bpee:
When talking about stinginess, must it only be in a relationship? How many of you girls can dash one of your handbags or shoe to a fellow girl who has none? How many of you girls who receive a lot from guys can help a child buy a textbook or sandals? How many girls give quality offering in church?Some guys are stingy,,some girls are stingy too,,stinginess is not only a guy thing,,i personally think the girls are more stingy than the guys

Benita27:
What's all this ranting for?, what have observed so far is, the rich dudes who spend don't complain and it doesn't mean they should be taken for granted. The broke ones do. You don't go into a relationship with the mindset of collecting gifts, love language are different.

trojan84:

Dey dnt complain doesn't make it ryt, nd wu told u dey dnt complain? Y do u think some rich guys go around using gals? 4rm my point of view dey c it as deir reward 4 spending (a new generation prostitution)

pocohantas:
...As a lady, I will tell you few reasons most girls don't give in relationships. Going by the average Nigerian guy mentality and the society. Once a guy lays a girl,he has conquered her...her worth depreciates. A guy gets dumped by his girlfriend and one of the first thing his friends might ask is "you fu|ck am?".
This in turn made some girls feel sex is beneficial to the guy alone. In her head, she is like...you want to chop me, still chop my money. The only way she can get even is if you're the one doing the giving, while she provides a port for you to insert. This is one reason, male besties of girls benefit pass boyfriend, bestie is not inserting...he is just playing his card well. One of the best position for a guy to enjoy a female is the friendzone. Start observing from today...LOL

...Some others are born stingy.

...With all the singlet complains, some don't have enough to wow you, and are ashamed to buy something cheap.

...Some don't wanna embarrass you. Let's face it, some guys would naturally get embarrassed if you start showering them with gifts or sending them airtime every time. I guess they've been configured to believe they should do the giving.

I can't relate to girls not calling their boyfriends. I'm a caller, except I just wanna give you your space. I'm a giver too, if you can't give your friends and family, you would find it difficult giving some other person just because you guys are in a relationship.
There are also guys that won't give their friends N500, but they'll invite a girl over and send N10,000 for transport, just to insert... naso life to be.

Titilayooni:
Its a 2 way thing,some guys cn be so stingy while some babes are akagum frm birth....as a lady i can never date a stingy guy cos they would turn out to be useless partners and as a lady too,i try to play my part....buy good expensive stuffs for him nt just singlet and boxers,u can do a suprise lil dinner 4 his bday(he will stil b d one to take u out)order stuffs online for him,when he is broke,send him airtime cos i knw i would get 5times what i sent...dnt wait till he calls..some babes cnt call their guys for 30mins...its how u treat a man is d way he will treat u as a lady...i tire for these babes

LeView1:
Any man that complains on this thread gives up his man card

Rapmoney:
U sef too talk! Chai! This ur moniker sha...reminds me of someone

Aderola15:
Thread not for me... Iyamm a cheerful giver.

Benita27:
I just expressed mine. You sounded like relationships should be based on gifts. Perhaps, your love language is gifts to another guy it could be compliments.

lytech1:
My experience....
She was asking me what am gonna buy for her on my birthday while i use almost my last kobo to grace her day.

Women are vexing seriously

Rapmoney:
When you say what you see, they say you are ranting. It has gotten that bad.

BuhariApcFools:
Thanks so much for your nice comment. This is exactly what i am going through now in my relationship. she cant call unless i call and send her airtime. she's less concern girl and too stingy always complaining common N50 she go complain. am tired and planing moving out from the Rubbish relationship.

iamadonis2:


Oh, Lawd! Not again, Aderola.

Titilayooni:
A lady like that can never plan a future with you...

Titilayooni:
Its a 2 way thing,some guys cn be so stingy while some babes are akagum frm birth....as a lady i can never date a stingy guy cos they would turn out to be useless partners and as a lady too,i try to play my part....buy good expensive stuffs for him nt just singlet and boxers,u can do a suprise lil dinner 4 his bday(he will stil b d one to take u out)order stuffs online for him,when he is broke,send him airtime cos i knw i would get 5times what i sent...dnt wait till he calls..some babes cnt call their guys for 30mins...its how u treat a man is d way he will treat u as a lady...i tire for these babes

Kronical:

Classic response dear..
I wish I have a babe that thinks the way you do....thanks,Lol

Drabeey:



happy birthday