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Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Nobody: 8:41am On Jun 15, 2017 |
zynzyn:its not venom, just waiting for my turn when the universe will be willing to listen to me and make it come true, he truely deserves to die of disease as a reward for his mobile d1ck |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 15, 2017 |
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Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by asknigeria1(f): 8:53am On Jun 15, 2017 |
praise1705: What if after putting a ring on it.. d cheating still continues. Marriage cant change a CHEAT 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Jman06(m): 8:56am On Jun 15, 2017 |
tetula123:I have had experiences and so i know what i am saying. And btw, i am not about bf/gf things. I have a different opinion when it is not a marriage relationship. I won't expect a girl i have not proposed to to shun other guys and be with me alone, unless i have proposed and she accepted. What if marriage didn't work out between us, and age no longer on her side after years of dating me I won't be happy with myself for having delayed her, yet i can't just ignore every reasonable reasons not to marry her just because we have dated for long. My concern is on marriage, and i know that over 80% of married couples are faithful, especially in igboland where i come from. I may not know about your own side though. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by praise1705(f): 9:06am On Jun 15, 2017 |
asknigeria1: why on mother earth would a sensible married woman cheat? money for pleasure ain't worth it. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by asknigeria1(f): 9:07am On Jun 15, 2017 |
praise1705: lool why on earth would a married man cheat? |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by jidxin(m): 9:08am On Jun 15, 2017 |
any difference btw cheating nd double dating |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by tetula123(m): 9:34am On Jun 15, 2017 |
Jman06:oh now I see, I get your point now. But with what am seeing in current relationship and the rate at which cheating is now seen like a norm, I fear getting married, girls that take it upon themselves to cheat while in a relationship is very likely to do so again when married,like the OP pointed out..am from the east by the way. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Jman06(m): 9:49am On Jun 15, 2017 |
tetula123:That is why you need to be careful in choosing the one to marry. Don't be too concerned about physical attributes, but let the lady's good character be your major reason for choosing her. One love bro. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by moorevic(m): 10:10am On Jun 15, 2017 |
"Apart from the reason which is selfishness, a cheating partner hopes you will be ridiculously stupid enough not to find out" The always undermine the others intelligence just because he/she piped low to observe. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by IRALIFE(f): 10:22am On Jun 15, 2017 |
I have liked and shared this post but still looking for what to do because it is so true. OP, it is clear you thought deeply about this. Thumbs up. Pls, let's get this clear, it is imperative that you forgive for your own good. Holding unto a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the one you hold a grudge against to die. However, you should think carefully whether or not to continue in that relationship. In marriage, it is more difficult to move on but it would really depend on whether the cheating partner is sincere about desisting from such actions thereafter. The couple should speak to an elderly couple who they respect or counsellors so that the cheating partner would have someone else he/she is accountable to and also help him/her to be content with their spouse. Cheating is a thing of the mind. The mind needs to be renewed often so it doesn't derail. @importexport, well done. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by KAYD007(m): 10:23am On Jun 15, 2017 |
Toks2008: True talk |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by streetsoldier1(m): 10:25am On Jun 15, 2017 |
Well said.... One of the few mistakes the Innocent and naive ones make..... Pls forgive and let the partner go. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by tetula123(m): 10:32am On Jun 15, 2017 |
Jman06:hehehehehe udo.. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by MrPIE(m): 11:02am On Jun 15, 2017 |
What if the Person cheats twice? |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Myzzyfrazzy(m): 12:50pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
i love my girlfriend and never intended cheating on her..but it happned with just one girl and i have slept with her like six times since 2015. let me give the full gist. I fell in love with this girl wen i was in 300 lvl nd she was in 200lvl we are both doing professional courses..on her birthday we both went to a boutique to get a gown for her..dat was where i met this other girl who took my number that she was goin to call me wen dey restock..it started with her calling me innocently and me conversing with her with no bad motives..it den got to a point she started professing love..my brother afraid catch me oh.i told her point blank that i had a girlfriend but she said she did not care..i started avoiding her calls..meanwhile me and my girlfriend are in a no sex relationship(2 years now)..and she knows how to abadon me all because she is a book warm..our campus is resided in thesame town but she only visits me twice in 2 week..i understand sha cos thats how i met her(reading)..so i was so lonely one day wen da devil begged me for a visit and it happened. Dat day..i felt very guilty deleted her number and told her to stop calling me..after like 3 months she recalled crying and begging that we should just be friends..dat has been the story the six times ohh...i really love my girlfriend and i am really not a cheat....i know i bleeped up..i am really trying hard not to make it happen again.. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by DeadPresident(m): 1:53pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
