it's a must we share same bedroom

i'll alwayz sleep in the same bedroom with my wife, since we're married together, i don't see anything wrong with dat.

Moranike:

i'll alwayz sleep in the same bedroom with my wife, since we're married together, i don't see anything wrong with dat.

you are right man,

for some its an excuse for them so that they can go and sleep in the maids room lol

guys, the day man pikin marry that day privacy is out from Ur mind cos both of u we do things as one,as for me i prefer her to have her room but in the night we both sleep in the same Bedroom,cos that is the holy time both u we have time gist about life and others things in general.

If u have poligamy in your brain, take dis useless topic off the line!!!

My wife will definitely have her own room where she can keep her plenty of stuffs - talk of cloths, big standing mirrors, bags of used and unused shoes, make ups, and all worth not the women folks will like to brandish around haplessly. But next to or adjoining her room will be mine own room where both of us will always sleep on the same bed all nite. I have seen that in many peaceful families and homes, It works really good that way!

As much as I like to have my own room or let me say my only sanctuary, that will have to be sacrificed in a union else why have a union? Man and wife should share the same room. You can have a private study or drawing room whatever, but 1 bedroom with your wife is best. Its biblical too.

YOU 2 must share the bed and share the bedroom.Don't you know that 2 have become one?
Go find out what true love really means,ok?

Hello, Everyone. I'm new here and this one topic quickly caught my eye so I'll comment before I explore the rest of the site. My thought is, "What is so hard about it? As for me, whenever I get married, she'll have her own room. Her stuff and all the makings of female existence will be in that room. Anytme we desire closeness - as will be very often - my room is her room. But her shoes, her bags, her make-up and all those other things will remain in hers. And now, seriously speaking, I think the 21st century is loaded with wrong priorities. I haven't heard people vehemently arguing why the modern human being is more dim-witted, obese, given to suicidal habits, unfit, lazy, unwilling to use the brain even though we are erroneously called 'Homo Sapiens'. Thank you."

Diff room after 10yrs of marriage.

I must share a room oh . There is nothing like waking up in the morning and feeling his "something" and you just roll over and have one for the road

Franpharm:

Diff room after 10yrs of marriage.

Does dis mean an after she's expired

shooze:

I must share a room oh . There is nothing like waking up in the morning and feeling his "something" and you just roll over and have one for the road

Na correct guy u be

i be woman oh

It all depends if the woman snores and nags all the time.

Bed sharing 'drains men's brains'
Image of a couple sleeping
Bed sharing disturbed sleep quality
Sharing a bed with someone could temporarily reduce your brain power - at least if you are a man - Austrian scientists suggest.

When men spend the night with a bed mate their sleep is disturbed, whether they make love or not, and this impairs their mental ability the next day.

The lack of sleep also increases a man's stress hormone levels.

According to the New Scientist study, women who share a bed fare better because they sleep more deeply.

Sleepless nights

Professor Gerhard Kloesch and colleagues at the University of Vienna studied eight unmarried, childless couples in their 20s.

Each couple was asked to spend 10 nights sleeping together and 10 apart while the scientists assessed their rest patterns with questionnaires and wrist activity monitors.

The next day the couples were asked to perform simple cognitive tests and had their stress hormone levels checked.


Sharing the bed space with someone who is making noises and who you have to fight with for the duvet is not sensible
Professor Neil Stanley, a sleep expert at the University of Surrey

Although the men reported they had slept better with a partner, they fared worse in the tests, with their results suggesting they actually had more disturbed sleep.

Both sexes had a more disturbed night's sleep when they shared their bed, Professor Kloesch told a meeting of the Forum of European Neuroscience.

But women apparently managed to sleep more deeply when they did eventually drop off, since they claimed to be more refreshed than their sleep time suggested.

Their stress hormone levels and mental scores did not suffer to the same extent as the men.

But the women still reported that they had the best sleep when they were alone in bed.

Bed sharing also affected dream recall. Women remembered more after sleeping alone and men recalled best after sex.

Separate beds

Dr Neil Stanley, a sleep expert at the University of Surrey, said: "It's not surprising that people are disturbed by sleeping together.

"Historically, we have never been meant to sleep in the same bed as each other. It is a bizarre thing to do.

"Sleep is the most selfish thing you can do and it's vital for good physical and mental health.

