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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by sisisioge: 7:40am On Apr 30, 2017
redcliff:


Leave him. Thats how my friend contracted (or whatever its called) staph from a small girl he thought was clean. Up till today he is still paying for it as the sickeness has refused to leave his system. He is now born again but he has staph

grin grin grin grin grin you are a clown!
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by Nobody: 9:13am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:
Hi everyone
I have had it upto my neck, cant take it any longer!!...Konji has finished me in my matrimonial home!!...Will be on the lookout for a side chick starting this week!!

Dated her 18months before we got married 2yrs ago..she wasnt so much into sex but atleast she allowed me give her head and we had sex quite regularly and in fun locations.
After marriage especially she got a job, her sex game kept diminishing.....she is always complaining of tiredness and all that.
Recently its been getting worse, no sex in sitting room or kitchen, she doesnt even allow me touch her breast or punny during pre-intimacy, she doesnt allow me give her head, she reluctantly gives me head. Most times, she ll just ask me to sex her so we get it done with coz she is tired and wants to sleep.
She isnt the cheating coz i v monitored her so so closely and with various tests and all that. She is really faithful.
We have sex like twice or max 3 times a week. She is always with her phone attending to her online business whenever sheis back from work.
She is so focused on her biz and work that nothing else matters. we dont have kids so not like she has so much chores todo at home.
Do u knw i masturbate almost daily usually at night when i m in the mood and she gives the usual excuses. Even the few times we have sex are really awful sex, the di*k will justbe rising and falling and climaxing is taking forever coz there is no pre-intimacy or passion and all that...u'all kmw what i mean!
Please i need advise from married folks, ladies especially - Is it wrong i request sex from my wife atleast 4 or 5 days in a week, is it wrong to request pre-intimacy and romance before sex? must it always be the me initiating sex? am i being selfish or over demanding?
Advice needed else i goto unilag or convenant uni this week in search for a new sidechick!!!
Thanks!!




You have had ur own share of sex before u got married in ur pre- marital sex adventures. Since u were eating what is reserved for the married when u two were still single.

When we warned u type spurned us. Now o setiala. I thought some of u said that pre-marital sex enhances marriage and sexual compatibility. I hope u know the truth now.


Good luck to u.

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by Nobody: 9:14am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:
Hi everyone
I have had it upto my neck, cant take it any longer!!...Konji has finished me in my matrimonial home!!...Will be on the lookout for a side chick starting this week!!

Dated her 18months before we got married 2yrs ago..she wasnt so much into sex but atleast she allowed me give her head and we had sex quite regularly and in fun locations.
After marriage especially she got a job, her sex game kept diminishing.....she is always complaining of tiredness and all that.
Recently its been getting worse, no sex in sitting room or kitchen, she doesnt even allow me touch her breast or punny during pre-intimacy, she doesnt allow me give her head, she reluctantly gives me head. Most times, she ll just ask me to sex her so we get it done with coz she is tired and wants to sleep.
She isnt the cheating coz i v monitored her so so closely and with various tests and all that. She is really faithful.
We have sex like twice or max 3 times a week. She is always with her phone attending to her online business whenever sheis back from work.
She is so focused on her biz and work that nothing else matters. we dont have kids so not like she has so much chores todo at home.
Do u knw i masturbate almost daily usually at night when i m in the mood and she gives the usual excuses. Even the few times we have sex are really awful sex, the di*k will justbe rising and falling and climaxing is taking forever coz there is no pre-intimacy or passion and all that...u'all kmw what i mean!
Please i need advise from married folks, ladies especially - Is it wrong i request sex from my wife atleast 4 or 5 days in a week, is it wrong to request pre-intimacy and romance before sex? must it always be the me initiating sex? am i being selfish or over demanding?
Advice needed else i goto unilag or convenant uni this week in search for a new sidechick!!!
Thanks!!




You have had ur own share of sex before u got married in ur pre- marital sex adventures. Since u were eating what is reserved for the married when u two were still single.

