OkuFaba:
avoid her simple. She'll feel heart broken but its better than carrying a cross u not ready to carry.

kinibigdeal:


Lemme see her pics so i can know how to advice you better

Sammmypoko:
Brooda y u lyyyiiinnnn

NiRfreak:
Why would I ? I have never created undue attention for any reason...You can check my previous posts and topics......Pls take a detour if u can't identify with the scenario and have notin to say

NeeKlaus:

Bruhdah, don't joke with those three words "I Love You". Girls take them quite seriously... been there a couple of times. If you know you don't want anything deep with her, set the boundaries NOW that you have the chance.

Else, be ready to face her fury when it brews. My 2pence.

Agbajileke5:
U ar wicked and heartless. U dont love her n u had sex with her. U ar mad

Nina4u:
There is nothing wrong with having a one night stand.. Lust and attraction is what its called .. Some naija ladies have 3 bfriends.. One pay for phone.. One for hair.. One for something else.. No money or gifts.. No sex.. What does that make u? A hoe.. U just don't run the streets and pic up customers.. Same thing though u charge for a service.. Sex.. Thats what prostitutes do

MsRoe:
Tell her the truth....

Don't respond to the text, just call her and tell her that: You were just looking to have a good time, nothing serious. You're not ready for any relationship with her, and you're sorry if you hurt her feelings.

If she's the whiny type that keeps insisting she loves you (she may not actually love you, but girls like to justify, for themselves, their decision to sleep with a guy) just tell her that you appreciate her sentiments but you do not share them. And it would be unfair to her if you took advantage of her love to have sex with her a few times more. She'll be hurt worse in the end. You'd rather be cruel now to be kind.


Hopefully, she'll learn from this and move on.

Michelle55:
my question is why do ladies fall in love so quickly and easily after sex? I'm still confused oh... op, just tell her you guys are good as sexbuddies. no hard feelings, don't tell someone you love them when you know that it ain't true. keep it simple!! !

Nina4u:
There is nothing wrong with having a one night stand.. Lust and attraction is what its called .. Some naija ladies have 3 bfriends.. One pay for phone.. One for hair.. One for something else.. No money or gifts.. No sex.. What does that make u? A hoe.. U just don't run the streets and pic up customers.. Same thing though u charge for a service.. Sex.. Thats what prostitutes do

drewxx88:
I never tot I'd see a 9JA gal speak so candidly...

Nina4u:
i dey oyibo sha...

You are beginning to fool us with this your Naija stunt shaa.. Good one.

What country are you actually from, Ma'am?

NeeKlaus:

You are beginning to fool us with this your Naija stunt shaa.. Good one.

What country are you actually from, Ma'am?

Nina4u:
I'm from Sweden but live in the states

Nina4u:
I'm from Sweden but live in the states

SplendidE:
You don't love her yet u sexed her,continue
I just look u with one eye,I pity d poor girl
playing with a fuckboy like u

Nina4u:
There is nothing wrong with having a one night stand.. Lust and attraction is what its called .. Some naija ladies have 3 bfriends.. One pay for phone.. One for hair.. One for something else.. No money or gifts.. No sex.. What does that make u? A hoe.. U just don't run the streets and pic up customers.. Same thing though u charge for a service.. Sex.. Thats what prostitutes do

ikp120:
Tell her "Thanks!" if you like her and want to continue fvcking her, or reply her with "K" if you no wan fvck her again.

NiRfreak:
There's this girl I met recently and we got along. She showed positive signs, I guess she liked me.
For me however, and as a rule, I rarely toast ladies. I usually try to create attraction and ride on it till I get an happy ending. Along the line and coincidentally, my birthday came and I took her on a date. We had a nice moment and we kissed afterward. Since we stay not too far away, we would plan to see each other at night to gist on various issues and kiss passionately. Few days later, we were together in my secret den where I used guy-man antics to lash her like a fuckboy. As a first impression sex, trust me, no stone was left unturned. She was so into me and kinda taking it serious.
The question is, for me, I was just having fun with a new catch. I like her though but I'm not ready for girlfriend thing. After the sex thing, she kept calling like plenty times everyday to check on me, and out of obligation I returned a few calls. Now, she sent a text about the good moment we had in my den and how she longs for it again, told me she missed me and that she 'loves me'. Seriously, she's kinda a good girl who wants a relationship but I don't like dating stress. The good guy in me feels somehow for her cos I don't love her and I don't want to hurt her feelings. What do I do? and how do I respond to those I love you text. I'm just being a good guy here. Make Una advice me. Thanks