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I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by eziera: 7:53pm On Apr 19, 2017
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Apr 19, 2017
Picture or...

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by TrapHedges(m): 7:57pm On Apr 19, 2017
Aii just show us a pic of yo pretty face u know

maybe i finna approach you

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Apr 19, 2017
Upload your pix

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by greatnaija01: 8:01pm On Apr 19, 2017
SEND ME A PM and I will change that fate for you. Also I suggest you go to social gatherings ... It helps o.


eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by folanrewaju77(m): 8:02pm On Apr 19, 2017
Actually, if u wouldn't mind uploading your pix it might actually help to know the angle to tackle the situation from.
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 19, 2017
eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?
why are you complaining now? Be stronging face there like you own America nah

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by vanida6: 8:03pm On Apr 19, 2017
Miss american smiley
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by dollyjoy(f): 8:05pm On Apr 19, 2017
Come Nigeria baby, Na you go tire. tongue

most guys especially Nigerian guys living abroad go after white women more, for the obvious though, Green card!!

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Harkindeylee(m): 8:07pm On Apr 19, 2017
Mtchew... Telling us that you are pretty without pictures to backup your claims.. How do you expect us to decide now..
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by YoungBlackRico(m): 8:09pm On Apr 19, 2017
Let's see wha you look like Op.

©YBR
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Apr 19, 2017
eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?
hi, you're lying... Thank you.

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by 0ntruth: 8:16pm On Apr 19, 2017
So what do we do without seeing the pics of you?
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 19, 2017
Please, do not insult our intelligence.

If men don't approach you or rarely do, it's either you're unpleasant to look at or you've a certain repulsive attitude that's been reflected on you.

But you claim it's neither...

So stop being a bìtch and upload your picture. undecided

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by blackylola(m): 8:18pm On Apr 19, 2017
Bush meat want to catch hunter. Kindly go straight to the point YOU ARE LOOKING FOR HUSBAND

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Gshegg: 8:28pm On Apr 19, 2017
Oya judge yourself, you're either lying or an underage, men over there don't want to be seen as a paedophile.. Work on your looks sha..

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by femolacqua(m): 8:28pm On Apr 19, 2017
A picture will be nice to begin with.
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by deanoffaculty: 8:42pm On Apr 19, 2017
eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?
The problem is not whether you live in America or not.......it's from your village. If you like go to Canada or Australia, the remote control from village will get there. Sharply visit the nearest MFM.......

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Luizkid(m): 8:44pm On Apr 19, 2017
i understand ur situation cos me too i don't fancy smallish girls, but they are quite fun to be with.
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Apr 19, 2017
But where is lalasticlala sef?
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Apr 19, 2017
If you're beautiful, petite, and no man wants to approach you then the problem is from you, 'cause the average petite lady gets wooed once in a while if not often. Men are attracted by what they see, so how you dress and carry yourself matters. I'm not saying you should be on revealing clothes. Just try to change the way you do things. Do always wear a smile when people say "Hi" to you, instead of forming over seriousness.

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by dederocs(m): 9:06pm On Apr 19, 2017
Help yourself with any of the numerous Naija guy you see, Yankee got an abundance of high class exotic women, a poor black guy can have 3 fresh black American baby mama's,plus Latinos too, Wetin dey wan take Third World average looking girl do?...when their local LovePeddler and stripper fresh pass u.

Yankee guys are all about the money, they are not that marriage/family building oriented like we are

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Frolic: 9:07pm On Apr 19, 2017
So, what do u want us to do about your condition?
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by luminouz(m): 9:07pm On Apr 19, 2017
I AM LUMINOUZ!!!!! Now upload ur pic or else......
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by AngelicBeing: 9:21pm On Apr 19, 2017
Eleyi gidi gan grin
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Apr 19, 2017
vanida6:
Miss american smiley
Thank you, I nukwa Americana mtcheww.


www.eharmony.com. www.meetnigerians.com, go get your own man there and stop disturbing us here. angry
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by olusola23: 9:47pm On Apr 19, 2017
Ori re buuru nii

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Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Apr 19, 2017
You need to pray, its a spiritual something.
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by seguno2: 10:40pm On Apr 19, 2017
eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

Perhaps you look too serious and therefore scare away liverless men in the US environment of sexual assault and harassment.
You have nothing to worry about.
You should volunteer for activities that interest you and you will start meeting men who will FIRST be your friend and see how things unfold.
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by seguno2: 10:41pm On Apr 19, 2017
MhizTenderly:
You need to pray, its a spiritual something.

Are you a spiritualist?
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by seguno2: 10:44pm On Apr 19, 2017
deanoffaculty:
The problem is not whether you live in America or not.......it's from your village. If you like go to Canada or Australia, the remote control from village will get there. Sharply visit the nearest MFM.......

Pastor must wack even though they tell you that the gospel is free.
Scamming the poor in spirit.
Re: I Live In America-why Don't Men Approach Me? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 19, 2017
Do you have Kyphosis? Hunchbacked

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