naawa o, why not.

Don't know about you guys, but I would prefer to have a separate room of my own  in case I need to be left alone.

Though I'm not yet married, I'm already getting fed-up with having to sleep face-2-face with my fiancée every time we slept together. Sometimes I preferred backing her and not wanting all that nonsense.

I think having a separate bedroom is not a bad idea at all.

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[size=13pt]I have been looking for good time to really share deep on this thread and several occassion im online i keep jumping it to respond others waiting to settle down and contribute and thanks to this day for the opportunity created to participate .

Married couples often fall into a pattern of a long day at the office, followed by dinner, kids, and paperwork. Sleep usually involves collapsing into bed with perhaps a quick kiss with your beloved - if you or they has the energy. Often women are the first to lose their interest and drive in the bedroom. Whether it's work, stress, kids, frustration - or all of the above, the female libido often disappears into the sunset, never to return.

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I can only speak for myself, and yes, I couldn't imagine not sharing a bedroom with my wife. Why would I want to get married, then we sleep in separate rooms, because "I like my privacy?" If that was the case, I wouldn't have gotten married.

I'd simply have co-habited.

[size=13pt]<sup>Siena dear i feel you anyway but come to think about it , sleeping with your wife is very nice thing and in some cases sleeping without your wife there must be a good reason. . . there are some kind of moment you wouldn't mind to spend with your darling wife inside same bed.

Some time's during mid--Night your inner self can wake you up from bed and start meditating on a specific issue that need to be resolved or meet through and that deserve a privacy to avoid distraction . . . you know?</sup> [/size]

You dont have to, what if your partner is a chronic snorer? or messsy and when your a neat freak? sleeping in different bedrooms wont really change he intimacy, what of couples whose kid sleeps in between them every night?

[size=13pt]<sup>Why on earth should i get married to an expect snorer. . . .? that's another kind of guinea pig entirely and i must convince you i won't enjoy romancing or bleeping her .

kind of irritating to see a woman snoring like say tomorrow nor dey. . .you know?</sup> [/size]

Understanding matters, but for me i strongly agree with sharing the same room

Poster just make sure you guys live in a big enough house/apartment, i think its best to sleep in the same room, however sometimes one can snore so bad or they like to stay up later and play video games or do whatever, my boyfriend and I first moved together into a studio, which consists of just a bedroom a big kitchen and bathroom, it was hell, because when he comes home from work at 12am he wants to play video games to 3am and i have to be up for work at 530 am, 2 months later we moved to a 2 bedroom and its soo good, he comes home and i am in bed and he plays his game in the living room and even can fall asleep on the couch,

ellagold:


Understanding matters, but for me i strongly agree with sharing the same room

Sharing the small room gives both of you privacy and it keeps the bond tight.
Please encourage it.

deluxecad: I keep wondering, I think she'll be taking in all the time if she sleeps beside me every nite. Lol. I'm afraid I'll get used to her too quickly. What are the pros and cons of sharing the same bedroom with your wife? Guys, would you do it?

get over used to her if posible... at somepoint U'll find out hw to manage things properly... evenwhenit gets mechanical still hang on... u'll finally get it together, itz wot will kp U at Ur old age... when sex is no longer the in thing...

zebra543: You dont have to, what if your partner is a chronic snorer? or messsy and when your a neat freak? sleeping in different bedrooms wont really change he intimacy, what of couples whose kid sleeps in between them every night?

then ure nt compatible dnt even marry smone U cn not sleep wit on d same bed every nite...

Una no go kill me with laughter for NL this weekend you know come to think of it, I think having a seperate bedroom for both of us when we want to be alone is not a bad idea, esp with my hugger babe... him de hug too much sometimes I sleep on the lazyboy in our room for my personal space but I no fit suggest this for real life o, only for NL and he no sabi NL

techie:

@Tsiya I know the feeling I am a night person waking up most nights around 2 to 5 a.m if I stay in the same room with my wifey she complains I am disturbing her with moving up and down, If I go to another room she complains of abandonment!

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deluxecad: I keep wondering, I think she'll be taking in all the time if she sleeps beside me every nite. Lol. I'm afraid I'll get used to her too quickly. What are the pros and cons of sharing the same bedroom with your wife? Guys, would you do it?

You ain't married, re you?