| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Daeylar(f): 11:26pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
only 5 but the women's thread was 15  |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
Shouldn't this simply read:"wives, stop being INSECURE!"
3.Shouting on your woman.
Shouting is sometimes the necessary process to make a stubborn partner understand that you mean BUSINESS. For example: you wife want to put tribal marks on your kids face, so you 1st explain why this is a bad idea and how you are totally against such stuff. Next time she raise the subject, you AGAIN try to reason with her that this won't EVER happen, so to let it go.by the 10th times, you have no option but to show this woman that you mean biz (since she hasn't got a clue yet), so you shout:" biatch, I told you already, NO TRIBAL MARKS, and if you EVER raise the issue again, you best look for a new home and place to stay!"
Thus, You will never hear about tribal mark discussion again
4.Correcting her in front of the children
If wifey says something wrong in front of the kids then she should be corrected RIGJT THERE, so the kids don't ever think that what she did/does is RIGHT, and later do the same nonsense!
5. Not having her time every time
ARRANT NONSENSE, that doesn't even need a reply!!!
Bros pls take this... 
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| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by mytym1: 11:31pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
AdeOluwaTomiwa:
Counter https://www.nairaland.com/3891851/fifteen-stupid-things-wife-mess
As a man, you need to act as a man,and I'd be listing out things men do that can mess up their marriage
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
We can't dispute the fact that this happens alot and as a man,I really don't know why we do this,but its a big threat to our marriage though.
2. Not balancing the likes of your wife and yours.
A marriage that's even 10years would crash for this if a man wants his will to top the list every time, well your wife is human,give her the chance to make a decision with what she likes too,and support what she likes,nobody will die if you two are team workers like that.
3.Shouting on your woman.
This is one hell of a big deal,its wring to shout on anyone even a 2y/o, its so wring and scary,because we are humans and we get scared when voices are raised on us,and when we are scared,we'd avoid the person one way or the other or just watch it beside the person and for someone that's married! That's just not too bad.
4.Correcting her in front of the children
5 Not having her time every time.
It's really good to make out time for your marriage and just chill out with the love of your life,the age of the marriage doesn't matter, she's your wife, not your sister,because your sister would understand you and probably not bother because she has other engagements with her friends,but your wife should be queen like that.
6. No have enough money to feed the family (poverty) 1 Like |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by koolguy88(m): 11:32pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
Shouldn't this simply read:"wives, stop being INSECURE!"
3.Shouting on your woman.
Shouting is sometimes the necessary process to make a stubborn partner understand that you mean BUSINESS. For example: you wife want to put tribal marks on your kids face, so you 1st explain why this is a bad idea and how you are totally against such stuff. Next time she raise the subject, you AGAIN try to reason with her that this won't EVER happen, so to let it go.by the 10th times, you have no option but to show this woman that you mean biz (since she hasn't got a clue yet), so you shout:" biatch, I told you already, NO TRIBAL MARKS, and if you EVER raise the issue again, you best look for a new home and place to stay!"
Thus, You will never hear about tribal mark discussion again
4.Correcting her in front of the children
If wifey says something wrong in front of the kids then she should be corrected RIGJT THERE, so the kids don't ever think that what she did/does is RIGHT, and later do the same nonsense!
5. Not having her time every time
ARRANT NONSENSE, that doesn't even need a reply!!!
Matured reasoning |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by ableguy(m): 11:46pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Rules here and there yet marriages keep crashing |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by AreaFada2: 12:08am On Jul 01, 2017 |
SirMichael1:
NL never fails to surprise me by creating counter threads 
A man doing all these doesn't matter, if the woman is thoughtless, bad, evil, or unforgiving, she'll still do what will make the man use bottle and break her head (That was a joke)
Point is, both parties should fight earnestly for their marriage. Fact is some men were never meant to be husbands and some women never meant to be wives. No matter how nice & lovely their spouse is, they will always be ingrate & mess up. QED. 2 Likes |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by SirMichael1: 12:12am On Jul 01, 2017 |
AreaFada2:
Fact is some men were never meant to be husbands and some women never meant to be wives.
