GloriaNinja:
ONLY DESPERATE WOMEN DO THAT

Preca:
yeah that's true...

gsogbu:

well if u live here in port Harcourt you'd know what am saying. Don't knw abt lag doh. But its really painful how men treat ladies.

gsogbu:

well if u live here in port Harcourt you'd know what am saying. Don't knw abt lag doh. But its really painful how men treat ladies.

GloriaNinja:
Lagos worst sef ,you will see men and women, even small girls ND small boys living together many teenagers pregnant and they call it "Lagos marriage". no dowry, no introduction , nothing nothing.

chynie:
is painful but women no dey learn
no matter how love shake una 2, if he never pay bride price no live with am
men will be saying women don't want to suffer with them
my sister no suffer with him ooooooo
cos when money come the man go being look outside

gsogbu:

i will not totally agree that all men will do that; leave the women who suffered with them...
Some keep to their promises.

chynie:

a man that will keep his promise will want to save his woman from shame
He will pay her bride price and wed her no matter how small the wedding is

gsogbu:

LoL, the term "Lagos Marriage" here its called "Port Harcourt" marriage.
The negative effect is that many of them lose respect.

Lionessza:
Not every situation ends like this as sad as it is . Infact I would support someone to live with the person atleast briefly before making the decision to marry them. You will get to know many things about them that you wouldn't know if you lived apart. This is ofcourse when you have both made the decision to get married . You will know for sure whether or not you really want to spend the rest of your life with this individual or you want to go separate ways without going through a stressful divorce.

Benita27:
I hate it when some people try to tribalize things. The term "Port harcourt marriage" is actually used when a lady marries a man she knows nothing of, not for two idiots cohabiting. Stop typing crap as if it's the norm here which isn't. I wonder the area in port harcourt you reside where most people cohabit.

gsogbu:

I understand the point you are driving at. But the issue here is for more than a decade and close to two, the man did not care to pay bride price. Im a guy, but if i were a lady after two years u no shake body, then am off. Its better to save my face now than have four children for u yet u don't bother abt makin a move only to kick me out when u come in with another lady

Lionessza:
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I just pity the kids, they came back from school and were told their dad has a new wife and their mom... Gone. The eldest has been crying since she came back. Refused to enter inside.









I fully agree with you here , I also blame the lady for staying with him for so long if she was interested in an official marriage. She should have left him a longtime ago.

Lionessza:











Ouch! Can't even imagine how the kids must be feeling now, I hope they won't be turned into some Cinderellas by the new woman.

gsogbu:

well if u live here in port Harcourt you'd know what am saying. Don't knw abt lag doh. But its really painful how men treat ladies.

loswhite:
woman wrappering I believe u are yet to see how painful women treat men... you are a man, so find out how painful women treat men and post that thread

gsogbu:
I just pray their mum will take them along. Though the matter was slated to be discussed this eve.

gsogbu:

I think you should check the meaning of words before you use them. Also try to read and comprehend before you comment.

Benita27:
Tell me the word I misused let me check what it means on Google. Funny you!.

Benita27:
Tell me the word I misused let me check what it means on Google. Funny you!.

gsogbu:

You can call me whatever you like, but i have vowed to speak the truth when I see one. Check my older threads. I respect women because i know someday i will have a daughter and I would want them to be treated the way i treat others. Read the story and tell me if what the man did was right.

loswhite:
since your prayer is to have daughters only, I can understand your hate for men.

gsogbu:
LoL, the term "Lagos Marriage" here its called "Port Harcourt" marriage. The negative effect is that many of them lose respect.

gsogbu:
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What a pity, Who did this to you?