IamEmem: That's why my father left my mother to go be with your mother, he learnt his lesson, he now fills up your mother's ears with sperm instead of pouring it in her rotten pusssy |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by bigcp(m): 3:27pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
klassykute: Very true...but not all though...MOST....very very very hard to get a loyal babe these days...If u like 4k her brains out everyday...a girl that'll cheat will cheat... That's why i never 4giv...a cheating partner...don't 4gv me when u catch me because i no go reciprocare am wen dem turn d table around... |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by doris4u(f): 4:24pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
. Cheating on a bad partner is very bad,it can change the perspective of a person. I know what am saying because I have been there. If I ever have an idea a partner is cheating on me ,I will save myself the headache and move out of the relationship. No time for unnecessary drama. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by libertymax(m): 5:14pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
praise1705: LOBATAN LOL EPIC #BACKTOSENDER NO CHILL BUT TRUE TALK BAE. |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by OJU1(m): 5:20pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
This is a very nice piece, he who has ear let him hear. What is in you is in you, be watchful and be careful. You don't prepare for war in d war front but before the war. importexpert: |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Josephamstrong1(m): 5:22pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
firstladyp4: I see you and hope you're feeling the anointing? |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by praise1705(f): 6:05pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
libertymax: seriously I don't know what LOBATAN mean, I only see it wen a sentence is made |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by firstladyp4(f): 7:16pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Josephamstrong1:My Dear The Anoiting De Too Much Nawaooh! |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by benjsniper33: 7:33pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
godunia: Hmm... this one strong gaan. OK continuu |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Nobody: 11:09am On Jun 16, 2017 |
Na dis spider wey dey waka upandan nain I no con understand o! |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by seanswitch(m): 11:51pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
You know it kinda affects the next relationship. Vikky014: |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by seanswitch(m): 11:55pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Thats a serial cheat. Stop letting him take advantage of you by playing with your emotion. Let him know you won't forgive the next transgression. firstladyp4: |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by libertymax(m): 12:48am On Jun 17, 2017 |
praise1705: LOL all i know about LOBATAN is that jenifa(funke akindele) used it in one of her episodes of jenifa's diary |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by Emmypam(m): 10:49am On Jun 17, 2017 |
libertymax:LOBATAN means "end of story/discussion" |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by libertymax(m): 4:55pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Re: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by tega2luv(m): 7:26am On Oct 03, 2020 |
[b][/b]my candid opinion on this matter is that when cheating occurs in a faithful relationship something actually triggers it, we should be more focus on how to eradicate this issues that triggers the cheating, thing like 1. If you are not financially okay I think you shouldn't enter a very faithful relationship because when you do not have money and your partner doesn't have as well it becomes hard to be faithful because at a point in life we all meet someone far better than our partners. 2. You need a matured mind to have a faithful relationship because in the journey of love there are so many temptations and just as u and I know good things usually face several trials so your ability to put yourself together and tackle every trial as de come requires ur intelligence and mind. 3. Do well to recognise early if you guys are compatible, if he/she is sex freak or has high libido etc,and you are opposite that,trust me infidelity will surely flow. 4. Know what you want from the relationship set your target straight, if its flings or for pleasure do well to let your partner know about this, and very very important know the genetic status of your partner as early as 1week of the relationship to avoid stories like I cheated bcux we are of same wrong genotype. With the few points that I have highlighted any normal human being should be able to avoid cheating in a relationship outside these then the person that cheats is not a human being. |
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