No matter how nice & lovely their spouse is, they will always be ingrate & mess up. QED. Yeah but if anyone finds himself/herself in any relationship, just try be your real self and be good. |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by AreaFada2: 12:23am On Jul 01, 2017 |
SirMichael1:
Yeah but if anyone finds himself/herself in any relationship, just try be your real self and be good. True. But therein lies the problem. Such people do not have the basic things to be good in marriage. One party can be good, the other can negate all the good efforts. 2 Likes |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by SirMichael1: 12:29am On Jul 01, 2017 |
AreaFada2:
True. But therein lies the problem.
Such people do not have the basic things to be good in marriage.
One party can be good, the other can negate all the good efforts. That's why there's courtship bro. It gets rid of every regrettable character you would have found out before marriage. |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Rooneyboy(m): 12:32am On Jul 01, 2017 |
My niqqer, it's a man's world hence all these carp are irrelevant. 1 Like |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by jfleece(m): 12:39am On Jul 01, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Walahi...
The only thing that can really mess up your marriage and make it not last is not having a side-chick.
My wise grandfather told me that wives are like Rolls-Royce while side-chick are like Camry...
You don't overuse the Rolls Royce, you only use it when you have to use it so it does not spoil unlike the Camry which is your all-weather car.
You can't smack your wife's ass during sex, talk dirty to her or give her anal but you can readily do that and more with your side-chick and not be scared of being considered a pervert.
Honestly a healthy man's libido can not be handled by only one woman unless she wants to die before the man.
Variety is also the spice of life.
Man is not a monogamous animal and the preek is the only snake that can not live in one hole all it's life.
So if you want your marriage to last long, start looking outside now.
guy u dey mad oooo, all the same I love ur write up. |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by ImaIma1(f): 12:45am On Jul 01, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Walahi...
The only thing that can really mess up your marriage and make it not last is not having a side-chick.
My wise grandfather told me that wives are like Rolls-Royce while side-chick are like Camry...
You don't overuse the Rolls Royce, you only use it when you have to use it so it does not spoil unlike the Camry which is your all-weather car.
You can't smack your wife's ass during sex, talk dirty to her or give her anal but you can readily do that and more with your side-chick and not be scared of being considered a pervert.
Honestly a healthy man's libido can not be handled by only one woman unless she wants to die before the man.
Variety is also the spice of life.
Man is not a monogamous animal and the preek is the only snake that can not live in one hole all it's life.
So if you want your marriage to last long, start looking outside now.
Wow!!! Cool advice. But save it for your generation. 1 Like |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by bukatyne(f): 1:03am On Jul 01, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Walahi...
The only thing that can really mess up your marriage and make it not last is not having a side-chick.
My wise grandfather told me that wives are like Rolls-Royce while side-chick are like Camry...
You don't overuse the Rolls Royce, you only use it when you have to use it so it does not spoil unlike the Camry which is your all-weather car.
You can't smack your wife's ass during sex, talk dirty to her or give her anal but you can readily do that and more with your side-chick and not be scared of being considered a pervert.
Honestly a healthy man's libido can not be handled by only one woman unless she wants to die before the man.
Variety is also the spice of life.
Man is not a monogamous animal and the preek is the only snake that can not live in one hole all it's life.
So if you want your marriage to last long, start looking outside now.
Has it occurred to you that some wives like spanking, dirty talk & co? Interesting how it is all about your needs... You both must be wiser than God who intended marriage to be 1 + 1 = 1. 1 Like |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by lonelydora: 1:20am On Jul 01, 2017 |
Counter thread finally. |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by limamintruth: 1:48am On Jul 01, 2017 |
Just treat her the same way you'd want her to treat you. Datsall! Unfortunately so many irresponsible niggers roaming loose in naija presently.  3 Likes |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by VajanahDischaj(f): 2:42am On Jul 01, 2017 |
AdeOluwaTomiwa:
Counter https://www.nairaland.com/3891851/fifteen-stupid-things-wife-mess
As a man, you need to act as a man,and I'd be listing out things men do that can mess up their marriage
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
We can't dispute the fact that this happens alot and as a man,I really don't know why we do this,but its a big threat to our marriage though.
2. Not balancing the likes of your wife and yours.
A marriage that's even 10years would crash for this if a man wants his will to top the list every time, well your wife is human,give her the chance to make a decision with what she likes too,and support what she likes,nobody will die if you two are team workers like that.
