MrBrownJay1:
Divorcing that deluded demon animal you call a wife, is the ONLY way to deal with this nightmare.... If you beat that mad woman, she will now turn and play victim, even maybe send you to jail for it. While the truth is that she is NOT worth it.

Let that beast go as you will remain a miserable man forever while sleeping next to such demon.
Some women are very good at killing a man's dream!

BTW the hair technically belongs to you as she paid it with YOUR money. Burn it before throwing her aaasss out!

MamaTej:
A sensible woman would've started a little home business with that amount. Some women aren't actually meant to be home makers.

PaperLace:

That's what happens when some people leave romance section to come comment on family issues. People that haven't even managed boyfriend-girlfriend relationship well.

The day I see a married man who has never deeply annoyed his wife, then I will see sense in their rants.

I wonder when going violent on one's spouse became a solution. Is this beating only recommended for irate wives? Because when it's a man, all I see on NL is "pray for him, ignore him, give him silent treatment, wear red pant and bra..."

The woman was wrong and should be made to refund the money, or sent out till she is fully repentant. Lots of spouses misappropriate funds,such people should never be left with huge money.

MrBrownJay1:
@prognose
Sadly, whether divorce is free or not, this woman has NO place in this man's home (as his "partner". She is an enemy of progress, useless, and since she can't even care for her kids properly, he best get rid of this liability.

Send the wife away to NEVER return, send kids to grandparents until this man can get back on his feet, or ask mum to come stay with him until he sorts himself out. Anything but staying with the demon. if you think that a slap can reset such brainless women then you best think again... Later, if she stays, That child will get the wrath of that woman, as she will blame the kid for A) the beating she receive due to kid's education and B) the 190k hair she CANNOT get any longer, thus having to look like the gorilla that she is.

dangotesmummy:
that is not advisable. Infact it will aggravate the matter.he too should pick her expensive jwellry,phone and weavon,put it together and sell it off to get back the money.if you send her away and bring in his mother mother in-laws don't settle matter they fuel it by taking sides.this is a domestic issue that should be contained and solved within the house.it shouldn't go out at all

MrBrownJay1:


That is a great solution but it doesn't fix the issue at hand, it only reimburse the father, and sweep the main problem under the rug. The main problem here is the obvious selfish careless destructive nature of this woman, and that CAN'T/WON'T be fixed... So this man has NO choice be to get rid of this evil woman, and ask his own mother for help (at least we know she cares for her grandchild), until he can find a better solution.

dangotesmummy:
so if he gets rid of her and marries another person while his mom takes care of his son what difference does it make?

Every woman comes with their different baggages.if he gets rid of her because she's vain and irresponsible, the other one if she comes you think she will not exhibit a character that you don't like?how about if she's a dirty woman or lazy or talkative. Every woman will always come with a character that Will turn off the man.its just to find a way to work things out. She misappropriated the money you laboured for for her pecuniary reason,no wahala,pick her valuables that's Worth the amount and sell it off,that is what they call conflict management. Every issue doesn't have to escalate to full blown war,you manage crisis with tact,that's what they call a man and a husband. The ability to manage crisis with self control

dangotesmummy:
so if he gets rid of her and marries another person while his mom takes care of his son what difference does it make?

Every woman comes with their different baggages.if he gets rid of her because she's vain and irresponsible, the other one if she comes you think she will not exhibit a character that you don't like?how about if she's a dirty woman or lazy or talkative. Every woman will always come with a character that Will turn off the man.its just to find a way to work things out. She misappropriated the money you laboured for for her pecuniary reason,no wahala,pick her valuables that's Worth the amount and sell it off,that is what they call conflict management. Every issue doesn't have to escalate to full blown war,you manage crisis with tact,that's what they call a man and a husband. The ability to manage crisis with self control

MrBrownJay1:


It makes a whole difference.... Brighter future, peace of mind, having a loving/happy home, less stress, educated children etc



Pls give women credit and stop insulting them all (our mothers included). This woman is a liability, she is NO good to any man/family/children, and i dont know where you live, but it is very easy to find a respectful, trustworthy, responsible, clean, hardworking homely woman.... and if she is a tiger in the bedroom, then it's a bonus.

Yes there will always be disagreements in any union, some are resolvable, and others are the breaking point of NO return. This lady crossed the line, just like if she had cheated etc. Putting your vanity above your children's education while husband is struggling to make ends meet is madness. Not all marriage are successful, because many marry for the wrong reasons (due to religious/social/family pressure) and sadly, divorce is the only way out.

dangotesmummy:
this particular case is very resolvable. It's just a matter of not entrusting her with money again. If she wants to be careless with her money fine,but anything pertaining to the mans money and school fees for the son he should do it himself then after settling the case deal with her in a non violent way e.g shunning, ignoring, making her feel uncomfortable in the house etc.I don't recommend violence. Violence has never solved anything

sauceEEP:
The wife was thanking the hair dealer via whatsap chat and the hair dealer reposting the chat on IG.... Lol, Queenfav come and explain......

cruchenuti:


See as your heart is deceiving you. Do you know that hitting a woman back because she hit you first is still domestic violence?

Don't hit a woman whether she hit you or not. Save yourself from Angry feminist and walk away after a woman hits you.

I'm against all forms of d v. Hitting a man is also domestic violence, no woman has the right to hit a man If she doesn't want thoroughly beaten up.

cruchenuti:
See what Jay Z reacted and stood still the last time solange kept hitting him? Yes that's the way to stay out of Jail in the US. any other country, you can shove her or do whatever is necessary to stop the ATTACK

MrBrownJay1:


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