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Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by KKKWHITE(m): 11:15pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Women cant be trusted DNA test after delivery For that her best friend , there should be limit to their friendship You are married to her and automatically becomes her best friend |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by KENNSAMMY(m): 11:16pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
I have always told ladies friendship with the opposite sex must be of limit. In fact, there's a valid sch of thought that a boy and a girl cannot be "just friends",- it is impossible. Whn two opposite secs becomes emotionally close , they are bound to do it. The babe is still most possibly yours even if she did or does it with the intruder gynaecologist. Mother of a baby knows his father ... No bastard. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by gj22(m): 11:16pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
A lot of immature and senseless/biased replies in this thread. Note to future self: never ever go to the internet for life changing advice. Over and out 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by shumuel(m): 11:16pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes: I would advice you do a DNA test secretly far away from any know place to your family or friends, your wife seems to be in the medical line, she and her suspected lover could always alter the result, especially if it's his, be calm. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by BentSpoon(m): 11:17pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Franky826: Your brother is a fool I have those qualities and I have donated sperms generously to married women Tell ur brother to return my baby 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by techlorddsblog: 11:17pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Support her for now and try to let her understand why you doubted her at first, then go for the DNA test when she put to bed. But I don't understand why married women still flirt. Some are even on dating sites. 2 Likes
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Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Exponental(m): 11:17pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
No man unknown to you has the right to call her dear or anything affectionate. why did she not tell her husband she has a new best friend? why did he call another man's pregnancy..."our baby". play along to confirm the baby is not yours, then you move on with your life without her. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by jjjjj2017: 11:18pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes:with my little medical knowledge, the baby is yours but to clear your mind off every doubt about the baby paternity make sure to go for DNA test after baby delivery and order your wife to stop chatting or calling the said man from this very seconds. the fact that you are monitoring her shows that you truly loves her although excess of anything is bad |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by ngmgeek(m): 11:18pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dude, Do the paternity test and then decide whether to love your wife for the rest of your life or stay away from her before she poison you to be with the other man. Try paying less attention to the crocodile tears and accusation that you don't love her. If the paternity test determines you are wrong, apologize to her and move on. Good Luck! |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by chuksanambra: 11:18pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Mhizgracie01: When the child is born, if he's serious, we'll raise the money here on NL. The years of unfaithful wives dumping bastards in our houses are over. If a father doesn't train his daughter to be faithful, she's gonna be bringing enough bastards to his house as souvenirs. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by linearity: 11:18pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
You already have doubts, only a DNA test can clear that. So, wait for the next 8 months and the whole thing shall be resolved. Meanwhile explain your rationale to her and the fact that she contributed to it through her rather lucid chat with this guy. As for her making the house hell for you, those are empty threats...is she not going to stay in the same hell-house with you? In marriage, we begat what we sow, one of the parties cannot sow hell and expect heaven. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by verygudbadguy(m): 11:19pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Jackeeh: Do you think calling the wife w.hore would help his self esteem either? He is married to her and these are mere suspicions until proven otherwise by a reputable lab. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Icemany: 11:19pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Ultrasound is never correct. it is based on scientific calculations on a machine using sound waves . So as the pregnancy progresses ,the due date will keep changing according to the progress of the baby and even at that the mom will not give birth at the said date. Have an open mind for now bro. Goodluck! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by jjjjj2017: 11:20pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
techlorddsblog:honestly it irritates me a lot 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Angelyna(f): 11:20pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Hi Mr, firstly I think you don't love or trust your wife a bit, actually you thought you did... A marriage of just 18months? I fear your home will have enough ups and downs. See go and write today's day down, you will be sorry you ever doubted your wife, if I were the wife, I swear I'll make life miserable for you after the confirmation of the paternity... Some of you men are still boys but you jump into marriage. Fine! You saw your wife chat with another guy but to me it doesn't call for doubting the paternity. Those people advising you to chase her out, they're still mama's boy so what advice can they give.... In short I'm vexing right now... Enough said sha... You guys still have a long way to go and more work to do MemphisRaynes: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by mogboyelade(f): 11:20pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes:read about pregnancy online, ultrasound will add two weeks to the pregnancy. It is believed that a woman is pregnant since the day of her last menstration.you can try another ultrasound centre, it will not give you same result as per the weeks. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Lanretoye(m): 11:20pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Bros just take ur time,from ur story it might just be insinuations...any test that proves negative will further ruin ur house.if there had not been issues in your affair,you wouldn't have all those dated details. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