When we warned, ur type spurned us. Now o setiala. I thought some of u said that pre-marital sex enhances marriage and sexual compatibility. I hope u know the truth now.

Your family needs Jesus Christ and it will be worse when children show up (that if u did not finish your share in abortions).

Good luck to u.

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 9:38am On Apr 30, 2017
redcliff:
Lol. Ou have sex 2 times a week and you sre complaining like you have been sex stared for the past 6months. Please get your life together. Sex na food?

For a couple who are both less than 30yrsand also are looking for a child, i think twice weeekly is low!...thanks for the comment though!
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 9:42am On Apr 30, 2017
GogetterMD:
OP, 2-3x a week is a good return for a young couple such as yours. The issue is your lack of pleasurable sex, because communication is gone with the wind. When last have you surprised her? Have you sat down to have this discussion with your spouse? What about weekend legendary sessions instead of the short unpleasant weekday somethings?

If i get 3times of great sex a week, maybe i d be fine. I v talked it severally with her, i suprised her with an iphone 6 and a few other things, including a car to enable it easy for her togo and return frol work without stress of public transport....i dont do chores at home coz really there isnt much todo...
What else can i do?
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 9:45am On Apr 30, 2017
yomi007k:



No mind d yeye guy.

Op do u have a job or anything else dt ur using ur head for besides sex?

2 to 3 times a week is ALOT.


I cant even accept dt ...once a week or every 2 weeks is ok for me cos it reduces d frequency n hence makes it special.

Apparently u are not married!
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by Nobody: 9:49am On Apr 30, 2017
OP, from your write-up I deduce that both quality and quantity are a problem for you.

Some people have said that 2-3 times a week is enough. Well, it does not help if it is not for you, right? Still, you will have to compromise here because you cannot force your wife to have se.x with you every day and when she is on her period. Also consider that once you have kids, there will be times (e.g. after delivery) where there will be no se.x at all. I do not know how old you are but you will have to find ways to deal with your 'increased libido' (self-servicing is one way of doing so).

The other problem is the quality of s.ex. Your wife does not seem to enjoy it and you do not really enjoy it either. Maybe you do not touch her the right way. Has she ever had an or.gasm?
Take her out for dinner or cook for her. Make her feel relaxed and then have an open conversation with her to find out what it is that makes her reluctant to have s.ex with you.

How old is she by the way?

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 9:50am On Apr 30, 2017
cococandy:
Don't assume having no kids means less chores. Not necessarily.
Help out more at home since she's always working. For someone who's that busy to make love to 3 times a week, it means she's very strong.

You want a side chic? Lmao

I started to cook and wash dishes sometimes especially recently. i even sometimes tell her not bother cooking that we ll eat out. Did these a few times, even at dinner outside, she is on her phone undecided

What is most disheartening is when she sees sex as some sort of duty and asks u todo fast so she can sleep... angry
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by munas: 10:02am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:
Hi everyone
I have had it upto my neck, cant take it any longer!!...Konji has finished me in my matrimonial home!!...Will be on the lookout for a side chick starting this week!!

Dated her 18months before we got married 2yrs ago..she wasnt so much into sex but atleast she allowed me give her head and we had sex quite regularly and in fun locations.
After marriage especially she got a job, her sex game kept diminishing.....she is always complaining of tiredness and all that.
Recently its been getting worse, no sex in sitting room or kitchen, she doesnt even allow me touch her breast or punny during pre-intimacy, she doesnt allow me give her head, she reluctantly gives me head. Most times, she ll just ask me to sex her so we get it done with coz she is tired and wants to sleep.
She isnt the cheating coz i v monitored her so so closely and with various tests and all that. She is really faithful.
We have sex like twice or max 3 times a week. She is always with her phone attending to her online business whenever sheis back from work.
She is so focused on her biz and work that nothing else matters. we dont have kids so not like she has so much chores todo at home.
Do u knw i masturbate almost daily usually at night when i m in the mood and she gives the usual excuses. Even the few times we have sex are really awful sex, the di*k will justbe rising and falling and climaxing is taking forever coz there is no pre-intimacy or passion and all that...u'all kmw what i mean!
Please i need advise from married folks, ladies especially - Is it wrong i request sex from my wife atleast 4 or 5 days in a week, is it wrong to request pre-intimacy and romance before sex? must it always be the me initiating sex? am i being selfish or over demanding?
Advice needed else i goto unilag or convenant uni this week in search for a new sidechick!!!
Thanks!!