"Sharing the bed space with someone who is making noises and who you have to fight with for the duvet is not sensible.

"If you are happy sleeping together that's great, but if not there is no shame in separate beds."

He said there was a suggestion that women are pre-programmed to cope better with broken sleep.

"A lot of life events that women have disturb sleep - bringing up children, the menopause and even the menstrual cycle," he explained.

But Dr Stanley added people did get used to sharing a bed.

"If they have shared their bed with their partner for a long time they miss them and that will disturb sleep."

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/5197440.stm

It can be a pain in the neck to share a bedroom ( imagine his clothes all over the floor or keeping you up cos of his snores) but then you learn love, patience, endurance, longsuffering etc., characters needed for a good marriage

@Wrex

I don't really support it.I prefer having my own room to myself because i am a kind of person that needs privacy all the time.

You need privacy all the time? from your partner/wife? Not even sometime, but all the time? What have you got to hide? Are you into rituals? 

if not with his wife whoelse

Deep Soul:

If his room is large enough to accomodate all my clothes, shoes, bags, books, belts, jewellry, errrm what else?

Well, if his room has enough space for my plenty "ngwongwo", no wahala.

But if not, I would request for a special room to keep majority of my stuff. To avoid wahala, the said room must not have a bed nor a tv (I cld sleep off there). This room wld strictly be a closet and a library. I will retire EVERY NIGHT to the action room of course!

I'd like to be woken up with a kiss every morning.
I'd like to cuddle after "intimacy" so if we have separate rooms, he'd just "do" and go?? Am I a love-peddler?

And finally, I love to sleep in cold rooms so who wld cuddle me when it gets really cold?

RETIRING EVERY NIGHT to the "action room" ! Mba nu ! U ll kill me sooner than the time God has planned for me. U must stay in your own room o with your 'ngwongwo' , biko.The action wouldnt be every night, Besides it will be more fun each time we come together for the action.I never said u were a love_peddler,action nights would be exceptional nights where i could grant u a permit to stay for the whole night.This way i wouldnt get tired of u quickly. Dont u think so ?

mama-gee:

It all depends if the woman snores and nags all the time.

just like u , the last time u passed the night in my house it was HELL for me. That is the reason y i refused u last week when u told me u wanted to come again. I cant even envisage marrying u , let alone sleeping on the same bed .

No. Everytime I have slept with a woman, they all have this wicked way of waking one up at he dead of the night. . . . .all for no reason whatsoever!

It is not compulsory but imho its better. If you have a big house you can have separate rooms for privacy when not sleeping and the nights you fight. but i think its better if the Husband and wife share the same room most of the time.

Does that mean that I'll be stripped of all rights to some privacy when I marry? I wonder o! Me thinks not.

it suprises me that a guy is asking this question o! if women ask dis one now guys wld say they have started their women liberation rally.

sha in response 2 topic, GOD said in marriage the man n woman are one. Can u sleep with your head in one room and your neck in the other room? That shld answer ur question.

Many, many things being said here, the most hilarious being the bible people quoting what God said as if they attended the same primary school. I think God should be left out of it, especially that fallacious hooey about being one and the head and neck claptrap. If you can share a room, fine. If, like me, you qualify that sharing, then it's all good. But leave God out of this one.

tmubee:

Many, many things being said here, the most hilarious being the bible people quoting what God said as if they attended the same primary school. I think God should be left out of it, especially that fallacious hooey about being one and the head and neck claptrap. If you can share a room, fine. If, like me, you qualify that sharing, then it's all good. But leave God out of this one.

Leave God out of anything and that thing seize to exist.

Well am sorry i cant leave GOD on this matter. Check it everywhere GOD instsituted marriage and for marriage to truly work its GOD! If the post said a man/woman share d same room i wld conquer wit u but d poster said man and wife d same way d bible puts it. I will say sorry again.

Am just me:

Well am sorry i cant leave GOD on this matter. Check it everywhere GOD instsituted marriage and for marriage to truly work its GOD! If the post said a man/woman share d same room i wld conquer wit u but d poster said man and wife d same way d bible puts it. I will say sorry again.

Well said, it is like saying you have to leave out the manual of a car and you wanna fix the car.

A must for every couple!!!

Oscarsmart:

A must for every couple!!!

Seconded