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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by imstrong1: 8:12pm On Jun 01, 2017
Free her from cooking at least one day in a week.. Kind of like that part.. most men have turned their wives to "cooking machine" it won't make us less a man if we help out once in a while

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by MMMscam: 8:15pm On Jun 01, 2017
Men who do these things are the type of men that their wives are secretly fuxking the gardener, driver or laundry man. This utopia-mindset simple beta-male man needs to do a paternity test on his kids.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Tracyomo(f): 8:15pm On Jun 01, 2017
I wish all men are like u. By the way hope u practice what u preach.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Ezionye(f): 8:17pm On Jun 01, 2017
Denko2721987:
Honestly, i am tired of all these dos and donts on how to treat women.. What happened to giving men the same treatment Or were men just created to put all our life's force and energy on only satisfying, appealing and appeasing women Yeah women should be treated right but kilodo with all these loopsided commandments for only women abi man na just log of wood that doesnt need same care, love, affection and attention to details like people are always clamoring for.. Why do women feel or habour this wrong believe that as long as he is getting constant congo shinning then its the best thing he may ever need which makes them (women) so entitled... Women this, women that.. Abeg make una park well jor..

Jealousy tongue

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Dronedude(m): 8:18pm On Jun 01, 2017
ivolt:




Money does not prevent divorce unless you marry unexposed village girls,
many men have learnt the hard way.

Divorce can only happen based on ill individual characteristics, but still on that Money will settle the divorce amicably. If you are broke and nice, it is only a village girl that will comfortably remain with you if not Divorce is imminent.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Beesluv: 8:18pm On Jun 01, 2017
Really true
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by ephi321(f): 8:20pm On Jun 01, 2017
coolcatty:
Funny man.


Nice points.....but a typical Nigerian woman will abuse these privileges.....cook for her once and she takes it as your duty and will even brazenly ask you why you didn't cook for the kids.

Marriage that works is defined as a union of a non-chalant man and a woman...key word here is non-chalant cos if a man complains of the rubbish that he needs to put up in his home all the time....wahala go dey...a real man totally ignores.

cheesy grin

Beht, are they not his kids?

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by MMMscam: 8:21pm On Jun 01, 2017
No wonder government public services are a joke, when the DG of public service reform has this kind of weakling mindset. He is obviously a beta-male. Every alpha-male knows what he wrote is bullshit!

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by ivolt: 8:21pm On Jun 01, 2017
Dronedude:


Divorce can only happen based on ill individual characteristics, but still on that Money will settle the divorce amicably. If you are broke and nice, it is only a village girl that will comfortably remain with you if not Divorce is imminent.

And one of those characteristics is that marriage is only
sustained by money.
With all the money in the world, your marriage can still crash.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Denko2721987(m): 8:22pm On Jun 01, 2017
Ezionye:


Jealousy tongue

lolz.. Na u sabi, i done talk mah own.. All these women this, women that commandments indirectly portrays men as antagonists and devils thats been wrong with marriages since adam and eve sinned against God in the garden of eden while making it feel like women are and have always been the holy grail/symbolism of working marriages which is a big fallacy..
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jun 01, 2017
This man na woman wrapper.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by IhateAfonjas(m): 8:23pm On Jun 01, 2017
miblolo:
Not in Nigeria

Not in Nigeria ?? Where ??
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Dronedude(m): 8:29pm On Jun 01, 2017
ivolt:


And one of those characteristics is that marriage is only
sustained by money.
With all the money in the world, your marriage can still crash.

Marriage can crash from anything even as little as who didn't flush the toilet not necessarily money. if with all the money in the world and still your marriage crashes, check it one person has been bearing an ill behavior until it became unbearable.
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by AreaFada2: 8:30pm On Jun 01, 2017
IhateAfonjas:

You can't satisfy or please a woman

Women don't know what they want

Buy 5 private Jets for a woman, next minute, she would want a wheelbarrow

She will tell you she wants a God fearing, tall, handsome and intelligent man, she finds him, the next minute, she will start complaining that he's too soft for her

Good luck trying to please women, you will go insane soon


Gbam!

God provided all the delicious fruits in Eden for Adam & Eve but one. Being very basic like all men, Adam would have stuck to instruction.
But Eve allowed a mere creepy creature to deceive her into eating that one forbidden fruit.

From then on, it was never going to be possible to satisfy any woman no matter what. Like the serpent, each woman has at least one devilish female friend who will rubbish everything you do for her.

Be poor then why are you not striving enough like your mates, give her all the money then suddenly you dickus is either too big or too small, spend time with her then you do not give her own space, spend lots of time away then you are never around, etc.

Only God can save.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Mosa1982(f): 8:30pm On Jun 01, 2017
MMMscam:
Men who do these things are the type of men that their wives are secretly fuxking the gardener, driver or laundry man. This utopia-mindset simple beta-male man needs to do a paternity test on his kids.




You seriously need help.
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Primusinterpares(m): 8:32pm On Jun 01, 2017
ivolt:




Money does not prevent divorce unless you marry unexposed village girls,
many men have learnt the hard way.

