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So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by ladybird77(f): 2:57pm On Jan 17, 2010
I mean really where are da nice men, no one wants to be in a loving caring relationship anymore, i mean i wld love to find a good caring man but it seems it just younger guys dat want that now, shame i can't date younger men,
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Jcob(m): 2:58pm On Jan 17, 2010
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Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 3:36pm On Jan 17, 2010
ladybird77:

I mean really where are da nice men, no one wants to be in a loving caring relationship anymore, i mean i wld love to find a good caring man but it seems it just younger guys dat want that now, shame i can't date younger men,

, younger guys, really?
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by ladybird77(f): 3:40pm On Jan 17, 2010
Yeah it seems i can only get young guys to chat me up now i mean really,i wld prefer an older man, i think but it seems da are no where to be found.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 3:52pm On Jan 17, 2010
ladybird77:

Yeah it seems i can only get young guys to chat me up now i mean really,i wld prefer an older man, i think but it seems da are no where to be found.


Yes part of you statement does ring true to me, but the bad side of SOME young guys, they are SOOOO controlling, they just have to prove they are the master. Anyway that's what I have found.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by ladybird77(f): 4:21pm On Jan 17, 2010
Hmm yeah i understand wat u sayin, don't get me wrong, there is nutin in dating a young guy but they are can be controlling i have dated one so i knw. but its nice to still be getting attention from da young guys not dat am old though.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 4:32pm On Jan 17, 2010
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Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 17, 2010
be told, women don't want large doses of "nice guys" just like men don't want steady doses of "good girls."
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by ladybird77(f): 4:40pm On Jan 17, 2010
I just don't knw wassup anymore, i wld not want to date anyone younger anymore. but dats just me i guess.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by ChrisChino(m): 4:45pm On Jan 17, 2010
times have changed. Good guys have gone bad, : wink
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by german007(m): 5:14pm On Jan 17, 2010
It all depends on the younger guy and how mature his mind frame is. I met my partner when I was 21, she was 23, we have been together since then and planning to get married now even though she's two years older. Age don't mean a thing. It is only a number.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by puskin: 5:18pm On Jan 17, 2010
^ True. . . . . but not when the person U are in love with is old enough to be ur father/mother.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by adagz01(m): 5:21pm On Jan 17, 2010
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Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 5:52pm On Jan 17, 2010
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Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by justwise(m): 6:09pm On Jan 17, 2010
ladybird77:

I just don't knw wassup anymore, i wld not want to date anyone younger anymore. but dats just me i guess.

Whats ur age range? If u don't mind me asking
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by ladybird77(f): 6:13pm On Jan 17, 2010
@Madlady, thanks gal am feeling u so much and i so understand wat u mean and u knw am not willing to just settle for anything less than a nice loving and caring man cuz i am a loving and caring lady,Am only 32 and u knw u right with time da right guy wld come, Well i hope.lol.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Dammyray(m): 6:25pm On Jan 17, 2010
ladybird77:

Hmm yeah i understand wat u sayin, don't get me wrong, there is nutin in dating a young guy but they are can be controlling i have dated one so i knw. but its nice to still be getting attention from da young guys not dat am old though.

So whats the age?, check my profile for my ID, maybe am that young guy that gat what we call Puppy Love for ya
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 6:31pm On Jan 17, 2010
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Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jan 17, 2010
The good guys? I think they've gone into extinsion!
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jan 17, 2010
ladybird77:

@Madlady, thanks gal am feeling u so much and i so understand wat u mean and u knw am not willing to just settle for anything less than a nice loving and caring man cuz i am a loving and caring lady,Am only 32 and u knw u right with time da right guy wld come, Well i hope.lol.

haaaaaaaaaa only 32 digits? still counting tongue How come? what happened when you were young 24 - 27

Most of the older guyz are married now,  so you should be looking at range[b] 35 - 40[/b] right?

God will help u ooo
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 6:45pm On Jan 17, 2010
faakay:

haaaaaaaaaa only 32 digits? still counting tongue How come? what happened when you were young 24 - 27

Most of the older guyz are married now,  so you should be looking at range[b] 35 - 40[/b] right?

