cruchenuti:
You are what you attract.

If everyone you meet only wants to sleep with you, then you are obviously not worth it.

You need to work on yourself first.

queenice7:
since my heart was left Brocken in my last relationship a while ago. I haven't been able to fall in love, lost interest in relationship. I am interested in making true friendship with but sex, preferably male coz they are more selfless and so. friendship, just not to be lonely and to help or be provided help when the time comes. but most guys I meet aren't getting it. they just want sex. am dissapointed wen I have taken one as a brother, support his relationship, have constructive conversations with him, only for him to have de guts to ask me for sex. most of them sef, i will barely know them, and they won't even contribute anything to my life or spend a dime on me, not that am interested in their money, but true friendship, yet they channel our Innocent conversation to meeting in a hotel and having sex. I will be thinking these are responsible guys, as dey are perceived to be by others, like the latest is a young Pastor. am wondering where the problem is coming from, coz I am a reserved person.

SmartBug:



And you have to make her feel like Trash?

queenice7:
since my heart was left Brocken in my last relationship a while ago. I haven't been able to fall in love, lost interest in relationship. I am interested in making true friendship with but sex, preferably male coz they are more selfless and so. friendship, just not to be lonely and to help or be provided help when the time comes. but most guys I meet aren't getting it. they just want sex. am dissapointed wen I have taken one as a brother, support his relationship, have constructive conversations with him, only for him to have de guts to ask me for sex. most of them sef, i will barely know them, and they won't even contribute anything to my life or spend a dime on me, not that am interested in their money, but true friendship, yet they channel our Innocent conversation to meeting in a hotel and having sex. I will be thinking these are responsible guys, as dey are perceived to be by others, like the latest is a young Pastor. am wondering where the problem is coming from, coz I am a reserved person.

brandydaniells:
I see no reason not to have sex ...its not like its a bad thing ....it nourishes women's body according to science....

BiafranBushBoy:
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MTCHEWWW...

Crappy write-up! Poor grammar!

SmartBug:
Okay. That's terrible. Why would guys only want to bunk you? — Damn. So Sad. Sha, I can help you fix this but you'll have to work with me. First, post your picture. Make sure your chest and behind are visible. This will help me to analyse some key points and figure out the problem.

cruchenuti:


So that you can pick your vaseline & get to work abi ?

ElizaVeta:
Bad Badoo Baddest

ElizaVeta:
Gbagam!!

alexialin:
Op don't feel awkward . that's how most guys are wired . All they care about is sexx. It then depends on you to slate it down , when any guy is coming over to you for friendship. Spell it out loudly u are not up for anything sexxx and avoid sexx chat by all means . avoid private questions like when last did u have sexx? Which spot is your favourite ? Just tell him, guy! Cut it out ..that's too private for me to reply .
Can we change topic? He will become uncomfortable and get the message .
Just be straight and abrupt with them , when they start with such methods to seduce u or to make u want sexx. The ones who wants 2 have sexx will stop chatting with u. Then the real ones who likes u as just a friend , will have different topics to chat about ..
Babe filter your friends , very important.

queenice7:
since my heart was left Brocken in my last relationship a while ago. I haven't been able to fall in love, lost interest in relationship. I am interested in making true friendship with but sex, preferably male coz they are more selfless and so. friendship, just not to be lonely and to help or be provided help when the time comes. but most guys I meet aren't getting it. they just want sex. am dissapointed wen I have taken one as a brother, support his relationship, have constructive conversations with him, only for him to have de guts to ask me for sex. most of them sef, i will barely know them, and they won't even contribute anything to my life or spend a dime on me, not that am interested in their money, but true friendship, yet they channel our Innocent conversation to meeting in a hotel and having sex. I will be thinking these are responsible guys, as dey are perceived to be by others, like the latest is a young Pastor. am wondering where the problem is coming from, coz I am a reserved person.

cruchenuti:
You are what you attract.

OLAJADON:

I think this is about you not them, the kind of people you attract depends on the kind of person you are.

This is not always true, most especially in this very case.

It is common sense that to an average guy out there, whether you dress like a reverent sister or an olosho, a simple 'Hi' from a woman is enough to resurrect "Johnny boy" to an unbreakable rod- hard and mighty.

So, it's never about the op as a person. Rather, it's a general phenomenon.