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Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by woye77: 11:06am On Jan 04, 2010
i guess this has been an issue that has been debated since time imemorial - is there anything wrog in a lady expressing her desire to a man if she fancies him?
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by Ben13: 11:19am On Jan 04, 2010
' don't think so.
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by kokoA(m): 11:22am On Jan 04, 2010
Nuffing wrong with it @ all
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by queenesthr(f): 11:29am On Jan 04, 2010
It tends to make the man think the lady is desperate.
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by manenof: 11:34am On Jan 04, 2010
there is nothing absolutely wrong in a lady asking a man out or making her feelings know to the man. but the word of caution here is the lady in question has to be discrete about it so that a wrong signal is not sent to the man.

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Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by marocguy(m): 11:35am On Jan 04, 2010
Nothin is wrong wit it but some ladies n even guys in naija here hav d orientatn dat it shows desperatn. I blame it on our culture sha
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by woye77: 12:34pm On Jan 04, 2010
queenesthr:

It tends to make the man think the lady is desperate.
this has always been the excuse which ladies who lack self confidence use to justify there action. When you really know who you are, no one can make you feel inferior. The only opinion that matters when it comes to dating is your opinion. Personally i believe there is nothing wrong in it - though i agree that the lady must be discreet about it - men are more concerned about the quality you bring into a relationship not the mode by which they acquire the lady
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by waleski(m): 12:41pm On Jan 04, 2010
Nothing wrong with it infact it shows dat d lady knw hw 2 get wat she wants, happened 2 me once 4 somereason maybe ego they may nt come clean but wil start as frends nd after smtime den tel u wat they feel then use style 2 ask u  either way sha it is rare with d naija gurls nwadays who believe dat guy shuld do everythg wel i neva tire 2 dey woo gurl but it is realy sexy wen a gurl woos u
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by init4dmoni(m): 1:33pm On Jan 04, 2010
nothing wrong with it but it might scare some people off tho. . undecided
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 04, 2010
Most guys will call the girl desperate.
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by elecktra(f): 12:18am On Jan 05, 2010
no i dont think anything is wrong with it i wouldn't do it though cos i no get liver nd am so scared of rejection but its ok if you have the mind some guys wont know until you break their heads, spit your mind inside and super glue it back

am good at leaving clues for a guy if am into him sha dats if he's not to dumb to see my green light
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by waleski(m): 1:10am On Jan 05, 2010
elecktra:

no i dont think anything is wrong with it i wouldn't do it though cos i no get liver nd am so scared of rejection but its ok if you have the mind some guys wont know until you break their heads, spit your mind inside and super glue it back

am good at leaving clues for a guy if am into him sha dats if he's not to dumb to see my green light
dats the mentality dat we shuld remove wuld told u u wil be rejected? gurls dnt knw dat its make the relantionship more interesting wen its not the conventional boy meets gurl scene u shuld try it go woo a guy and see if he will be stupid enugh to reject u. smiley dat mentality is so last year if u see a really fine boy wuld u sit dere wishing if only or u wuld make a move d guys are ot dat keen on noticing so make d first step its not hard
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by skfa1: 1:15am On Jan 05, 2010
Nothing wrong with it.

My GF asked me out.
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by chocomillo(f): 1:26am On Jan 05, 2010
Girls shouldn't chase, they should flirt from a distance. Guys don't like girls that just throw themselves at them cool
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by H2O2: 1:30am On Jan 05, 2010
It's tougher when girls ask me out. I have a hard time turning them down.

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Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by elecktra(f): 6:48pm On Jan 05, 2010
waleski:

dats the mentality dat we shuld remove wuld told u u wil be rejected? gurls dnt knw dat its make the relantionship more interesting wen its not the conventional boy meets gurl scene u shuld try it go woo a guy and see if he will be silly enugh to reject u. smiley dat mentality is so last year if u see a really fine boy wuld u sit dere wishing if only or u wuld make a move d guys are ot dat keen on noticing so make d first step its not hard


wat part of am scared of rejection is hard for you to comprehend am speaking for my dear self if other girls can do it fine i have nothing against it,its just my own personal thingy not to ask guys out.nd whoever told u there's nothing like rejection?? hear this; a girl in my department asked a guy out he not only gave her an outright NO cos she's kinda fat he also went about blabbing and running his mouth for all who cared to listen that she asked him out nd he said no so how last year is that ??
like i said if i see a boy i am into i give him clues if he's into me he'd follow them
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by charloski(m): 7:13pm On Jan 05, 2010
no, there is notin bad if a lady ask a guy out, which was my own case dat happens to be gurl who, toast me in the new area in parked into,
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by Pweety4me(f): 7:15pm On Jan 05, 2010
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Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by oltrice: 7:17pm On Jan 05, 2010
to me not thing wrong. it depend on the way she feel
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Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by chamotex(m): 7:32pm On Jan 05, 2010
Na today?
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by MyneWhite1(f): 7:40pm On Jan 05, 2010
Nothing wrong at all.
Re: Lady Asking A Man Out: Anything Wrong In It? by freecocoa(f): 7:54pm On Jan 05, 2010
I dnt c anytin rung in it,infact i tink its kinda mature 4 a lady 2 go 4 wat she wants,tho she has 2 be very careful how she does it sha.i wnt do it anyway 4 fear of bein turnd down,i'd rada giv him d green lyt, pray he sees it & den ask me.

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