xxxtedyxxx:

•1 Create the Right Emotions-

It is no news that women are emotional beings. To attract and to keep women attracted, you have to start thinking emotionally. For women, the concept of attraction is wholly emotional, not logical. That is why it is said that " men fall for what they see while women fall for what they hear".

So instead of asking: "How can I get her number," or "How can I get her to sleep with me," or " How can I get her to go out with me this weekend," ask " What are the unique attraction states I can get her into to make her go out with me?"

See for women it's all about states and how you make her feel. There are several attraction states you can create for women: Lust, Love, Laughter, Sadness, Feeling of Loss, Jealousy, Arousal, Trust, Comfort, Intimacy, Connection etc.

However, it is very important to create a balance. Making a girl feels only Lust and Arousal will backfire in the long run because you end up being tagged as a player or she gets to talk herself out of the whole interaction.

Also, making a woman happy all the time and giving her gifts without making her feel Lust, Love, or Arousal, will only turn you into a "Nice Guy". Do you know what happens to "Nice guys" when they try to stretch the interaction beyond the confines of friendship? They get the classic reply: " Can we just be friends," or " You are just like a big brother to me, let's just be friends."

The best stance is to give a woman a feeling of Lust, Arousal, Jealously while lacing it with feelings of Trust, Comfort and Connection.

xxxtedyxxx:
Hi Nairalanders, greetings from xxxtedyxxx.

This write up might contain some controversial viewpoints, but it's important to know that these viewpoints are what have worked for me over the years. You might not agree with some, but do not take them with levity. Inculcate them into your dating arsenal, and getyou will surely experience massive progress.

It is your job to get your dating life fixed. Nobody will do it for you. You can't continue doing the same thing, and be expecting different results. Success is not a destination, it's a journey. To begin with, here are five (5) ways you can sky rocket your success with women.

xxxtedyxxx:
Hi Nairalanders, greetings from xxxtedyxxx.

This write up might contain some controversial viewpoints, but it's important to know that these viewpoints are what have worked for me over the years. You might not agree with some, but do not take them with levity. Inculcate them into your dating arsenal, and you will surely experience massive progress.

It is your job to get your dating life fixed. Nobody will do it for you. You can't continue doing the same thing, and be expecting different results. Success is not a destination, it's a journey. To begin with, here are five (5) ways you can sky rocket your success with women.

vislabraye:


The question is : how ?

ozoebuka1:
Bullshit!!! All the time gal this gal that, na gal person go use build house? abi na gal go put food for man table

What of the things gals have to do to get a guy

firstking01:
Only reward her when she deserves it, hmmmm, i think i gotta take this home .

xxxtedyxxx:

firstking01:
Sorry, i don't do alcohol .

Bumbae1:
Nice
But
Number 4 , it shouldn't only be when she deserves it , sometimes even when she misbehaves still reward, this can indirectly correct the wrong behaviour when she sees you not being petty for example

If maybe she did something wrong and you where meant to go out for a meal or something . Still go

xxxtedyxxx:
hhahaha

Bumbae1:
Nice
But
Number 4 , it shouldn't only be when she deserves it , sometimes even when she misbehaves still reward, this can indirectly correct the wrong behaviour when she sees you not being petty for example

If maybe she did something wrong and you where meant to go out for a meal or something . Still go