YoungBlackRico:
Hell no, can't cope with a nagging partner . You can't change people and you definitely can't keep pretending you're okay with what they do all your life. You'll get pushed to the wall someday, and it will all come crashing down.

©YBR

ZarZar:


Wow, you're a saint!

Well, I've been accused of being a nag before & I'm unapologetic about it because I do not believe I ask for too much from people or in relationships in general. I'm an independent, easy going (for the most part) & don't-like-to-be-a-burden type of person, so when I do make a request about something, you best believe it is NECESSARY or URGENT. Because if it was something I could do by myself, I would have done it without asking anyone for help. And if the "nagging" concerns something about the relationship, again, I don't ask for much, so show a little consideration when I do raise an issue because it wouldn't even come up if it wasn't something that really bothers me in some way. When something bothers me, it's highly unlikely that I will let it go just because you're not acting on it. Impossible! I will keep bringing it up until it's either fixed as soon as possible or we go our separate ways because I also don't enjoy repeating myself. To me it almost feels like I'm trying to change a person or like I'm trying to force them to do things against their will, which I'd never want anyone to feel. I'm very black or white

Lionessza:




So uncomplicated.

ZarZar:


Awwww girl, I think you should learn to express yourself more. To at least give them a clue something's up. That way at least you'd know you gave them plenty of opportunity to either shape up or ship out. Me, I don't call it nagging, I call it talking If something is on my mind, it'll definitely make its way to my mouth because I'm a strong believer in communication & expressing one's thoughts.

Lionessza:



Hahahaha @ me I don't call it nagging, I call it talking .

optional1:



correct



but what's your take on guys who nag.

ZarZar:


Gurrrrl, as simple as boiling a freaking egg!

Are you a "nag"?

Lionessza:



I like something about your post

Hmm, what is that?

#morning btw

©YBR

Lionessza:



Lol. It's second nature to me. I'm a" You know what you are supposed to do, so do it " kinda person , I hate it when people can't play their part of the script .

ZarZar:



Same here. Me, it makes me mad that I even have to bring stuff up sometimes. My take, you're a grown man, you should know some things without being told. We are both adults after all, so it shouldn't feel like I'm on Kiddeo lol

YoungBlackRico:
Hmm, what is that?

#morning btw

©YBR

Lionessza:



Lol@ being on kiddeo. Exactly. I know have a low tolerance for hiccups, I believe if I priorotise something that has to do with us , then had better do the same . If we both agreed on it I don't see why I should be the only one to remember it lol , unless you agreed to it to get me off your face , then that's a big problem because I despise someone who says yes to me when they actually mean no.

luscioustrish:


That should keep her mouth busy cos I don't get why people nag

Lionessza:


This truth ;

"You can't change people and you definitely can't keep pretending you're okay with what they do all your life. You'll get pushed to the wall someday, and it will all come crashing down."

Morning to you too

ZarZar:


Exactly! It takes two, baby.

ZarZar:


Awwww girl, I think you should learn to express yourself more. To at least give them a clue something's up. That way at least you'd know you gave them plenty of opportunity to either shape up or ship out. Me, I don't call it nagging, I call it talking If something is on my mind, it'll definitely make its way to my mouth because I'm a strong believer in communication & expressing one's thoughts.

optional1:



*when two naggers are nagging at each other no communication and meaningful words will be pass across*

Been silent doesn't mean i don't talk, i do express myself when he is done nagging when his stupidity has been brought to lay down..



Top of the morning miss zar.

Lionessza:


Was he born between 23 July-22 August lol just asking

femi4:
Its a bad attitude. Ordinarily a guy is not suppose to nag. Such guys are probably insecure or have complex issue. Any lady that decides to date such guy must be extremely patient and persevere

ZarZar:


Hmmm...is that why you guys broke up or were there other issues on top of the nagging?

Morning right back, hun

optional1:


yeah that's why we ended it.. There are other issues but the nagging thing was too much...
Not ready to die young biko.

ZarZar:

Oh, I see.

optional1:
In a case where he says no premarital sex till after wedding, if finding out he is impotent? What should i do?? I can't simply leave him course he is impotent.. I believe in miracle





anyway thanks for airing your opinion....

luscioustrish:


That should keep her mouth busy cos I don't get why people nag

MrCork:

optional1:



ok lets say you don't know for now.


But imagine you dating a nagging girlfriend what will you do and how will you cope with her

akuracy:
I can't cope with a nagging woman, the relationship will all befounded someday. I hope my future wife Ada9103 will not be a nagging wife.

MrCork:

Ada9103:



Lolsssss.... Sugar boo