3.Shouting on your woman.
This is one hell of a big deal,its wring to shout on anyone even a 2y/o, its so wring and scary,because we are humans and we get scared when voices are raised on us,and when we are scared,we'd avoid the person one way or the other or just watch it beside the person and for someone that's married! That's just not too bad.
4.Correcting her in front of the children
5 Not having her time every time.
It's really good to make out time for your marriage and just chill out with the love of your life,the age of the marriage doesn't matter, she's your wife, not your sister,because your sister would understand you and probably not bother because she has other engagements with her friends,but your wife should be queen like that.
only the primitive ofonjascans. |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by docherich1234: 2:48am On Jul 01, 2017 |
this is rubbish,,, so i should not shout on my wife abi... mtcheew |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Kagogo: 3:32am On Jul 01, 2017 |
U try GOD bless u |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by pabostt: 3:38am On Jul 01, 2017 |
AdeOluwaTomiwa:
Counter https://www.nairaland.com/3891851/fifteen-stupid-things-wife-mess
As a man, you need to act as a man,and I'd be listing out things men do that can mess up their marriage
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
We can't dispute the fact that this happens alot and as a man,I really don't know why we do this,but its a big threat to our marriage though.
2. Not balancing the likes of your wife and yours.
A marriage that's even 10years would crash for this if a man wants his will to top the list every time, well your wife is human,give her the chance to make a decision with what she likes too,and support what she likes,nobody will die if you two are team workers like that.
3.[b]Shouting on your woman.
[/b]
This is one hell of a big deal,its wring to shout on anyone even a 2y/o, its so wring and scary,because we are humans and we get scared when voices are raised on us,and when we are scared,we'd avoid the person one way or the other or just watch it beside the person and for someone that's married! That's just not too bad.
4.Correcting her in front of the children
5 Not having her time every time.
It's really good to make out time for your marriage and just chill out with the love of your life,the age of the marriage doesn't matter, she's your wife, not your sister,because your sister would understand you and probably not bother because she has other engagements with her friends,but your wife should be queen like that.
Shouting on your wife is barbaric. That shows a lack of leadership qualities at home. 7 leadership qualities a good husband should possess |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Nobody: 4:26am On Jul 01, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
Shouldn't this simply read:"wives, stop being INSECURE!"
3.Shouting on your woman.
Shouting is sometimes the necessary process to make a stubborn partner understand that you mean BUSINESS. For example: you wife want to put tribal marks on your kids face, so you 1st explain why this is a bad idea and how you are totally against such stuff. Next time she raise the subject, you AGAIN try to reason with her that this won't EVER happen, so to let it go.by the 10th times, you have no option but to show this woman that you mean biz (since she hasn't got a clue yet), so you shout:" biatch, I told you already, NO TRIBAL MARKS, and if you EVER raise the issue again, you best look for a new home and place to stay!"
Thus, You will never hear about tribal mark discussion again
4.Correcting her in front of the children
If wifey says something wrong in front of the kids then she should be corrected RIGJT THERE, so the kids don't ever think that what she did/does is RIGHT, and later do the same nonsense!
5. Not having her time every time
ARRANT NONSENSE, that doesn't even need a reply!!!
Of all the instances in the world, why tribal mark? You must have a scaring looking tribal mark and, are you from the igala part of Kogi State? |
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| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Nobody: 6:56am On Jul 01, 2017 |
11. Beating your wife: to all men that do this, you are animals.
12. Not performing your responsibilities especially financially and sexually as a husband: this makes her lose respect for you, the rest is history.
13. Not apologising and admitting your mistakes when you are wrong: this would make her bitter towards you making your marriage like titanic. That is when you hear them say ' I am the man, i wear the pants in the house'. We know its a coverup. Just save your marriage and say sorry(especially igbo men)
14. Cheating: the greatest lie ever told is all men cheat and are polygamous in nature. It is a silly excuse to be weak especially during your midlife crisis.
