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Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Nobody: 11:24pm On Feb 24, 2018 |
So i |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 11:57pm On Feb 24, 2018 |
stoyaldeway:you only whine about what you didn't get but didn't say what you gave to him. That's about as selfish as it can be. |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Originalsly: 12:39am On Feb 25, 2018 |
nigerialog: A man setting out looking for the attributes listed is setting out looking for a woman to marry...not a wife.....as in he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing. Both parties being physically attracted to each other is not the most important thing to consider for a successful marriage.... that's most important when it comes to one night stands... or short term relationships. That physical attraction can disappear overnight. I may be attracted to the most beautiful girl in the city.... but a few days or weeks later see her in her element...shouting at her parents... spitting at the handicapped. ... that physical attraction will disappear. Many men have married such women.... and when they begin to live as man and wife.... her true colours come out.... then...divorce. Women marry men.....physical attraction ...start living together... finds out the man is a wife beater...then...divorce. When love or trust begin to fade...so will the marriage. |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Originalsly: 12:51am On Feb 25, 2018 |
gentlegenius:Bro...after saying what you said. ...was all good until the above! Don't you think you can manipulate her feelings because she is young?...inexperienced?..unexposed? You need to double check..... I guess this is the type of marriage decisions OP is warning about.... marriage decisions that have a high risk of ending in divorce. 1 Like |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Jman06(m): 1:29am On Feb 25, 2018 |
Any man who banks on a lady's physical attraction to him as a basis for a blissful marriage is on a very long thing! Women are usually confused about what attracts them to a guy and so the attraction is usually erratic, coming on and off depending on her mood and the general perception of her friends about the guy. Therefore, a woman's attraction is not reliable in sustaining a marriage. This is why a man should rather look out for a lady with good character and who is respectful and then learn how to work on her emotions at any point in time to get her in the mood for romance. Typing from experience, i have had cases where an aunt of mine claimed to be madly in love with a man, rejected all counsels for her not to marry the man, went ahead to marry him, but after having her first and second issues, things took a different turn and the once lovey-dovey couple started living like cat and dog. This op is lame to think that those couples who are getting divorced were never physically attracted to each other. As a matter of fact, most couples who get divorced were once madly in love with each other and this love blinded them from their lovers real characters. Hence, when the attraction wanes, reality dawns on them and they begin to see their partner's true colour. So, guys please never get carried away when she begins to profess love to you and think that you can capitalize on that to manipulate her to your advantage in marriage. It never works!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Nobody: 11:26am On Feb 25, 2018 |
SonsOfLiverpool:My dear,biko nu..How is my definition as to 'attraction in relationships' connected to whinning or what he gave or did not give.. You see...i can interpret the message just incase we are getting eachother wrong.. '' I was NOT attracted to Oga for one day"! |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 2:59pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
stoyaldeway:yeah well said. Like there has ever been a time in the 21st century where souls attract people? |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Obodo999(m): 9:25pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
Good thread |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by gentlegenius(m): 12:32pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
Originalsly:I think you are right, and I was wrong. I finally discovered her true colors... She was only pretending to respect me because of all the help and assistance she was getting from me. Pretence doesn't last for ever. So, I dumped her long time ago and move on with my life. |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by gentlegenius(m): 12:37pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
Jman06:I agree with you intoto 1 Like |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by newslifeop: 12:43pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
Oh |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by monex(m): 12:44pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
darbeelicous: actually OP is putting the blame solely on Men you need to read it completely |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by monex(m): 12:47pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
Originalsly: few people have ever been able to develop agape for their significant other without first starting from eros 1 Like |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Curvinus(m): 1:16pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
Op you need to realize that human beings, both men and women respond to different social dynamics. I have had girls who were passionately attracted to me almost to the point of idolization. But as soon as the social dynamics changed - maybe she got a better job, met a hotter guy, moved location or some other issue, the whole thing just went down. My personal understanding and conclusion is that nature did not design us humans to be sexually exclusive to one person. Marriage was invented to advance the course of civilization and to organize the society. But our natural instincts are not predisposed to be mutually exclusive to each other except in the situation of extreme scarcity of options. Humanity is really too delicate to withstand the amorous pull of nature. |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Originalsly: 6:56pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
monex:Common now with social media....people fall in love from the inside out! Right here on NL ones be falling in love with others without laying an eye on them! |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by monex(m): 9:24am On Feb 27, 2018 |
Originalsly: eros doesnt neccesarily have to do with looks. i know ladies who are more attracted to text and speech than looks. 1 Like |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Originalsly: 10:18am On Feb 27, 2018 |
monex:Exactly my point! |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by Obierika(m): 9:14pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
What the OP said about marriages in the eastern part of Nigeria has a lot of truth in it |
Re: Be Double Sure She Is Attracted To You Before You Marry Her... Or Pay Later! by fancy4eve(f): 10:19pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Most men re becoming too lazy in our society, u will see dem doing well ND after dey get married to a hard working lady, dey turn d woman into bread winner, now use dere money 2 go after gals, drinks nd all dat. Gone re does days wen women re been patient on dere husband, dis tym our women has wisen up nd dey re not ready 2 suffer for any body. Who lyk suffer |
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