You don't get the point bro...
The person giving those tips is a DG...
Money is a vital ingredient needed...
Its not as if money can prevent divorce...but being without money can make marriage look like a living hell.
#d point is don't get married when u gat nothing doing 2 bring in money no mata hw small.
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by CioAngels(f): 8:32pm On Jun 01, 2017
Is okay provided he is with his right senses and right frame of mind.
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by kenben: 8:37pm On Jun 01, 2017
This is a perfect representation of the nuisance that people can sometimes constitute on social media. Rather than focus on an ill motivated, archaic and rusty civil service and give the nation tips on how the work ethic, remuneration and working condition of the Nigerian worker can be made better, this obviously idle and busy body director general has chosen to digress from his core mandate. Anyway, the bulk of the blame lies with whoever appointed him in the first place.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Exploit2011(m): 8:37pm On Jun 01, 2017
themosthigh:

Carefully listening to this man, you will know that he is a puss y and a woman wrapper.
Look at how he even look like an experienced pussyfooter. Did you marry a woman to serve her or worship her? Is a woman not meant to be a helper again? Was this world not created for man and woman created to be his companion and keep his bed warm? Behold the LovePeddler of Babylon dwell among us and the weakest and the basest of humans have been elevated to the status of goddesses. A woman is nothing but multifunctional entity designed to be an incubator, a blanket and a tool to drain sperm from men. That is while after God created eve he took her to adam stark naked to confirm if adam like her. No one asked eve if she ever loved adam because like a pet, she has no choice.That is Gods plan for women and they should accept it or face eternal damnation in hell.



Are you ok?

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by InvertedHammer: 8:41pm On Jun 01, 2017
AdoraAmadi:
Director-General, Bureau of Public Service Reforms, Dr. Joe Abah who has been married for 25 years took to his Twitter page to give fellow men tips on how to keep keep and make their wives happy.

According to him, the tips won’t work for everyone…

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/06/joe-abah-marriage-tips.html


I believe he meant how to treat a "reasonable" wife.

Some people are not worth the effort. Unless we assume that all ladies are perfect.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Quinn22(f): 8:41pm On Jun 01, 2017
Someone should take this psychopath to the nearest psychiatric facility, he's not feeling well. He's gone mad due to the aftermath of his upbringing, which was a terrible one. This guy needs to be chained like an animal left for the dogs to consume. Peace kiss
themosthigh:

Carefully listening to this man, you will know that he is a puss y and a woman wrapper.
Look at how he even look like an experienced pussyfooter. Did you marry a woman to serve her or worship her? Is a woman not meant to be a helper again? Was this world not created for man and woman created to be his companion and keep his bed warm? Behold the LovePeddler of Babylon dwell among us and the weakest and the basest of humans have been elevated to the status of goddesses. A woman is nothing but multifunctional entity designed to be an incubator, a blanket and a tool to drain sperm from men. That is while after God created eve he took her to adam stark naked to confirm if adam like her. No one asked eve if she ever loved adam because like a pet, she has no choice.That is Gods plan for women and they should accept it or face eternal damnation in hell.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Quinn22(f): 8:46pm On Jun 01, 2017
Thank you my sister! It's the women that makes the relationship last for long or for short, not the men. The women are the contributing factor of this sort, unlike the men that hardly puts in an effort to make the relationship last.
repogirl:
The man try sha.....but its all easier said than done. He might not even practice what he preaches.

Most times if a marriage lasts for years, it's because the woman put up with her husband's BS and refused to leave, not because the man is wonderful.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jun 01, 2017
Who are you to PLEASE a WOMAN...?
Dem never born you.
When GOD created them, he gave them EYEBROWS...but now they shave it and draw an ugly one..

He gave them NAILS , they remove them and wear CLAWS....

Ogaaaaa, u don't know women yet...,
Ask GEJ , he will explain better

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by AHCB: 8:58pm On Jun 01, 2017
repogirl:
The man try sha.....but its all easier said than done. He might not even practice what he preaches.

Most times if a marriage lasts for years, it's because the woman put up with her husband's BS and refused to leave, not because the man is wonderful.
I'm curious how you came about that finding. Care to share?
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by isnovic(m): 9:06pm On Jun 01, 2017
AdoraAmadi:
Director-General, Bureau of Public Service Reforms, Dr. Joe Abah who has been married for 25 years took to his Twitter page to give fellow men tips on how to keep keep and make their wives happy.

According to him, the tips won’t work for everyone…

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/06/joe-abah-marriage-tips.html


Oga!, this your code on how to treat a wife will need another manual to explain it.

Whatever rocks your boat please do.

The problem with all these is that, the man finally loss his identity.

As he will be in a perpetually tuned mode of PLEASE HER a position of service, nay of servitude.

For crying out loud, she ain't doing you a favor marrying you!!!

If for anything else, you are doing her a favour on the other hand.


Why?

The competition is steep in her demographics. How?


Because in every 4-5 days of fertility window only 12hours is the window for a male child, so the world is over-populated with women.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by repogirl(f): 9:12pm On Jun 01, 2017
AHCB:
I'm curious how you came about that finding. Care to share?
Read the comments from most guys on this thread and you would see how.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Bentson: 9:21pm On Jun 01, 2017
So How does this man's bullshit essay affect price of petrol??..
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by chibuzorAbia: 10:00pm On Jun 01, 2017
Foolish man, na IPOB sef.

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Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by MizMyColi(f): 10:01pm On Jun 01, 2017
Billyonaire:
This man na woman wrapper.

Don't attack the messenger.
Attack the message.
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by otokx(m): 10:39pm On Jun 01, 2017
This man has been making a lot of noise lately.
Re: Joe Abah Gives Men Tips On How To Treat Their Wives by Kenon9: 10:58pm On Jun 01, 2017
This man really has time. Women that can just get annoyed for no just reason. And they will expect men to know the reason of their annoyance when they themselves don't know.

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