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Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by losak9111(m): 8:54pm On May 02, 2017 |
STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE There are fifteen stupid things a Wife can do to mess up her marriage, I want you to check them carefully and avoid them. 1) DARING HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER: You block the door way, and then dare him to beat you and see what will happen. Lots of women have done this in the past and they end up regretting it. It is unwise to do this. 2) DARING HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN: You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it 3) NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED: “I am married, who is looking at me” That was the defense of Mrs Layi when she was confronted for the reason why she dressed so shabbily. It is the mistake of most careless married women and it’s a major mistake you can make 4) DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY: You are a career woman; you feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His secretary, colleagues, and girls in church are begging him to come but you padlock your skirt. I can see danger signal. 5) LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO CATER FOR: “My friend please be my eye as I travelled for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids” That was Mrs Rosa when she made the journey she will later regret all her life. By the time she came back her friend had really helped her by sleeping with her husband. She later eloped with the man, leaving her own husband and two children. It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active but Godless friend. 6) LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER HOUSE MAID: Your maid is the one that cooks, cleans the house, and cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid, all you do is to shout and back orders, nobody will snatch your husband you are the one graciously giving him to those that need him. 7) EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID: She is fully grown, well-endowed in the back and very tantalizing in the front, dresses like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid? What a mistake! EMPLOYING HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER: Employing a house girl more beautiful than them is a major technical mistake most women make. In the process many of them used their money to employ a rival for themselves. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid. 9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND: Your husband is growing; you are sitting down at home eating. He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman. Your husband is on twitter, facebook, whatshap, skype etc; the only thing you know about phone is to receive and make call. Your husband is talking about stock market; you only talk about tomato market. He is talking about Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables. 10) FAILING TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD: A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly. Don’t make this mistake, be prayerful, hand over your family to God. May you never labor in vain! 11) FIGHING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW: You may fight your Mother-in-law dirty and think you can win, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts. 12) TELLING HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER SEX LIFE: when you tell your friend about your sex life she can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. She can even know your husband “turn on” and use it against him and grab your husband. Most women have carelessly lost their husband as they complain to their friends “my husband is too demanding, he does not know anything but sex, I’m not a horse, I can’t kill myself” A friend will pick information like this and cover things up where you’ve been failing. 13) REPORTING HER HUSBAND TO HIS MUM: It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will end up hurting you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum. 14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF THEIR HUSBANDS: Many wives do abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby between themselves and their husband, making the man to feel lost in his own house. 15) USING SEX WRONGLY: sex is supposed to bind you together, it supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention. Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation; some use it for trade by barter. Some wives will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” this is very bad. Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even wear jean knickers to bed. If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also.May God not let us use our hand to destroy our own marriage.. 1 Like
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Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Caricature(f): 8:57pm On May 02, 2017 |
Now this is a good use of LISTS & WAYS. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by dingbang(m): 9:09pm On May 02, 2017 |
Women will always be women 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Epositive(m): 9:15pm On May 02, 2017 |
16. she fully depends on her husband both mentally and financially 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 02, 2017 |
If she blocks the door way daring you to beat her. Simply push her to the oza room 'cause that's the best beating she needs at that moment. Don't tell me we don't have such romantic men in Nigeria. Why would a digital man marry an analogue wife?. Just wondering. BTW, nice list. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by YoungBlackRico(m): 9:29pm On May 02, 2017 |
Now this is a sensible thread. Nice points Op. ©YBR 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by NaeChris: 9:34pm On May 02, 2017 |
I expected feminists to as usuall attack OP, but i am yet to find. Things are getting better. Our women are now getting sense. 2 Likes |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Splinz(m): 9:35pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra: Yowaaa... Walai you are veli veli good in the oza room mattaias. Nagode. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:35pm On May 02, 2017 |
that ur number 7 sha i am yet to see a maid like dat 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:38pm On May 02, 2017 |
Splinz:Lol, that would soothe her. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by 18million: 9:38pm On May 02, 2017 |
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Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by enuk80(m): 9:39pm On May 02, 2017 |
pointless 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:41pm On May 02, 2017 |
18million:jude jude..wats cooking? 1 Like
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Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by 18million: 9:44pm On May 02, 2017 |
lefulefu:i dey oooo , been busy small , how things now? 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Eddygourdo(m): 9:44pm On May 02, 2017 |
very nice list. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by NaeChris: 9:45pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra:Today its a form of romance or men(naija men) are not romantic, tomorrow they say the man raped his wife. The next thing you hear, the woman don cut his joystick. If i say i no dey fear, i dey lie. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:48pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra: The urge sef no go come 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:48pm On May 02, 2017 |
18million:everything"s fine.congrat on dat ur job interview. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by 18million: 9:49pm On May 02, 2017 |
lefulefu:thanks bro , 2017 na we get am snakes full this forum 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 02, 2017 |
NaeChris:What happened to your sense of humour?. On a serious note, some men know how to make it happen at such times. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 02, 2017 |
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Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 02, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:Try it with your babe and see what'll happen. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:02pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra: Your bf don do am to u before abi 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by NaeChris: 10:06pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra:Well, i hope to fall into the right hands sha. But the question is, will the woman understand at suchh critical time? Talking of when there is tension. They say ''kiss her when she is angry'' or like you said, drag her to the other room, eh its good, but how many women will understand the man't trick? For me its like putting your hand inside lioness mouth, hoping you won't get hurt. Na risk o. She dey vex you wan(drag am) go the other room. Hmmmm. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 10:14pm On May 02, 2017 |
NaeChris:You know two people can't be mad at the same time. If she's pissed at you and you think the rants is unnecessary try hugging her. Some women will succumb to the hug while others won't. So I think that's possible. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 10:15pm On May 02, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:Hug, that one worked on me. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by NaeChris: 10:26pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra:Yes, i d' prefer a hug as it is has lesser risk. But here you go again; you said 'Some women will succumb to hug, why others won't'. Which one do other succumb to? I know why am asking. My head is precious to me o. Make she nor 'broke' my head. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by NaeChris: 10:29pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra:Unless there is how to go about the hug. Bible say ''its better to dey ontop zink than to live with an angry woman'' if na oyinbo, i fit agree. I see thesame reason why they(oyinbo babes) accept flowers as gift, but it scarcely accepted here. Different mindset. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 10:33pm On May 02, 2017 |
NaeChris:Have you heard of making up after a fight?. When I said you should push her to the oza room I didn't say you should rape her or rough handle her. From a hug, you kiss and then to other things. Must I teach you?. But, it's relative. You know your spouses soft spot. 2 Likes |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by Nobody: 10:39pm On May 02, 2017 |
NaeChris:It depends on the situation surrounding the fight. Women are women worldwide. So, let's keep that oyinbo woman's mindset aside. Are you telling me that white women got soft minds while African women don't?. Women are emotional. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by NaeChris: 10:41pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra:Lol. I know how to do those ones. But something tells me it may not work every time depending on the magnitude of her anger. I had better make up after the fight. She may need some time. I guess every woman will love that, but they need time to adjust to the mood that suites the other room. Like i said ealier, based on the magnitude of her anger. Not immediately. 1 Like |
Re: Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage by NaeChris: 10:47pm On May 02, 2017 |
kimbra:Just thesame way ladies feel majority of african men are not romantic, yes, i agree, most niaja men, will not even remember to hug her, talk of taking her to the other room. Similarly, african men have thesame for white ladies with respect to being romantic. It seem to be 'safer' with them, than with african women. Atleast we dey watch film na. 1 Like |
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