15. Not being appreciative in your marriage: just because your wife cooks, cleans and does some other things day in day out doesnt stop you from being courteous and saying 'thank you my wife(insert pet names/name/words of praise here).' she can decide to put dog poo in your food, or devil beans in your clothes but chooses not to everyday (that deserves a thank you since she respects you so much). manners can save a marriage and keep it alive. Who know there might be a reward for making her smile. This applies to women too. 2 Likes |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Amakxy: 7:15am On Jul 01, 2017 |
AdeOluwaTomiwa:
Counter https://www.nairaland.com/3891851/fifteen-stupid-things-wife-mess
As a man, you need to act as a man,and I'd be listing out things men do that can mess up their marriage
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
We can't dispute the fact that this happens alot and as a man,I really don't know why we do this,but its a big threat to our marriage though.
2. Not balancing the likes of your wife and yours.
A marriage that's even 10years would crash for this if a man wants his will to top the list every time, well your wife is human,give her the chance to make a decision with what she likes too,and support what she likes,nobody will die if you two are team workers like that.
3.Shouting on your woman.
This is one hell of a big deal,its wring to shout on anyone even a 2y/o, its so wring and scary,because we are humans and we get scared when voices are raised on us,and when we are scared,we'd avoid the person one way or the other or just watch it beside the person and for someone that's married! That's just not too bad.
4.Correcting her in front of the children
5 Not having her time every time.
It's really good to make out time for your marriage and just chill out with the love of your life,the age of the marriage doesn't matter, she's your wife, not your sister,because your sister would understand you and probably not bother because she has other engagements with her friends,but your wife should be queen like that.
. Top on the list should be picking your own family(parents siblings and relatives opinion and wish)before your immediate family (wife and kids). That is a straight lead to disaster |
| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Ravissante(f): 7:23am On Jul 01, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
Shouldn't this simply read:"wives, stop being INSECURE!"
3.Shouting on your woman.
Shouting is sometimes the necessary process to make a stubborn partner understand that you mean BUSINESS. For example: you wife want to put tribal marks on your kids face, so you 1st explain why this is a bad idea and how you are totally against such stuff. Next time she raise the subject, you AGAIN try to reason with her that this won't EVER happen, so to let it go.by the 10th times, you have no option but to show this woman that you mean biz (since she hasn't got a clue yet), so you shout:" biatch, I told you already, NO TRIBAL MARKS, and if you EVER raise the issue again, you best look for a new home and place to stay!"
Thus, You will never hear about tribal mark discussion again
4.Correcting her in front of the children
If wifey says something wrong in front of the kids then she should be corrected RIGJT THERE, so the kids don't ever think that what she did/does is RIGHT, and later do the same nonsense!
5. Not having her time every time
ARRANT NONSENSE, that doesn't even need a reply!!!
Lets see how well your marriage will last 
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| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Obejieric(m): 8:22am On Jul 01, 2017 |
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| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by reservd(m): 9:07am On Jul 01, 2017 |
AdeOluwaTomiwa:
Counter https://www.nairaland.com/3891851/fifteen-stupid-things-wife-mess
As a man, you need to act as a man,and I'd be listing out things men do that can mess up their marriage
1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
We can't dispute the fact that this happens alot and as a man,I really don't know why we do this,but its a big threat to our marriage though.
2. Not balancing the likes of your wife and yours.
A marriage that's even 10years would crash for this if a man wants his will to top the list every time, well your wife is human,give her the chance to make a decision with what she likes too,and support what she likes,nobody will die if you two are team workers like that.
3.Shouting on your woman.
This is one hell of a big deal,its wring to shout on anyone even a 2y/o, its so wring and scary,because we are humans and we get scared when voices are raised on us,and when we are scared,we'd avoid the person one way or the other or just watch it beside the person and for someone that's married! That's just not too bad.
4.Correcting her in front of the children
5 Not having her time every time.
It's really good to make out time for your marriage and just chill out with the love of your life,the age of the marriage doesn't matter, she's your wife, not your sister,because your sister would understand you and probably not bother because she has other engagements with her friends,but your wife should be queen like that.
Ehn, first tins first, r u married?
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| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by Maeka(m): 9:13am On Jul 01, 2017 |
MUST YOU TALK IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY? |
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| Re: Counter Thread:5 Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Marriage by eodavids(m): 9:29am On Jul 01, 2017 |
Sleyanya1:
The summary is Men love your wives and wives respect your husband and be submissive.
I concur! That is still the bottom line last time I checked, and it is not likely to change any time soon. 1 Like |