3 times a week is okay for you...sex is not food.

secondly,the main cause of your di.ck rising and falling and climaxing taking forever is OVER MASTURBATION.
Mastrbation is killing your nerves/muscles,so your erection wont last long,you are also probably having seminal leakage too.
Plus your di.ck is probably numb from masturbation thats why you hardly climax.

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by nnamdibig(m): 10:08am On Apr 30, 2017
Oga, having sex 3 times in a week is cool for working a working class na. If me as a man, 3 times is very cool with me. Obviously your sex urge is higher than hers you just have to control it. If you guys can have sex 3 times in a week and you can attest to the fact that she doesn't cheat and works will her phone most times when she is home, she they try na.
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by nigeriancritic1(m): 10:16am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:
Hi everyone
I have had it upto my neck, cant take it any longer!!...Konji has finished me in my matrimonial home!!...Will be on the lookout for a side chick starting this week!!

Dated her 18months before we got married 2yrs ago..she wasnt so much into sex but atleast she allowed me give her head and we had sex quite regularly and in fun locations.
After marriage especially she got a job, her sex game kept diminishing.....she is always complaining of tiredness and all that.
Recently its been getting worse, no sex in sitting room or kitchen, she doesnt even allow me touch her breast or punny during pre-intimacy, she doesnt allow me give her head, she reluctantly gives me head. Most times, she ll just ask me to sex her so we get it done with coz she is tired and wants to sleep.
She isnt the cheating coz i v monitored her so so closely and with various tests and all that. She is really faithful.
We have sex like twice or max 3 times a week. She is always with her phone attending to her online business whenever sheis back from work.
She is so focused on her biz and work that nothing else matters. we dont have kids so not like she has so much chores todo at home.
Do u knw i masturbate almost daily usually at night when i m in the mood and she gives the usual excuses. Even the few times we have sex are really awful sex, the di*k will justbe rising and falling and climaxing is taking forever coz there is no pre-intimacy or passion and all that...u'all kmw what i mean!
Please i need advise from married folks, ladies especially - Is it wrong i request sex from my wife atleast 4 or 5 days in a week, is it wrong to request pre-intimacy and romance before sex? must it always be the me initiating sex? am i being selfish or over demanding?
Advice needed else i goto unilag or convenant uni this week in search for a new sidechick!!!
Thanks!!
3 times is too much. it is not good for your health. get busy and the issue of sex will not be your priority.

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by yomi007k(m): 10:29am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:


Apparently u are not married!

No im not....u dt u r, wat do u have?
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 10:29am On Apr 30, 2017
munas:


3 times a week is okay for you...sex is not food.

secondly,the main cause of your di.ck rising and falling and climaxing taking forever is OVER MASTURBATION.
Mastrbation is killing your nerves/muscles,so your erection wont last long,you are also probably having seminal leakage too.
Plus your di.ck is probably numb from masturbation thats why you hardly climax.


Sorry i do not agree with everything you mentioned!
First, bad sex even if its 7 times a week is bad!!
second, also for couple less than 30yrs and trying to have kids.

Erection is a thing of mind and the moment, if u ever had sex with a partner who isn't game about it, or who complains or nags during sex, u'll understand!
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 10:32am On Apr 30, 2017
nigeriancritic1:

3 times is too much. it is not good for your health. get busy and the issue of sex will not be your priority.

