1........Take a trip to the drugstore.Buying a few items ahead of time can make losing your virginity a little easier. Consider picking up:Condoms, which both help prevent pregnancy and help stop the spread of sexually-transmitted infections (STIs). Even if you're on another form of birth control and you trust your partner, using a condom can erase any doubts that might make you anxious in the moment. Don't worry about buying anything that's ribbed or extra tricked-out for your first time — your biggest concern is that the condom fit.


2.........Partners should consider going together and buying a few different types of condoms and trying them on and seeing what fits best so you'll be prepared when the big moment arrives. If your partner has a latex allergy, nitrile condoms are a great alternative.


3.........Lubricant will ease a lot of the pain by reducing friction. If you're using latex condoms (which most are), do not use an oil-based lubricant, because they can weaken the latex and cause the condom to tear or break. Instead, opt for a silicone- or water-based lube. It is safe to use any type of lube with a nitrile or polyurethane condom.



4........Know what your hymen is. The hymen is a thin membrane that partially covers the vaginal opening, and almost every female is born with one. It starts to wear away over time due to a variety of activities, such as playing sports, tampon usage, menstruation or normal movement.


5....... Here's what you need to know about it as far as losing your virginity is concerned:You probably have a partial hymen. If you're a teenager, chances are that only part of your hymen is left — which is normal, particularly if you've already started having periods.


6........ If you want to investigate more, you should be able to see your hymen easily with the help of a flashlight and a hand mirror.

7.........If you do bleed, it shouldn't be very much. Any bleeding you experience after losing your virginity should not be on the same level as having a period. Instead, it should only be light spotting for a few hours after. Some girls won't bleed at all.Breaking your hymen shouldn't be overwhelmingly painful. Actually, if you do experience pain during your first time, it's probably from friction if you are not sufficiently lubricated or aroused — not because your hymen has nerve endings (spoiler: it doesn't).



8..........The good news is, although you can't control your hymen tearing, youcan control how relaxed you are.In some cases, your hymen may not break at all. It can stretch or the opening in the hymen may be large enough that the penis, intimacy gadget, or fingers inserted do not tear the hymen.



9......Get familiar with your clitoris.Contrary to what you might see in the movies, women rarely experience orgasm from penetration alone; clitoral stimulation is usually how people who are female orgasm.


10.......If you are nervous about pain, MouthAction or clitoral stimulation before penetration can relax the muscles. If you orgasm before penetration, this can alleviate any potential pain due to the flood of endorphins in the brain.

11......... Talk to your partner about engaging in MouthAction or stimulating the clitoris manually during pre-intimacy and before penetration.


#Nikkycares
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Remind me never to let my daughter come close to this OP.

Nikkyissakhutie:



#Nikkycares
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You really do

SINZ:
Remind me never to let my daughter come close to this OP.

knowledge is power.... Hypocracy is a disease

SINZ:
Remind me never to let my daughter come close to this OP.

You'd be glad if your daughter ever came close to something as educative as this. We like treating the topic of sex like it's a taboo, whereas God wants us to educate each other about its pros and cons while teaching each other the importance of abstinence. Tje OP never said boyfriend. . . Partner could be one's husband. . .

Whether you like it or not, your daughter will one day lose her hymen. The question here is: do you want her to lose it painfully or without pain?

blackberlin:


You'd be glad if your daughter ever came close to something as educative as this. We like treating the topic of sex like it's a taboo, whereas God wants us to educate each other about its pros and cons while teaching each other the importance of abstinence. Tje OP never said boyfriend. . . Partner could be one's husband. . .

Whether you like it or not, your daughter will one day lose her hymen. The question here is: do you want her to lose it painfully or with pain?

*Sobs*

Nikkyissakhutie:
knowledge is power.... Hypocracy Hypocrisy is a disease

Don't mention.

Can't even remember self

SINZ:


*Sobs*

Clown. . .

SINZ:


Don't mention.

You are a wicked people

blackberlin:

Clown. . .

Seriously, its heart wrenching

SINZ:


Seriously, its heart wrenching

Well, typos and touchscreen phones are 5 & 6. . . I don't even bother anymore nowadays.

PS: You daughter is still gonna lose her hymen.

Where should we park?

SINZ:

Don't mention.

thank you very much

99.9 percent of the gals here are deflowered