Young03:
Just remind me to modify any day it reaches front page

Benita27:
Since you don't know what it's, why not find out so you'll see how giving someone gifts whose love language isn't gift is useless.

Rapmoney:
Most Nigerian girls have been automatically programmed to make gifts their love language. That's their default setting.

Benita27:
What's all this ranting for?, what have observed so far is, the rich dudes who spend don't complain and it doesn't mean they should be taken for granted. The broke ones do. You don't go into a relationship with the mindset of collecting gifts, love language are different.

dukeprince50:
i wanted to say something to you but when i checked your profile, i gave up on you

Benita27:
You gave up on the kid on my profile?. Try again.

dukeprince50:
oh lord, who is this abortion survivor? I said your profile not your pic

Benita27:
LMAO, and what does my profile say?.

LePrezident:


It says you're always on the receiving end. Always measuring a man by what you receive from him.

Benita27:
LMAO. Every man to his opinion. I guess either you or that dunce is missing something.

LePrezident:


Thank you ma, God bless you ma.

LeView1:
Any man that complains on this thread gives up his man card

Aderola15:
Thread not for me... Iyamm a cheerful giver.

Aderola15:
Thread not for me... Iyamm a cheerful giver.

dacovajnr:
I noticed too..keep giving them for free

Jay542:

Coman give me biko

Aderola15:


Noticed kinni

Aderola15:


Oya oya send your account details

Jay542:


Not monetary Ma

dacovajnr:
That you've been giving Cheerfully and wouldn't want your Hubby to give Cheerfully

Aderola15:


Haaaaaaaa

Uncle Jay Jay, iyamm nor understanding you again oooo.

Aderola15 post=5519 3842:


You and uncle Jay Jay just dey confuse me nii.


What are you talking about baby?

tobianthony:
Life is funny like that ...my current girlfriend is not a Valentine's day person at all ...you buy her anything on that day ...and it just doesn't register for her at all . She's not a saver too either just like me and its a habit we are both trying to cultivate .

I appreciate that some people here spoke about love language with regard to giving gifts .

In a previous relationship I told my GF at the time that do not go out of your way to buy expensive things for me . I appreciate it but if you go to oju elegba and buy comic books for me I would appreciate it even more .

Val's day comes around she buys me an expensive watch ...expecting me to reciprocate . omo at that time I was broke man . I felt bad ...like really bad .

But did that mean I loved her any less ? No .

Some people can't give you money ...but they can go to hell and back for you with what they have .

I ask does your partner do other things for you in return ?

That's why I always say marriage and relationships are all about business ?

Because no matter what you think ? It always come down to- what can this person do for me . It doesn't make anyone a bad person but sha ...let's always try and do what we can for our partners .

Summarization - know your partner's love language ...don't give them Benz when all they really want is a WhatsApp phone call .

Aderola15:
Thread not for me... Iyamm a cheerful giver.