First time i hear too much sex aint good for health!! grin
I am athletic, muscular and i work 8am to 7pm daily so i am very busy grin
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by layzie: 10:41am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:


I started to cook and wash dishes sometimes especially recently. i even sometimes tell her not bother cooking that we ll eat out. Did these a few times, even at dinner outside, she is on her phone undecided

What is most disheartening is when she sees sex as some sort of duty and askes u doto fast so she can sleep... angry

The last paragraph here is the problem..She sees it as work and thinks her job is more important. You guys seriously needs to talk about this. Your point here in this talk is not just the need for more sex but the need to procreate. Of course they go hand in hand. I think some ground rules in this your case won't be out of place...1. no work/phones when she gets home or when u both are on date...U need time for urselves to begin to rebuild ur r/ship

Note the rules are not for her alone.

Talk with her when she gets back from work, ask about work and how her day went by. Give her a massage if she says work was stressful without initiating sex afterwards. With little time, she will come around.

Try too to make yourself more appealing -gym/workout, new style of haircut/ beard, new wardrobe, underwear etc..Whatever u think may appeal to her. Take her out more on weekends- restaurants, clubs. Insist she wears something sexy while u go out and compliment her often. If she feels sexy, it's good for ur plans. Good luck

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by Lexusgs430: 10:51am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:
Hi everyone
I have had it upto my neck, cant take it any longer!!...Konji has finished me in my matrimonial home!!...Will be on the lookout for a side chick starting this week!!

Dated her 18months before we got married 2yrs ago..she wasnt so much into sex but atleast she allowed me give her head and we had sex quite regularly and in fun locations.
After marriage especially she got a job, her sex game kept diminishing.....she is always complaining of tiredness and all that.
Recently its been getting worse, no sex in sitting room or kitchen, she doesnt even allow me touch her breast or punny during pre-intimacy, she doesnt allow me give her head, she reluctantly gives me head. Most times, she ll just ask me to sex her so we get it done with coz she is tired and wants to sleep.
She isnt the cheating coz i v monitored her so so closely and with various tests and all that. She is really faithful.
We have sex like twice or max 3 times a week. She is always with her phone attending to her online business whenever sheis back from work.
She is so focused on her biz and work that nothing else matters. we dont have kids so not like she has so much chores todo at home.
Do u knw i masturbate almost daily usually at night when i m in the mood and she gives the usual excuses. Even the few times we have sex are really awful sex, the di*k will justbe rising and falling and climaxing is taking forever coz there is no pre-intimacy or passion and all that...u'all kmw what i mean!
Please i need advise from married folks, ladies especially - Is it wrong i request sex from my wife atleast 4 or 5 days in a week, is it wrong to request pre-intimacy and romance before sex? must it always be the me initiating sex? am i being selfish or over demanding?
Advice needed else i goto unilag or convenant uni this week in search for a new sidechick!!!
Thanks!!

Sex 4/5 times a week? That's about 25 long sexual marathons, according to your requirements?
Are you a machine? Is she a machine? Is sex food that fills the stomach up?
It's probably because you are expecting too much, your lovely wife don lock up...........
Sex pleasures is about communication, speak to your wife in a manner you did, during your dating months, and explain to her your concerns (not in a military voice or attitude).
Some wives don't initiate sex, unless they are very very honey. Why don't you hold your body for 2 months and see if she initiates sex (in the lack of sex period, go to the gym and keep fit in anticipation)?
If you want sidechicks, you would not be the first, neither would you be the last (it would cost you financially and otherwise). If you can afford it, take the gamble (and make sure you lovely wife does not catch you)..........
Good Luck.....
NB: If all fails, both of you should visit a sex therapist.....
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by Lexusgs430: 11:03am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:
Hi everyone
I have had it upto my neck, cant take it any longer!!...Konji has finished me in my matrimonial home!!...Will be on the lookout for a side chick starting this week!!

