Seun:
There's no good reason for female atheist to marry a devout Christian or Muslim. It is highly unnecessary, because for every female atheist there are at least 10 male atheists. Also, you would be miserable, because major religions teach that wives should "submit" to their husbands.

I am very sure a lot of these atheist girls here are not opposed to the idea of submitting to their husbands when they get married. Some might hate the word but long for the very arrangement that puts them in that position -most of them long for a mate who is the provider. That is a position of power that tends to demand submission. You might believe it came from religion but there are atheists who believe women are wired that way by evolution- to seek the strong dominant male that can protect and provide for them and that they can in turn submit to. Don't pay too much mind to the things they say about submissiveness, rather look out for the decisions they make.

Born2Freak:
I am honestly dreaming of a humanist wedding outdoors

You can marry brother Thomas. There a lot if atheists to choose from here.

Born2Freak:

In this country, marriage for an atheist is a difficult thing. 90% of the available single ladies and gentlemen are religious. To be precise, the religious people would mostly be either christians or muslims.

I for one, do not want to get married in a church. Who has time for couple's counselling. Who has time to waste in 2 hours sermon about marriage?

Also, for a woman, I do not want to be beaten to death by an angry fiancee over not going to their church or mosque.


Life is short.

Quick question. Do you by chance stay in Ibadan?

KaBabs1:


Quick question. Do you by chance stay in Ibadan?

Na swear? God forbid

ilynem:

You can marry brother Thomas. There a lot if atheists to choose from here.

Brother Thomas?

Born2Freak:


Na swear? God forbid

Too bad. We for just link up or something

Atheists passing through a lot when it comes to relationship in this country...

KaBabs1:


Too be. We for just link up or something

and do what? Eat amala at Bodija?

KaBabs1:


Quick question. Do you by chance stay in Ibadan?

The hustle is real

donnie:
Wouldn't that also mean that there's scarcity of single women to marry among the atheist fold. Meaning also that some Christian ladies stand the risk of marrying atheists.

Well, yes, but there are many women who are barely religious and would be quite happy to be married to atheists. These women have serious doubts about religion, but they continue to practice it moderately simply because they are used to it or haven't considered leaving it.

Seun:

Well, yes, but there are many women who are barely religious and would be quite happy to be married to atheists. These women have serious doubts about religion, but they continue to practice it moderately simply because they are used to it or haven't considered leaving it.

Provide evidence for this belief .

WORLDPEACE:
I am very sure a lot of these atheist girls here are not opposed to the idea of submitting to their husbands when they get married.

I think the idea of one person being compelled to submit to another person for her entire life is incredibly sad. No one should live that way. l don't want my wife to obey me, but I want her to be reasonable and rational and logical. That is all you need. You don't need a slave for life.

Seun:

I think the idea of one person being compelled to submit to another person for her entire life is incredibly sad. No one should live that way. l don't want my wife to obey me, but I want her to be reasonable and rational and logical. That is all you need. You don't need a slave for life.

I am not talking about what YOU think they need. We are talking about what THEY need. Is that not what's important? They are not being compelled if that's what they desire, are they?

Seun:

I think the idea of one person being compelled to submit to another person for her entire life is incredibly sad. No one should live that way. l don't want my wife to obey me, but I want her to be reasonable and rational and logical. That is all you need. You don't need a slave for life.

North Korea's president Kim Jong-un , an atheist , has subjected his wife to a life of misery . She is totally unhappy with her marriage . There were even reports that he has killed her and now uses a doppelganger in her stead .

Stalin's second wife , Nadezhda Alliluyeva, was driven to commit suicide because Stalin was cruel to her and even brutalized her .

Both men are atheists who hated God and religion .

You have no point .

KingEbukasBlog:


North Korea's president Kim Jong-un , an atheist , has subjected his wife to a life of misery . She is totally unhappy with her marriage . There were even reports that he has killed her and now uses a doppelganger in her stead .

Stalin's second wife , Nadezhda Alliluyeva, was driven to commit suicide because Stalin was cruel to her and even brutalized her .

Both men are atheists who hated God and religion .

You have no point .

i'm amazed by how often you lie. Really! Isn't it ironic for a so-called christian?

Stupidity reigns supreme in these parts. Lawd knows I can't marry an atheist 'cos they'll prolly be the cause of my death. Buncha spiritually dead people

WORLDPEACE:
I am not talking about what YOU think they need. We are talking about what THEY need. Is that not what's important?

What men need and what women need are equally important; neither is more important than the other. I don't think any human being desires or prefers to play second fiddle to another human being for life. If I am wrong about that, women should speak up and correct me. Many women resign themselves to it and try to cope with it, because that's what our society expects, but they would all prefer to be equal partners.

AccidentalGenius:
i'm amazed by how much you lie. Really!

False accusations won't fill the gap ignorance left . Make your own research .

According to researches , atheists are more likely to have failed marriages . The divorce rates in atheist countries are incredibly high . And women are exposed to domestic violence because they are seen as inferiors in these atheist countries . Also , there's a high rate of reported rape cases in atheist nations .

