4 me,ma way of being romantic deals wit da type of gurl am dealin wit.If u love a jerk ass(i flow with da rhythm),bt if u cool(diff i take it cool wit u)& bside 9ja gurls fall most 4 jerk ass-so y i they talkin abt romance,when they ain't feelin a caring & lovin guys(always refer em as LOVER BOY).
NAIJA BOYS R ROMANTIC,BT OUR LADIES DNT KNW WATS they really want.SOOOOOOO, Naija gals-continue livin in ur shallow world.
Naija guys r more romantic than d ladies

I'm an American women and my man is Nigerian. I had hoped to gain clarity from reading posts on this topic, but I think it really depends on the individual. Some Naija men seem romantic while others don't. That's the same as it is with American men too.

My man says that romance is not a known thing in Nigeria, until recently. (he's 30) However, I've met two other Naija men who were very romantic. They called and texted all the time. They were both very expressive about how they felt, but they both were Christian while my man is Muslim.

Maybe that makes the difference. what do u think?

@Topic,I dont know about other Nigerian Mens, But i pureminded is womantic

they pretend to be romantic . . .

I agree with winnergal, most (not all) Nigerian guys will tell you that they didn't grow up seeing their dads doing romantic things for their mothers, which is sad but true. They aren't used to it and some are just learning how to show that affection but majority are stubborn about giving into the trend. So the guy who tells u he's not romantic but is willing to learn, is being honest and real. The one who's texting and all that, is frontin- BEWARE!! He's probably seen a lot of movies and figures that's the way to go, he'll disappoint you later.

na wah 4 u winnergal is it not better to have a guy that pretends to be romantic than one who is stone cold

No offense to the Nigerian guys. . .but i have to say most Nigerian guys have got no idea what it means to be romantic. . .which is sad.

ThoniaSlim:

No offense to the Nigerian guys. . .but i have to say most Nigerian guys have got no idea what it means to be romantic. . .which is sad.

can u pls tell us then ?

Tell you guys what?

thoniaslim please teach us how to be romantic i'm dyin 2 learn ooooooooooo

luk at the kind of thing u are talkin about i prove it 2 u dat at of 100 nigeria guys 133 are romantic i.e dey are very perfect 4 dat if no bi so dey 4 no dey itali for dat work. na 0nly God no if no bi d work u dey do selt
dey are just 2 romantic

Naija guys are romantic in their own way.
He wont buy you flowers, as there are serious doubts that the naija girl appreciates such.
He doesn't read M&B, so don't expect him to bring such stories to life.
The gentleman in him may not always open the door for you, but will always pick up the tab after you.
He will not prepare a candle light dinner for you (after all thanks to regular power failure there is nothing special in candle light meals) but he will take you to the most expensive restaurant he can afford.
Things he cannot say in public, he will send as SMS.
He may not take you on long walks on the beach, but he will sit with you in the still of the night and talk about things that are of the heart.
He will hold on to you like if his life force depended on it.
He believes that his actions speak louder than his words.

NOTHING E
U DON EVER SEE RICH MAN WHEN WOMAN COMPLAIN SAY HE NO ROMANTIC?

These is stupid there are least hundred thousand of naija men someone just observes 10% and concludes they are not romantic.that's purely genetic fallacy.and it's Bleep%d up.

If you say the old school naija men yes they are not that romantic
but as for the now adays naija men HELL YEAH they are just too romantic

Level Headed Nigeria Guys are generally Romantic.
I mean,^{Am an Example}

1 out 10 eh? That would explain why many of the ones on here post the way they do.

I'm much more romantic than my man. And sometimes, he flows with the rhythem.

Dere I:

I'm much more romantic than my man. And sometimes, he flows with the rhythem.

That's Symbiotic Romance

yes of course they are, only with akata and oyinbos.

@ poster i disagree wit you that nigerian men are not romantic( yes they are romantic) another thing it depends on wat the opposite sex defines as been romantic?

nene1:

yes of course they are, only with akata and oyinbos.

that cant be true.

I have seen some of the romantic things that some of my hubby's buddies do for thier wives and gf that are Nigerian.

I have also seen some of the Nigerian women (gf) not like it and scream on them because of it.

Yeah we are, we're boombastic too

omo some Nigerian guys are good O dey are even rated as champions by d American babes.

who is actually more romantic btw Naija boys and Oyibo boys?

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hisssssssssssss , naija men! they like playing Mr Tough ---- untill their gurl leaves, they will be posting nonsense and ingredent threads about how their gf left them and they can neva love again or how will they love or all those duhh kinda questions,

to me nigerian guys re romantic, 99% of d american guys end up beatin up g gul after bein romantic.nigerian guys re just scared of shpwing their emotions 2 much.

can d Oyibo babes rate the Nigerian guys as more Romantic?