Dated her 18months before we got married 2yrs ago..she wasnt so much into sex but atleast she allowed me give her head and we had sex quite regularly and in fun locations.
After marriage especially she got a job, her sex game kept diminishing.....she is always complaining of tiredness and all that.
Recently its been getting worse, no sex in sitting room or kitchen, she doesnt even allow me touch her breast or punny during pre-intimacy, she doesnt allow me give her head, she reluctantly gives me head. Most times, she ll just ask me to sex her so we get it done with coz she is tired and wants to sleep.
She isnt the cheating coz i v monitored her so so closely and with various tests and all that. She is really faithful.
We have sex like twice or max 3 times a week. She is always with her phone attending to her online business whenever sheis back from work.
She is so focused on her biz and work that nothing else matters. we dont have kids so not like she has so much chores todo at home.
Do u knw i masturbate almost daily usually at night when i m in the mood and she gives the usual excuses. Even the few times we have sex are really awful sex, the di*k will justbe rising and falling and climaxing is taking forever coz there is no pre-intimacy or passion and all that...u'all kmw what i mean!
Please i need advise from married folks, ladies especially - Is it wrong i request sex from my wife atleast 4 or 5 days in a week, is it wrong to request pre-intimacy and romance before sex? must it always be the me initiating sex? am i being selfish or over demanding?
Advice needed else i goto unilag or convenant uni this week in search for a new sidechick!!!
Thanks!!

Sex 4/5 times a week? That's about 25 long sexual marathons, according to your requirements?
Are you a machine? Is she a machine? Is sex food that fills the stomach up?
It's probably because you are expecting too much, your lovely wife don lock up...........
Sex pleasures is about communication, speak to your wife in a manner you did, during your dating months, and explain to her your concerns (not in a military voice or attitude).
Some wives don't initiate sex, unless they are very very honey. Why don't you hold your body for 2 months and see if she initiates sex (in the lack of sex period, go to the gym and keep fit in anticipation)?
If you want sidechicks, you would not be the first, neither would you be the last (it would cost you financially and otherwise). If you can afford it, take the gamble (and make sure you lovely wife does not catch you).......... Make sure you don't bring take away home. Very special STD's laced with better curry and thyme..
Good Luck.....
NB: If all fails, both of you should visit a sex therapist.....
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by nigeriancritic1(m): 11:09am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:


First time i hear too much sex aint good for health!! grin
I am athletic, muscular and i work 8am to 7pm daily so i am very busy grin
I am a Biochemist. besides, too much of everything is bad. Does she have the emotional and physical strenght to indulge as you are.
Myself. I do have it like 3 days interval yet most time i let her be.
Mind you, i met my wife 20 years ago while I was just 16. it is only a minute fraction of women are nymphomaniac and obviously your wife is not among.
Think you are made for polygamy and that is where you are headed. Not a bad idea though! What happens if your wife just deliver and need a break of 2 - 3 months. Would you rape her female siblings that comes around. Go get a life bro!

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by optional1(f): 11:11am On Apr 30, 2017
redcliff:


Leave him. Thats how my friend contracted (or whatever its called) staph from a small girl he thought was clean. Up till today he is still paying for it as the sickeness has refused to leave his system. He is now born again but he has staph


you will never know what you have and value it untill you let it go....

Op OYO oh

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by Lexusgs430: 11:12am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:


I started to cook and wash dishes sometimes especially recently. i even sometimes tell her not bother cooking that we ll eat out. Did these a few times, even at dinner outside, she is on her phone undecided

What is most disheartening is when she sees sex as some sort of duty and askes u doto fast so she can sleep... angry

Just ensure that sidechicks don't get pregnant before wife.
Or else, that looming world War 111 between USA and North Korea, would now become world War 1111. World War 111, would commence in your living room, kitchen (and all the other places, you wanna subject your wife to sex marathon regimes)......
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by GogetterMD(m): 11:22am On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:


If i get 3times of great sex a week, maybe i d be fine. I v talked it severally with her, i suprised her with an iphone 6 and a few other things, including a car to enable it easy for her togo and return frol work without stress of public transport....i dont do chores at home coz really there isnt much todo...
What else can i do?
What was the outcome of your husband-wife discussions?
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by AVECDEO: 11:29am On Apr 30, 2017
redcliff:
Lol. Ou have sex 2 times a week and you sre complaining like you have been sex stared for the past 6months. Please get your life together. Sex na food?
I hate you....i really hate you....you're a home destroyer....i bet you're not married.....guy man I just hate for that evil comment........


