Jude and I have been friend since our youth days, we grew up in the same neighborhood and attended the same school. Jude is from a rich family and on many occasions has always help me with cash and things I need.

A borrowed a bag from Jude and when I returned from my travel to the village, I sent my 14 year old sister to return it. It wasn't her friend time of going there, she normally visited at times.

Few hours later, my sister returned crying, and said when she got there it was only Jude she met at home and he started telling her he liked her and before she knew it, Jude had r@ped her.

I ran there and fought with Jude, but I had to leave and return to inform our parents, Jude initially denied but came clean later. My family has asked that Jude must marry my sister who is now pregnant and take care of her education to university level.

Jude's dad has accepted the responsibility of taking care of my sister and accepted the pregnancy but he said his son would not marry my sister and even boasting about it.

What can my family do?

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Buharimustgo:
Pls don't force Jude to marry your sister,because they will eventually kill her using one excuse or another

Homeboiy:
Go and rape Jude sister back

Homeboiy:
Go and rape Jude sister back

saydfact:
@ banmee -

Abi, sm pple just make u wonder

Homeboiy:
Go and rape Jude sister back

banmee:


Smh. You have to wonder how some Nigerians think. Take this post below for instance. This animal wants to solve a crime by committing another crime. What a people.

Ladybluecash:
Advice please oooo, am in a one year relationship with a guy, he's so caring humble, a taste of every woman permit to use it. after 2months of our meeting he found out I was having a health issue which I thought would cost me likely a million to treat, he told me frantically that he would stop at nothing but to see me well again, but to God be the glory we didn't spend much on treatment tho he was ready to do as promised. I have never seen him with another gal, or making suspicious calls in fact I spend more time with him than I do at my house, his frnz now see us as couples but the issue is. I just find out that he has/had a child with another girl before we met. Is it ok I confront him about this? please make una help biko

drunkpunk:

Judging by what you said, you guys are few months old. I'd be brief. Have you guys ever had alone time where you discuss personal stuffs? I dont mean over the phone. Secondly, if yes, have you ever tried asking each other if there are secrets you guys are actually keeping from each other? Maybe he feels it's rather too early to spill it out. Sometimes we just wanna be sure of our partner before saying some particular things. The trust has to be earned...

Ladybluecash:
it's true we are few months old but trust me you wouldn't believe if you know us, we are like brother and sister, best of friends, we do a lot of things together. I font think there is sumtin about me he doesn't know. I know that men keep somethings about them private even when you are their wife, but I don't this is one of them and I don't know why he chose to kip ds a secret. is it ok if I ask him about it that's my question and worry or I should still pretend as if I know nothing

drunkpunk:

You know better where your 'ship is headed. Now lemme ask you... How genuine is your source?

Ladybluecash:
I saw his text this is the third time and I have dreamt about this twice

drunkpunk:

Okay. First things first. If you are a religious person take it to prayer. Secondly, you have to apply wisdom and be calm whatever his response may be. Thirdly, go ahead and ask him bluntly, be sensitive enough to watch his facial expression. That would also teach you a thing or to as regards of he is hiding some more stuffs or not....

Ladybluecash:
uhmm Thanks brother. God bless you

lofty900:
Carry ur sister and dump in their house. They must marry by force

drunkpunk:

Okay. First things first. If you are a religious person take it to prayer. Secondly, you have to apply wisdom and be calm whatever his response may be. Thirdly, go ahead and ask him bluntly, be sensitive enough to watch his facial expression. That would also teach you a thing or to as regards of he is hiding some more stuffs or not....

Ladybluecash:
Advice please oooo, am in a one year relationship with a guy, he's so caring humble, a taste of every woman permit to use it. after 2months of our meeting he found out I was having a health issue which I thought would cost me likely a million to treat, he told me frantically that he would stop at nothing but to see me well again, but to God be the glory we didn't spend much on treatment tho he was ready to do as promised. I have never seen him with another gal, or making suspicious calls in fact I spend more time with him than I do at my house, his frnz now see us as couples but the issue is. I just find out that he has/had a child with another girl before we met. Is it ok I confront him about this? please make una help biko

nuele:
What does Jude say? Let's start from there, afterwards may then try convince dad.

saydfact:


at the time of report Jude was out of town - but he doesn't want to marry her too.

saydfact:


exactly - she wld end up regretting it; its better to deliver and hand over the baby to them and move on...

doyinbaby:
of course marriage no be by force.....if marriage no happen....she should never make the mistake of handing over the baby to them......layer in life they will may not give her access to the child.....Keep your child with you but be collecting money for upkeep of the child from them

nuele:
Provided he is alive, his say can be extracted, very important, after all he isn't dumb.