For the matured minds pls.

When you call your fiance or girl friend on phone, is it proper when she answers by 'what's up' all the time?

How does she normally reply you prior to her becoming your fiance?

what do you want? hello sir?

Flame321:
For the matured minds pls.

When you call your fiance or girl friend on phone, is it proper when she answers by 'what's up' all the time?

it is not proper!

The best response she should be giving is "MY LORD"

She's not Yoruba, but she addresses me as Oko mi in every other aspects

It depends on how you relate. If you are good friends I not see anything wrong with that.
But if you are just 'lovers' then its wrong.

There are bigger problems to think about abeg.

Guess you'd prefer 'hello oga, good afternoon'?
See, Nobody has time for crap like 'sweetheart, honey', well, not from me anyway.
Tired of dating insecure guys.
Anyway, you know what to do if you dont like it, she wouldn't be your fiancee if you can't communicate little things like this.
I'm out.

Why are you reading too much into things? What's even wrong with what she said?

The best relationships imo, are the ones with an equal combination of romance & friendship. Romance alone can get old & boring fast. Her response is kinda light hearted & friendly. You can't expect someone to be lovey dovey & emotional heavy all the time. That's suffocating even to us emotional creatures-women.

very wrong! maybe you are part time fiance.... means she's in search for a good man

Tolexander:
it is not proper!

The best response she should be given is "MY LORD"

Oponu.
There is nothing wrong in it you archaic minded tosspot.
Banana fall on you!

adetoroamos:
very wrong! maybe you are part time fiance.... means she's in search for a good man

Idio...t!

WhiteLavender:
Guess you'd prefer 'hello oga, good afternoon'?
See, Nobody has time for crap like 'sweetheart, honey', well, not from me anyway.
Tired of dating insecure guys.
Anyway, you know what to do if you dont like it, she wouldn't be your fiancee if you can't communicate little things like this.
I'm out.

spotted! you are runs girl.. why on earth won't u give ur boo or fiance reply back like my king, my love, sweetheart and Co.

dee02:


Idio...t!

ur father.... women wrapper. #ogbounrun obo sufe, means golddigger

She's not Yoruba, but she addresses me as Oko mi in every other aspects

She's not Yoruba, but she addresses me as Oko mi in every other aspects

Elthugnificent:
How does she normally reply you prior to her becoming your fiance?

dee02:


Oponu.
There is nothing wrong in it you archaic minded tosspot.
Banana fall on you!

awon egbon re l'oponu!

Yabaleft fall on you!

'What's up' dey cause problems.

adetoroamos:
spotted! you are runs girl.. why on earth won't u give ur boo or fiance reply back like my king, my love, sweetheart and Co.

very wrong hun, just a girl tired of taking crap from insecure/bossy guys like you. Saying all those crap won't make anybody love the other more.
About being a runs girl, nice try.
I'm out.

for friendship sake dat answer is ok. bt if u want to be lord over her, her answer should be 'papa'

adetoroamos:
ur father.... women rapper. #ogbounrun obo sufe, means golddigger

It is wrapper not rapper, daft cun t
Transformer fall on you!

Tolexander:
awon egbon re l'oponu!

Yabaleft fall on you!

Baba e iwo omo ale jatijati
Burj Khalifa fall on your fada

It depends on how you guys relate before
Don't take it as anything maybe if you are more witty there will be talks like sweety maybe you are even boring.

it depends.....do u want a friend for a wife or a servant? .....a friend will say what's up while a servant will repond...SIR.

You boo should be free to express herself with you nd there is nothing wrong with 'what's up' i'm usually the one who starts d convo with such terms as I'm not big on endearment

I never knew "What's up?" is a problem to some people. Well, I guess the op doesn't know what it means, that's the only reason anyone would feel offended if asked "What's up?" or "What's happening?". You should have asked if it's also proper for your fiancée to ask "How are you?", such an archaic mentality!.

What is this rubbish...sometimes my answers be like ' how far na'. If what's up that's English and appears to be more formal than how far provokes you that means you for don beat me if we are dating. You're a couple and u don't have to be so formal with each other, that's the joy of it. Be there waiting for good morning sir, am fine sir, thank you sir. I swear you go old. You think its still the 17th century, where wives call their husbands 'Nna Anyi'

Op quit such level of insecurity although the truth is that some girls say that to their man when they are with another guy that they probably don't want the guy to suspect that she is actually talking to her man... Despite this reason, it's not enough to be this insecure, it will only end you in heart break republic

this thread weak me...

Open don't be deceived, your girl is not proud of you , she.is cheating on you . Be a man and tell her to always answer your call the way you want and if she still answer you with what's up , just know that she is nothing but a runs girl

oh!....so na daddy wa you want abi.......

dee02:


It is wrapper not rapper, daft cun t
Transformer fall on you!

I repeat ur father! if ur are offended u can kill urself ode!