oglalasioux:Intelligent head spotted right here. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by djacob(m): 11:21pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
She was away on a job training and suddenly get attached to a bestie who call her pet name...bro is too early to doubt, but may God never allow me to spend the rest of my life with a drama queen who will choose someone else as bestie at any given opportunity and forgetting that her Husband was supposed to be her best friend. 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by BigBrother9ja: 11:21pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Franky826:Your bro is a dolt if he never did the dna test. All those rubbish mismatch means nothing! The "toping" he did during pregnancy could have caused it franky826 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by ivolt: 11:21pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
1. Does it matter whether the baby is yours ? 2. Will you call off the marriage if the baby isn't yours? Unless you answer yes to both questions above, you have nothing to worry about. Wait till delivery and go for DNA testing. Do not go for a DNA test unless you are prepared for the result. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by brightalo17: 11:22pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes:See who is warning person here, no be you bring your wife's alleged away match to social media? If you don't want name callings to your wife better delete this thread or take whatever you see here in good faith and stop making noise. 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Sleyanya1(m): 11:22pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Good p.m Op, It is very normal of you to have such feelings especially after going through such chat found on her phone. Firstly, I think your confrontation was too sudden, you should have calm down a little. (Its understandable ). Some ladies have cool friends guys they could be that close to ( it may be coincidental with your fears what you read). What I'm saying here is that even this particular guy you may suspect may not be Responsible (if its not yours ). By your calculation, your suspicions are tending to be true and now she has threatened to make life unbearable If the paternity tests proves otherwise. Here's my advice, stay calm and be more observant. Concerning the Paternity test be sure , she has no link to the doctor involved if possible run the test at different places. Because Ladies could go miles you won't believe. In All of these, please keep praying for your family. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by TheEminentLaity: 11:23pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
You do not have to keep reassuring anyone that you love and trust your wife. Trust should be earned. I think you are just trying hard to believe all this is a lie but sadly, it doesn't look in anyway like it's your pregnancy. Good luck with your next move but please don't hurt anybody. Better divorced than miserable. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by dotune(m): 11:23pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Married woman chating and flirting with another man just after 18months of marriage? She doesn't even have regard for her husband and marriage. You people are saying he should wait for 7 months, who told you he has any 7 months? Tomorrow is never assured. She also promises her husband hell because he accosted her... well my candid advise is for you to be careful and let someone in your family know the situation of things. Be safe. The lady put herself and her marriage in a bad situation. If anyone of you know he or she is not ready for marriage leave it for those who are. It takes maturity, sacrifice and commitment. I can imagine how awkward things will look in the next 7 months. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by stuffs4me(m): 11:23pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MicroBox: Is this one sane at all? He should keep telling a flirting wife sorry upandan? Even if the baby turns out to be his own, the wife has battered the sanctity of marriage by having a "best friend" who isn't her husband. A "best friend" who calls her "luv" and other sweet cute name. A "best friend" that "can't wait to see her". 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by frisky2good(m): 11:23pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
So that she will cry again? Thewrath: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by BigBrother9ja: 11:24pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
jokepearl:Whoever that put that rubbish in your head is a dolt! Menstrual cycle is different from pregnancy... |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by crackhouse(m): 11:24pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
What if the gyno decides to give her some pills to abort it and make it look like a miscariage if they see that u are ready to patiently wait for the dna test? What will u now do? Because they can do that to close the case. Bro Ur wife cheats simple and short. It's a pity but that's the truth. 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by basit322(m): 11:25pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
jomoh: I love your first paragraph suggestion To me I feel there is a fowl play along d period of d intimacy is too short for a pregnancy to be showing 7 weeks And mind u OP ur calculation might b 80% accurate |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by henryhemon(m): 11:26pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Op sound like a weak man, you allow a man call your wife every now and then and you form maturity? Now those chats?? How will she feel if of a lady calls you every now n then ? The easiest way to get to a woman's abode is being friends with her. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by BigBrother9ja: 11:26pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
NoToPile:Shut up with the nonsense of pregnancy started from... Blablabla Rubbish. Who's teaching your people this nonsense!? |
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