kimbra:
I have a male bestie have known for seven years now, nothing has happened between us and I do spend time with him alone in his apartment.

kimbra:
We've been able to deal with that. Friendship over sex.

Geeweeny:

Comments like this make me laugh, sometimes we say the friendship over sex, but we are humans, sometimes things get out of hands, from one single careless talk to a little flirting and before u know, u are banging that bestie real hard or start having a weird moment... So I will advise u bro cut d guy lose or cut her lose cos bro u r on a longest thing, if d boy is not banging her yet, he will soon n tomorrow don't be surprised to be hearing things like he's the only one that get me n knows me well blah blah n i really love him

sexybbstar:
I have a friend like that whose bestie is a guy and they both live in the same room since 100l without their parents knowledge, now they are in 300l .Whenever her boyfriend wants to visit,the guy will pack his load and return when the boyfriend leaves.Both of them are having sex and whenever the girl quarrel with her bf,this guy will even be d one to settle it and he too dey chop her punna. Wetin concerns me,I no even advice her before she label me as a bad person.

To the op, I will frankly tell you that the guy is having sex with your babe but it's a mutual agreement, they can't help but do it.If u really love her,make sure u separate her from the guy. By telling you about him is just a cover up so u won't suspect anything.Best of luck, bro.

kimbra:
I have a male bestie have known for seven years now, nothing has happened between us and I do spend time with him alone in his apartment.

kimbra:
We've been able to deal with that. Friendship over sex.

masseratti:
lolzzzz,i pity you,better distance yourself from him for good and stop telling him your escapades,that one you have is not a friend,he has crossed the line,now he is a pretender,its out of the respect he has for u,all he is doing is to.wait for the right moment,rape is loading.

Since the feeling is not mutual,just stay away its dangerous.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

More like friendship AFTER sex.
Or are you gonna say you never slept with the gy
or had an awkward moment with him?

kimbra:
I have a male bestie have known for seven years now, nothing has happened between us and I do spend time with him alone in his apartment.

kimbra:
Rape?, why do you all think a guy and a girl can't be friends without sex being involved?, it's normal for one person to develop feeling but he respects my decision.

PaARAaH:

Babe they're friends with benefits not besties

kimbra:
Let me worry about that.

Shossie:
I have a bestfriend, we served together in different local governments. I started to date a guy in his local government and I do go visit my boyfriend and my bestfriend when I know I need to see him, spend nights there and nothing happens(they both knew each other and the different levels of my relationship with them, they became friends after two months). So, I believe her.

kimbra:
Rape?, why do you all think a guy and a girl can't be friends without sex being involved?, it's normal for one person to develop feeling but he respects my decision.

masseratti:
am a guy,a word is enough for the wise,yes he respects your decisions,the day he will disrespect it.....hmmmm you will be shocked

kimbra:
Lol, not all guys think with their dick. If he had the intentions of raping me he would have done that.

SmartchoicesNG:

He WILL DEFINITELY RAPE YOU.

kimbra:
Rape?, why do you all think a guy and a girl can't be friends without sex being involved?, it's normal for one person to develop feeling but he respects my decision.

kimbra:
Mr, could you please stop quoting me.

Tokziby:


There is nothing like friendship with the opposite s*x that will make u two alone together in a room.

Whenever a man and a woman are alone in a secluded area, satan is always the third person in their midst.

Remember this, A day is coming that u two will be overwhelmed maybe through play fighting or any of u getting emotional, it will happen and u will NEVER be able to resist cos u have made him occupy a larger part in ur heart.

Don't be fooled the same way u are saying this that people are advising u not to continue, is the same way his friends will be castigating him for not making a move on u. There is no sort of friendship between a fish and a cat or Dog and leopard - its all for the chops.

You can still be friends with him but desist from being in a secluded area or alone in the room with him, body no be firewood. His mind might be saying NO but his body can be speaking another language. The body can always overpower the mind and work on autopilot, before u say jack, the did is done... and ur eyes go open... Thats the moment u say "what just happen or what have we done or lets pretend it never happen" a word is enough for the wise

SmartchoicesNG:

More like they negotiated your pussyy and reached a working compromise on your battrap

Shossie:
You were not there, so you wouldn't know.

kimbra:
Lol, not all guys think with their dick. If he had the intentions of raping me he would have done that.

Tokziby:


There is nothing like friendship with the opposite s*x that will make u two alone together in a room.

Whenever a man and a woman are alone in a secluded area, satan is always the third person in their midst.

Remember this, A day is coming that u two will be overwhelmed maybe through play fighting or any of u getting emotional, it will happen and u will NEVER be able to resist cos u have made him occupy a larger part in ur heart.

Don't be fooled the same way u are saying this that people are advising u not to continue, is the same way his friends will be castigating him for not making a move on u. There is no sort of friendship between a fish and a cat or Dog and leopard - its all for the chops.

You can still be friends with him but desist from being in a secluded area or alone in the room with him, body no be firewood. His mind might be saying NO but his body can be speaking another language. The body can always overpower the mind and work on autopilot, before u say jack, the did is done... and ur eyes go open... Thats the moment u say "what just happen or what have we done or lets pretend it never happen" a word is enough for the wise

kimbra:
Lol, so you advice I end my friendship with him?, 'cause telling me not to visit my friend is already a strain on our friendship. These advice are funny sha.

masseratti:
av got female friends that have spent the night with several times and i didnt touch them,prob with yours is,he has asked u out,you turned him down,he has told u that he is trying to resist you,those are warning signs that he is fighting temptations and you are here laughing,yea not every guys think with their dick,but this one has already gave u warning shots while acting nice guy,he is fighting ut and you not helping matters at all.

Tokziby:


I am not asking u to severe ur relationship but to be cautious of being left alone with a guy. As for u, it might be nothing but friendship. As for him its also friendship on one side but torture on the other side cos there is no greater temptation for a man than being left alone with a pretty girl that is not ur blood relation, except if the guy na impotent.
Its like saying, someone put ur best food in ur custody and told u that u can smell it but not allowed to eat from it cos its meant for someone else. And he keeps doing it every now and then. Is that not temptation?? Do u think it can go on forever without getting tempted to at least taste it, to know how it feels like??

If u think its right, oya tell ur parents about it and hear their reaction. You even said he told u one that he tried to make a move. Do u think that conscience that told him to make a move has left his body??