Ineedinfo:
Hello Nairalander...

I hope we all had a great day.
Well...this topic is certainly for the singles. Eligible bachelors and ladies. Ladies, please don't lead guys on. If you can't picture him in your life or see him as a potential life partner- don't deceive him. Don't let him sponsor you through school, pay your bills and so forth.

Guys, if she isn't whom you could spend the rest of your life with, then leave her alone. If you don't share similar values and you're dissatisfied with the relationship- walk way now. Leave her for someone more suitable for her to find. You would in time find what you need too. Someone in sync with you. Don't just waste anyone's time when you know deep down, that you're not ready.
Here's more- http://kareninspirational.com/2017/02/21/dont-waste-anyones-time-all-in-the-name-of-relationship/

greatnaija01:
very nice thread BUT most who enter relationships simply wanna CHOP their portion WITHOUT washing the plate

GREED is what we call love these days, GREED is wanting to date someone for just the present NEEDS and EMOTIONS without caring about the FUTURE.

greatnaija01:
very nice thread BUT most who enter relationships simply wanna CHOP their portion WITHOUT washing the plate

GREED is what we call love these days, GREED is wanting to date someone for just the present NEEDS and EMOTIONS without caring about the FUTURE.

I see!

Based on your "Naive Logic" girls should only date whomever they intend to marry without going through the necessary phases of "Mental Growth" and "Adaptive Growth" that multiple relationships brings? #ignorance

Davidgrey:
I see!

Based on your "Naive Logic" girls should only date whomever they intend to marry without going through the necessary phases of "Mental Growth" and "Adaptive Growth" that multiple relationships brings? #ignorance

greatnaija01:
HOW MANY FOLKS DID YOUR PARENTS DATE AND SLEEP WITH

SO IS IT THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE NAIVE? how come you feel the mental growth and adaptive growth must come through sex or experience with multiple partners...

TELL THAT TO YOUR FUTURE DAUGHTER

greatnaija01:
very nice thread BUT most who enter relationships simply wanna CHOP their portion WITHOUT washing the plate

GREED is what we call love these days, GREED is wanting to date someone for just the present NEEDS and EMOTIONS without caring about the FUTURE.

Gshegg:
Most people go into relationships for the objective of getting married, but then you see your partner bring out a behavior which you don't like and there's nothing you can do to correct, you just have to move on and look for another partner to complement you.

Ineedinfo:
That may be true for some and such people move on when they realize things won't workout with that partner. But some would lead him or her on for years but tell friends behind his/her back, they won't settle down with such person with "these -that" character.

greatnaija01:
HOW MANY FOLKS DID YOUR PARENTS DATE AND SLEEP WITH

SO IS IT THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE NAIVE? how come you feel the mental growth and adaptive growth must come through sex or experience with multiple partners...

TELL THAT TO YOUR FUTURE DAUGHTER

Gshegg:
Time wasters!!!