The thing is , Seun wants to give us the impression that religious women are unhappy in their marriages simply because they are required to show deference to their men but in reality women who are married to atheists are prone to rape , domestic violence and suicide .

Plus , look at the successful women in the world and show me how many of them are married to atheists or are atheists themselves . We can start scanning from Nigeria .

Rubbish

Seun:

What men need and what women need are equally important; neither is more important than the other. I don't think any human being desires or prefers to play second fiddle to another human being for life. If I am wrong about that, women should speak up and correct me. Many women resign themselves to it and try to cope with it, because that's what our society expects, but they would all prefer to be equal partners.

I have not seen any correct me either. Equality is not necessarily fair. To each according to their need is fairness. We want fairness for everyone, not equality. Many women despise equality. Most desire a man they can look up to who is way above their level in many ways.

KingEbukasBlog:


False accusations won't fill the gap ignorance left . Make your own research .

According to researches , atheists are more likely to have failed marriages . The divorce rates in atheist countries are incredibly high . And women are exposed to domestic violence because they are seen as inferiors in these atheist countries . Also , there's a high rate of reported rape cases in atheist nations .

The thing is , Seun wants to give us the impression that religious women are unhappy in their marriages simply because they are required to show deference to their men but in reality women who are married to atheists are prone to rape , domestic violence and suicide .

Plus , look at the successful women in the world and show me how many of them are married to atheists or are atheists themselves . We can start scanning from Nigeria .

Rubbish

i guess pastor chris oyakilome didn't get the memo about christians having a more succesful marriage. You lie alot

WORLDPEACE:

I have not seen any correct me either. Equality is not necessarily fair. To each according to their need is fairness. We want fairness for everyone, not equality. Many women despise equality. Most desire a man they can look up to who is way above their level in many ways.

Women have the propensity - its natural - to desire men who would dominate in most areas of their lives . Biologically speaking, it has nothing to do with religion . Religion just reminded women there .

Its funny how this eluded Seun , an evolutionist .

AccidentalGenius:
i guess pastor chris oyakilome didn't get the memo about christians having a more succesful marriage. You lie alot

Nonsense . I never said a Christian can't have a failed marriage ( of course , if you are derelict in your part in your marriage , it will fail) ; according to researches , atheists are more likely to have failed marriages . Their women are more likely to be involved in domestic violence than any other group .

SarahBonetta:
Stupidity reigns supreme in these parts. Lawd knows I can't marry an atheist 'cos they'll prolly be the cause of my death. Buncha spiritually dead people

True . Marry an atheist and wait for your immediate demise . Hold unto God sista

KingEbukasBlog:


Women have the propensity - its natural - to desire men who would dominate in most areas of their lives . Biologically speaking, it has nothing to do with religion . Religion just reminded women there .

Its funny how this eluded Seun , an evolutionist .

Don't mind Seun. When he is defending atheism he can be a religious fanatic.

KingEbukasBlog:


Nonsense . I never said a Christian can't have a failed marriage ( of course , if you are derelict in your part in your marriage , it will fail) ; according to researches , atheists are more likely to have failed marriages . Their women are more likely to be involved in domestic violence than any other group .

mercy aigbe must have been an atheist.

KingEbukasBlog:


Nonsense . I never said a Christian can't have a failed marriage ( of course , if you are derelict in your part in your marriage , it will fail) ; according to researches , atheists are more likely to have failed marriages . Their women are more likely to be involved in domestic violence than any other group .

I don't know if you are trolling or you suffer from a condition that makes you lie every now and then.

If anything, the evidence points to Christians divorcing at a higher rate than other religions or beliefs in the USA.

Ishilove:

The hustle is real

Waiting for the day you post something sensible.

WORLDPEACE:

Don't mind Seun. When he is defending atheism he can be a religious fanatic.

Its more shocking that he has poor arguments to support his atheistic beliefs and oblivious to facts to confute them . In addition to biology , there's tradition . In most traditions men are seen as superior to women and women are required by culture to submit to men . So knowledge of basic biology and tradition equals destruction of Seun's assertion .

SarahBonetta:
Stupidity reigns supreme in these parts. Lawd knows I can't marry an atheist 'cos they'll prolly be the cause of my death. Buncha spiritually dead people

The holy ghost revealed this crap you wrote to you?

Guess what? A lot of Christians actually have failed marriages. So get off your high horse.

Born2Freak:


The holy ghost revealed this crap you wrote to you?

Guess what? A lot of Christians actually have failed marriages. So get off your high horse.

The Holy Ghost doesn't have to reveal nada to me, sissy. It's a fact that atheists are ignorant people who have a god complex. Two atheists marrying in Africa! That's dumb. You better stick to a Christian brother who will sanctify you

SarahBonetta:
Stupidity reigns supreme in these parts. Lawd knows I can't marry an atheist 'cos they'll prolly be the cause of my death. Buncha spiritually dead people

Am not an atheist, will you marry me?