girls are hungry, me no even dey mind self. tell a Nigerian girl your birthday is tomorrow, to shun buying you gift she will start up an argument. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 10:55am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Around 2012-13 I meet a fine girl like that In my church doing Sunday school lesson class section.. I begged her for her manual she refused given it out to me I begged and cried, rolled on the floor but she declined my request.. I felt frustrated and lost.. I woke up from sleep and realized that today is Sunday.. That's the end of my story. Happy Sunday my brethren. 1 Like |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 10:57am On Apr 02, 2017 |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Any man that complains on this thread gives up his man card 1 Like |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:00am On Apr 02, 2017 |
LeView1:Who come be dis? 2 Likes |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 11:01am On Apr 02, 2017 |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by RoyalBlak007: 11:01am On Apr 02, 2017 |
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| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by RoyalBlak007: 11:01am On Apr 02, 2017 |
♤ ♤. . |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by RoyalBlak007: 11:01am On Apr 02, 2017 |
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| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:02am On Apr 02, 2017 |
LeView1:I don't fall into people's defintion, Miss  11 Likes |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:06am On Apr 02, 2017 |
professorfal:Not all are hungry; some are like call-girls but with no ID cards. |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:12am On Apr 02, 2017 |
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| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Rapmoney: |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by yomi007k(m): 11:16am On Apr 02, 2017 |
LeView1: Woss ...Wobi No be today....na since Adam n eve.. Who man card don epp? 2 Likes |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:18am On Apr 02, 2017 |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 02, 2017 |
What's all this ranting for?, what have observed so far is, the rich dudes who spend don't complain and it doesn't mean they should be taken for granted. The broke ones do. You don't go into a relationship with the mindset of collecting gifts, love language are different. 1 Like |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by TrapHedges(m): 11:22am On Apr 02, 2017 |
My ex befr my last ex..was stingy with head bro...she blows me once in a week..tats piss poor |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:22am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Benita27:Be reasonable for once, young woman! Who said people can no longer express their views? How does expressing one's views become ranting? Stop assuming people's financial status from your house! My post goes beyond NL. It talks to society so u should stop being parochial!!!21 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by RoyalBlak007: 11:22am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Benita27: ♤but that's what most ♤girls/ladies do .8 Likes |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by TrapHedges(m): 11:23am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Benita27: lol wtf.. Y u always spot on n matured with yo comments lol 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 11:24am On Apr 02, 2017 |
RoyalBlak007:Some guys just exhibited that on this thread. |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by RoyalBlak007: 11:26am On Apr 02, 2017 |
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| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 11:27am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Rapmoney:I just expressed mine. You sounded like relationships should be based on gifts. Perhaps, your love language is gifts to another guy it could be compliments. 1 Like |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by professorfal: 11:29am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Rapmoney: yeah! I posted "most", isn't that what you quoted? 1 Like |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:32am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Benita27:I don't know what u call love language but I'm very sure u didn't see just gifts in my post. If gifts were only what u could pick, it means u read it poorly. I will forgive u if u were from Switzerland but sorry, Miss, the average Nigerian girl places relationships on gifts. To most of them, it is even a paid job! 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Young03(m): 11:32am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Just remind me to modify any day it reaches front page |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:34am On Apr 02, 2017 |
professorfal:Sure, I can see that now. |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by lytech1(m): 11:35am On Apr 02, 2017 |
My experience.... She was asking me what am gonna buy for her on my birthday while i use almost my last kobo to grace her day. Women are vexing seriously 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Rapmoney(m): 11:53am On Apr 02, 2017 |
lytech1:Yeah, buy for her on her birthday and buy for her on ur birthday! |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by yomi007k(m): 11:54am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Rapmoney: The Oracle has spoken! 1 Like |
| Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Stingy Girl by Nobody: 12:20pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Rapmoney:Since you don't know what it's, why not find out so you'll see how giving someone gifts whose love language isn't gift is useless. 1 Like |
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