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I Need Advice Over My Relationship by collarfreak(m): 2:27pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
I met a lady eight months ago, and we fell in love with each other. Falling in love with this pretty damsel made me reach consensus inside me to spend the rest of my life with her as husband and wife. I proposed marriage to her and also met with her parents, siblings and vice versa. We are planning of getting married few months time but am very skeptical as regards to her behaviour and attitude. She do spend all her time with me all days because she is yet to get job The most annoying part is that, if I offend her instead of her telling me, she prefer to report me to anyone she feel is close to me. Any small issue between us the next thing she do is calling my mum to report which is making the woman to be skeptical about her despite of her good moral Further more, she likes monitoring my calls, movement, messages, chat etc. Anytime my phone rang or chat messages enters my phone she is always curious, anxious, aggressive and salivating to know what exactly the person wants. Also if am online and she happens to be online and peradventure I was busy with reading threads without reply her in time, she concur an chatting with a lady. Please I need mature advice whether to marry this kind of lady or not...Anything that happens within us, she can not control her mouth until she says it out for people contributions or opinion 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Discuss your misgivings wiTh her. If she doesn't change and you can't cope, Bounce... 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by collarfreak(m): 2:33pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Nma27: Thanks but have done that times without numbers 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by spencerlouis(m): 2:35pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
ar u really serious?? she is jx bein protective nd territorial! sm will say its insecurity!!! as 4 her tellin pple about ur issues, jst talk 2 her about it! she is even tellin pple close 2 u and u ar complaining jx talk 2 her frst... 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 2:36pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
collarfreak:make it work 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Relationshipdoc: 2:36pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
She values her man. And she's scared to disrespect you or feeling she does not worth you. Just talk to her and give her reason why she should feel free to talk to you. If you want her to stop disturbing your phone always give her the information of ur conversation and also ask her of her callers or who she chatting with. With time she will change. But why the rush for marriage 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 2:37pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
You are reporting her to the world. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 2:40pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Boy that girl is a destructive demon. Leave her and I swear you'll be grateful you did. Stay back and make it work, i swear you'll become a great philosopher or a mental wreck. That girl has enough twine to string the thickest web of darkness around you. |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by adorablepepple(f): 2:41pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
You better leave her, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Wait first ,didn't you know all these before going to see her parents and vice versa. If you can't tell her things that are confidential and she can't control the way she tell peeps about you guys then you should do the needful. There are things that should stay between the both of you without family interference. Once you get married to get even her relatives will have a say in your marriage 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by TrapQueen717: 2:42pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Women like her who behaves exactly like that , its bcoz u giving her some motives to doubt sha... Try to clear all her doubts if u have nothing to hide 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by moonracer(m): 2:42pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
collarfreak: She's cheating on you. You can take this to the bank! I've been there. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Get her a 7-7 Job. She would be so exhausted, she wont bother about you anymore. When Ladies have nothing doing e.g- business, job etc... we tend to spend more time thinking about unnecessary things. My 2kobo 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:07pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Insecurity at its best.... Even when she finally gets a job, it won't change. This woman does NOT trust you and it will be difficult to change her mindset. Sit her down and communicate with her. You have to put your foot down and make her understand that without TRUST there will be NO marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by collarfreak(m): 3:10pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
adorablepepple: Honestly, I don't know she is like that, she doesn't like me to password my phone...If I didn't give her the password, she would pest my life till I tell her the password and also always want me not to delete my conversation on chats so that she can read through when we see |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by collarfreak(m): 3:12pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Maychang:Thanks alot 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by mctowel01: 3:59pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
See the way you painted yourself innocent and she faulty. Talk true, have you given her any reason to suspect that you are having external affairs? |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Ifakiland(m): 4:07pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
She's cheating |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by firstking01(m): 4:26pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
collarfreak:How old is she?? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 4:31pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
She lovess you, but she is just overreacting and most girls talk too much anyway, just tell her to stop telling people stuffs about you guys, instead she should talk to you cos communication is the key . 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by fhranchez(m): 4:35pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
u proposed to her nw ur not sure....................niggga follow ur heart |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by EWAagoyin(m): 4:41pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
U dnt knw d value of what u hv... I love ova protective women.apart from ur mom it takes a real woman 2 show such kind of luv 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Drazeen(m): 5:06pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Drazeen(m): 5:09pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
collarfreak: Give me her number. I like clingy ladies. |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 5:20pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Jealousy at its peak |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Kondomatic(m): 5:23pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
It may sound crazy but I love what she's doing. |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by michoade(m): 5:25pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Oh! honey, you know yourself, you know what you want in your future wife, you know the type of family you will like to have. Then, the ball is in your court, the decision is left for you to take. But one thing i'll like to tell you is that broken relationship is better broken marriage and greatest setback that man could have in life comes in through the crack in the marriage's wall.. #onelove 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by collarfreak(m): 6:20pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Thanks a lot |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by collarfreak(m): 6:20pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
michoade:Thanks alot |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Diplomaticbeing(m): 7:12pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
There you've a woman with a domineering attitude. . . This is just one among its numerous signs. And one funny but irritating thing about domineering people is that they're always both selffish and hypocritical. If you're a conscientious proponent and practitioner, kindly leave her with alacrity. However, if you're the unconscientious type like her, then you too suits each other. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by Nobody: 7:19pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Basket mouth and monitoring spirit... Double wahala |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by akintho(m): 7:52pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
nothing serious man....the major is key communication at the same time her not having a job might be the cause as well. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Over My Relationship by olalat(m): 8:08pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Its obviois she loves you more than you love her. Im of the opinion that you should be more open to her to allay her fears. Talk to her over and over om the need to keep you relationship issues between two of you. Let her be engaged in something productive and time consuming. Low self worth breeds insecurity. If she starts making money she will adjust. Above all, she needs assurances to boost her trust and confidence level in you. Dont leave her yet. Work on her shortcomings. You only leave a lady who refuses to change or adjust on certain characters. Hope she is not a cheat. 1 Like |
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