Inbtw check your body chemistry very well to make sure its working perfectly.....the MAN needs to be served daily,fairly and regularly.


And you should know its food..infact nah balance diet that should be taken and given morning,afternoon , evening and its for real "mens"

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 11:43am On Apr 30, 2017
layzie:


The last paragraph here is the problem..She sees it as work and thinks her job is more important. You guys seriously needs to talk about this. Your point here in this talk is not just the need for more sex but the need to procreate. Of course they go hand in hand. I think some ground rules in this your case won't be out of place...1. no work/phones when she gets home or when u both are on date...U need time for urselves to begin to rebuild ur r/ship

Note the rules are not for her alone.

Talk with her when she gets back from work, ask about work and how her day went by. Give her a massage if she says work was stressful without initiating sex afterwards. With little time, she will come around.

Try too to make yourself more appealing -gym/workout, new style of haircut/ beard, new wardrobe, underwear etc..Whatever u think may appeal to her. Take her out more on weekends- restaurants, clubs. Insist she wears something sexy while u go out and compliment her often. If she feels sexy, it's good for ur plans. Good luck

Great thanks for this!!
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by 3kachi4u: 11:50am On Apr 30, 2017
nigeriancritic1:

I am a Biochemist. besides, too much of everything is bad. Does she have the emotional and physical strenght to indulge as you are.
Myself. I do have it like 3 days interval yet most time i let her be.
Mind you, i met my wife 20 years ago while I was just 16. it is only a minute fraction of women are nymphomaniac and obviously your wife is not among.
Think you are made for polygamy and that is where you are headed. Not a bad idea though! What happens if your wife just deliver and need a break of 2 - 3 months. Would you rape her female siblings that comes around. Go get a life bro!

Well we are all different! For me, sex twice a week doesnt work....not to talk when its awful sex!...If i chose to be polygamous in order to avoid adultery with side chick, then so be it, even God wouldn't frown at it...
And u dont need to tell me to get a life... angry
i think u need more vibrancy in ur life if sex twice a week works for u grin
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by redcliff: 1:10pm On Apr 30, 2017
AVECDEO:
I hate you....i really hate you....you're a home destroyer....i bet you're not married.....guy man I just hate for that evil comment........


Inbtw check your body chemistry very well to make sure its working perfectly.....the MAN needs to be served daily,fairly and regularly.


And you should know its food..infact nah balance diet that should be taken and given morning,afternoon , evening and its for real "mens"

Okay o. Oga sex na food. Chop am well.
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by cococandy(f): 4:07pm On Apr 30, 2017
Apart from the sex issue I think she needs to work less so that you guys can have more family time together. Not just for sex.

But I still think 2-3 times a week is okay except if the quality is poor (which you have said it is).
However considering infidelity is not the answer.

And it speaks to deeper issues between you guys than just the sexual issues.

Maybe consider counseling? I don't have the qualifications to make adequate diagnosis of your situation and proffer a solution.



3kachi4u:


I started to cook and wash dishes sometimes especially recently. i even sometimes tell her not bother cooking that we ll eat out. Did these a few times, even at dinner outside, she is on her phone undecided