God will help u ooo

Plenty guys out there that age, if she came to the UK  guys would rush her, she just needs to be careful.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by ladybird77(f): 6:48pm On Jan 17, 2010
@Madlady am actually in da uk am just very careful and i ve seen many pple going for men or in a relationship just for the wrong reason so am not ready to settle for da wrong man.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Dammyray(m): 6:52pm On Jan 17, 2010
Ujujoan:

The good guys? I think they've gone into extinsion!

Hey don't say that,
lets get serious on here,
are you trying to say you've never had a luck of 1 or what?
, please the more u study the more u'll know,
maybe u need to change ur impression on men, cause its wrong,
u cant start saying all are not good just because 1 or maybe 2 let you down
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 6:59pm On Jan 17, 2010
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Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jan 17, 2010
madlady:

Plenty guys out there that age, if she came to the UK  guys would rush her, she just got to be careful.

ehen UK? oga oooo

The ladies are complaining no guyz, the guyz are complaining no babes:: everybody wants to be careful - papers, bla bla bla

SINGLES come yanpia!!

My advice: UK folks should start joining together and adjust the way they bash each other.

I think they got lots of hatred between each other, NAIJA BOYZ vs NAIJA GURLS in UK

Dammy_ray:

Hey don't say that,
lets get serious on here,
are you trying to say you've never had a luck of 1 or what?
, please the more u study the more u'll know,
maybe u need to change your impression on men, cause its wrong,
[/b]u cant start saying all are not good just because 1 or maybe 2 let you down

True

ladybird77:

@Madlady am actually in da uk am just very careful and [b]i ve seen many pple going for men or in a relationship just for the wrong reason so am not ready to settle for da wrong man.

OK I see,

Just be alert! you will ping the right man soon

Faakay say so, na zo  smiley
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by madlady(f): 7:11pm On Jan 17, 2010
@Faakay you are correct, too much bashing on this site, the worst attack I have had on this site was from a UK guy.
Mates of mine who joined this site no longer come because of that.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by german007(m): 7:21pm On Jan 17, 2010
madlady:


I am really happy that things are great for you, you are a very nice person so I am not suprised things worked out.

Sadly this is not always the case, I had a terrible time with mine, ok the age gap was wider.


@Poster Take your time, do not settle for 2nd best, a guy would not, so why should you.
You will meet a great guy just when your are least expecting it. kiss

Ahh Madlady, Thanks, You seem like a great person yourself. The sad thing is that there aint a lot of guys who appreciate a good woman.
Most guys take a good woman for granted and it is too too dispiriting.

The worst thing is when you treat a woman bad and make her loose her self-esteem and confidence. Believe me, A real good woman is hard to find, Treat her like a queen when you do find her.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by german007(m): 7:25pm On Jan 17, 2010
Also with regards to this age issue. It really does not mean a thing. Even if a woman is 32 or 34. It really doesnt. Whoever will find love will find love. The love you had in your 20's might just be for a season and not for a lifetime, And you might be destined to meet the one meant for your lifetime when you are 32 or 34.

Some people come in your life for a reason, season or lifetime,

Regards
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jan 17, 2010
faakay:


The ladies are complaining no guyz, the guyz are complaining no babes:: everybody wants to be careful - papers, bla bla bla

Really True

was online yesterday and up to 8 of my friends (not exagerating) were all complaining of the same thing, No wife.
They all want to settle down either this year or next but no 'good or serious lady' around.

It is so bad. i used to think ladies alone had the 'no partner' talk.
but since i know even the guys complain even more about it, i stopped feeling so bad for 'em lovely ladies 'cus our handsome dude are also SEARCHING.
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by darkman200: 8:23pm On Jan 17, 2010
good guys are all over , the problem is that women have lost the instinct for distinguishing the good guys from the playas, women come with certain expectations  that play right into the hands of playas, and forget abt prayers and church going, you gotta use the head that the good Lord has given you, there was an instance with someone i knew, she deliberately went into a relationship with some dude that was only interested in booty call , she ended up being heartbroken and we asked what she was thinking, she said she prayed and was hoping he would change,  well i call that self inflicted and there are many in that category
Re: So Where Are All Da Good Guys? by Dammyray(m): 8:55pm On Jan 17, 2010
madlady:


Yes part of you statement does ring true to me, but the bad side of SOME young guys, they are SOOOO controlling, they just have to prove they are the master. Anyway that's what I have found.

Maybe u need a new experience

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