unmask:
and if after putting all the work his feelings does not change, can he then leave her?

SURElee:


You and I know marriage is for better for worse till death do they part. He has to rekindle that love between them. A wife isn't potatoes you buy from a market and after a few weeks, you notice spoilage and foul odour and you discard for a new bag of potatoes. You are to nurture your spouse to your taste and preference.

SteveTyla:

If you opt for divorce you might never find anyone as good as her..wise the f up!!!.

StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....

Candy86:
It's not no help for him but the Lord. He done stepped on the curse land and became ignorant Spirit like the others. Any women he deal with is poison. He will not find anyone better but like him.

VicMadich88:
Listen yaself... you are a curse yourself...already cursing other lands...as if Nigeria is a blessed land. Idiot.


Nobody spoke about cheating on her or leaving her. Or even finding anyone.

Candy86:
Well it's sad but God's in control of it all but rather we choose right or wrong God's still in control. In America and in South Africa the land is curse. Scripture it's try there land needs to be heal. I never known two places were you have to always keep trust in the Lord 100 percent not 99 percent but a hundred percent. In America and in South Africa once you step there you will be divorce or separated at least once except both of you have the evidence of the holy ghost and mine your own business. When a man or woman understand wisdom and knowledge they get a divorce. If the deal with family members friends and church members or coworkers. If you don't care about your own marriage nobody else cares even prophets and Prophetess on down.

Lionessza:









Cursed land? Which heaven do you live in ma'am?

Tuksgrad:








I wish I could be invited to that holy place she lives in , hope its not a mirage though

Lionessza:







Lol visit her head then

VicMadich88:
What if I come clean to her...and she says the same thing? And that she's not in love with me anymore (When 2 ppl decide to get married, its not only about the 2 of them there's family involved...that's why in most cases we try so hard to make it work... But something's cant be fixed, so are we suppose to stay in a loveless marriage just cz we made vows of till death do us part?) What if she demands that I come back to reside in Nigeria? I am never going back to Nigeria, Never ever will go back there and she knows it.

You ppl are so quick to judge an call out names, but there's 2 sides to a story. As much is its against the law (Bible) or Christianity religion it happens, that you fall out of love an divorce your spouse...Life goes on, ppl sin everyday... I wouldn't be the 1st or the last to divorce his wife. I'm not even cheating on her...Anyway, I just wanted to hear other ppls views...married people specifically. this is a wrong platform, as there are too many kids.

PS: My wife isn't a saint...I just chose not to reveal a lot of her wrongs. NOBODY IS PERFECT!

LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING, AND I CHOOSE TO LIVE AND MAKE THE MOST OF IT = HAPPINESS

VicMadich88:
What if I come clean to her...and she says the same thing? And that she's not in love with me anymore (When 2 ppl decide to get married, its not only about the 2 of them there's family involved...that's why in most cases we try so hard to make it work... But something's cant be fixed, so are we suppose to stay in a loveless marriage just cz we made vows of till death do us part?) What if she demands that I come back to reside in Nigeria? I am never going back to Nigeria, Never ever will go back there and she knows it.

You ppl are so quick to judge an call out names, but there's 2 sides to a story. As much is its against the law (Bible) or Christianity religion it happens, that you fall out of love an divorce your spouse...Life goes on, ppl sin everyday... I wouldn't be the 1st or the last to divorce his wife. I'm not even cheating on her...Anyway, I just wanted to hear other ppls views...married people specifically. this is a wrong platform, as there are too many kids.

PS: My wife isn't a saint...I just chose not to reveal a lot of her wrongs. NOBODY IS PERFECT!

LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING, AND I CHOOSE TO LIVE AND MAKE THE MOST OF IT = HAPPINESS

VicMadich88:
What if I come clean to her...and she says the same thing? And that she's not in love with me anymore (When 2 ppl decide to get married, its not only about the 2 of them there's family involved...that's why in most cases we try so hard to make it work... But something's cant be fixed, so are we suppose to stay in a loveless marriage just cz we made vows of till death do us part?) What if she demands that I come back to reside in Nigeria? I am never going back to Nigeria, Never ever will go back there and she knows it.

You ppl are so quick to judge an call out names, but there's 2 sides to a story. As much is its against the law (Bible) or Christianity religion it happens, that you fall out of love an divorce your spouse...Life goes on, ppl sin everyday... I wouldn't be the 1st or the last to divorce his wife. I'm not even cheating on her...Anyway, I just wanted to hear other ppls views...married people specifically. this is a wrong platform, as there are too many kids.

PS: My wife isn't a saint...I just chose not to reveal a lot of her wrongs. NOBODY IS PERFECT!

LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING, AND I CHOOSE TO LIVE AND MAKE THE MOST OF IT = HAPPINESS

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....

VicMadich88:
God, will decide that...not you. Get your head out of the gutter...and think out of the box.

Its a long distance marriage, that is heading to an epic failure! And I'm trying to do damage control, before its too late.

StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

SURElee:


You and I know marriage is for better for worse till death do they part. He has to rekindle that love between them. A wife isn't potatoes you buy from a market and after a few weeks, you notice spoilage and foul odour and you discard for a new bag of potatoes. You are to nurture your spouse to your taste and preference.

Stephanie22:
My dear since you say it's a distance marriage and you can never come to Nigeria to reside, why don't you bring her over to S.A.

VicMadich88:
She dsnt want to come!

emiye:
BE A MAN ! A woman relocates to be with her man. That is enough grounds for divorce i must say. Why would someone insist she wants to stay rooted in this naija sef? Are you sure she loves you?

pcguru1:


Eya she relocates to be with him and he drops the bombshell he's no longer interested in the marriage now she has to come back and re-organise her life.

StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....