What is most disheartening is when she sees sex as some sort of duty and asks u todo fast so she can sleep... angry
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by smellingmenses: 5:06pm On Apr 30, 2017
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by omerta07(m): 5:15pm On Apr 30, 2017
When a man...a married man for that matter "begs" for sex from his wife then its shameful!!! Bad sex leads to breakups whether we believe or not. Talk to your wife Bro...get to know her reasons...spend more time with her outdoors...beach...sit outs...engage her romantically...spice up your relationship more...and if that fails...God help you.
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by kepstone: 5:15pm On Apr 30, 2017
To me this is total rubbish rubbish. So work is more important to ur wife than her marital duty to he husband. Y are so many ladies so selfish this day it's all about them. A man needs sex not want sex, sex is d core need of a man becos God gave him the seed to sow. He is married legally for that matter and both if u took marital vow not to deny urself of sex and ur bodies. Now ur wife has the key to ur pleasure zone u are begging for what u paid for and all she has to say is work , work and I am tired. My business my business. How on earth will a sane woman who loves her husband and valued her marriage gives this excuse for crying out loud. Some are saying here 2 times a week is even asking too much. Is like u don't know what d power of sex can do to a man who is truly sexually satisfied, it has d capacity to make him reach his goals, make him conquer challenges, make him be faithful to his wife and make him love her. I won't take this crap from my wife no I won't at all. U will have to give me sex 3-4 times a week, I paid for it I own it and I deserve it and I love her enough to know that this is my needs that needs to be fulfilled. Some women will use there foolishness and and selfishness to destroy their marriage. God will not be happy with the man or woman who deny their spouses sex no he won't be. So many marital issues this days becos of sex let's trash this one's and for all a man need sex. No matter how u roll in tongues and spit fire and anoiting sex is needed in every marriage and adequate one for that matter no one should deny their spouse sex. God help us, Oga talk to ur wife oh she is on the wrong lane. U married her to enjoy her for sex as well in as much as u love her, how can u be maturbating while married is that too not a sin. She is leading u to do so and u are quiet, pls don't cheat on her but talk to her in love and patience with respect. Love is all about compromise, if she truly values ur marriage and honour ur vow u both took on the alter, pls let her keep her business aside and work her marriage if not bro I smell trouble. Men wifey future wifey no play this game with me oh, enogo work.
Hope she is not cheating

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by smellingmenses: 5:16pm On Apr 30, 2017
omerta07:
When a man...a married man for that matter "begs" for sex from his wife then its shameful!!! Bad sex leads to breakups whether we believe or not. Talk to your wife Bro...get to know her reasons...spend more time with her outdoors...beach...sit outs...engage her romantically...spice up your relationship more...and if that fails...God help you.
She's probably cheating already

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Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by achieverme(m): 6:14pm On Apr 30, 2017
redcliff:
Lol. Ou have sex 2 times a week and you sre complaining like you have been sex stared for the past 6months. Please get your life together. Sex na food?

In marriage, sex is food
Re: I Will Cheat On My Wife From This Week-help Needed!! by Nobody: 6:31pm On Apr 30, 2017
3kachi4u:
Hi everyone
I have had it upto my neck, cant take it any longer!!...Konji has finished me in my matrimonial home!!...Will be on the lookout for a side chick starting this week!!

Dated her 18months before we got married 2yrs ago..she wasnt so much into sex but atleast she allowed me give her head and we had sex quite regularly and in fun locations.
After marriage especially she got a job, her sex game kept diminishing.....she is always complaining of tiredness and all that.
Recently its been getting worse, no sex in sitting room or kitchen, she doesnt even allow me touch her breast or punny during pre-intimacy, she doesnt allow me give her head, she reluctantly gives me head. Most times, she ll just ask me to sex her so we get it done with coz she is tired and wants to sleep.
She isnt the cheating coz i v monitored her so so closely and with various tests and all that. She is really faithful.
We have sex like twice or max 3 times a week. She is always with her phone attending to her online business whenever sheis back from work.
She is so focused on her biz and work that nothing else matters. we dont have kids so not like she has so much chores todo at home.
Do u knw i masturbate almost daily usually at night when i m in the mood and she gives the usual excuses. Even the few times we have sex are really awful sex, the di*k will justbe rising and falling and climaxing is taking forever coz there is no pre-intimacy or passion and all that...u'all kmw what i mean!
Please i need advise from married folks, ladies especially - Is it wrong i request sex from my wife atleast 4 or 5 days in a week, is it wrong to request pre-intimacy and romance before sex? must it always be the me initiating sex? am i being selfish or over demanding?
Advice needed else i goto unilag or convenant uni this week in search for a new sidechick!!!
Thanks!!

Ahn ahn, Aye Mi ! Temi Bami.

You want to kill her ni, sex every 4 to 5 days of the week.

Please leave her alone ooooo, don't comman kill someone's daughter because of your prick that can't stay in one place.

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