I have know this girl for so long, last year i find out that she was pregnant and aborted it i have always like her but didn't want to tell her because we live in the same compound, i was hoping to packed out of the compound before making my move but to my suprise i find out that she was pregnant though she kept it secret i knew everything but i still find it hard to hate her yet i keep loving her. Guy what will i do.

whats the big deal.U ll only feel bad about that if u r immature.If she likes u then get it going,there are many girls who have had an abortion and u ll never know.In fact i broke up with a beautiful virgin last month in order to date a girl who has had an abortion just because i feel attracted to her.another girl claims she's pregnant 4 me at the moment but i m not moved cos life's not hard.Just do what makes u happy.

It depends. Some of them turn out to be the best of mates.

Oh Jeez!

to each their own brotha!!!!!!

IMHO what happened in her past shouldnt be a reason to judge her today. even if she was an ex love-peddler, it shouldnt matter to you(as long as it is in the past and stay there).

then you wonder why so many women cannot be truly honest with their men when such men cant rise to the task and be adults.

immaturity is the reason why so many men turn away from great women and then settle for less.
if the fact that she aborted is a problem to YOU then move along from this woman's life.


remember: let he who has no sin cast the first stone!!!!!!!

I wonder what kind of person would say yes.

as long as she can conceive in the future oh no qualms although i pray i dnt meet such a person