Am in my mid 20s.. Have been in a relationship.. The last one... We still together but waiting for his dad to finally consent on it before taking it to the next level..
My heartache is.. After so many consultations with spiritualists.. Am always labeled as in Future tense.. I would be jealous.. Won't allow family members of my husband to come near him.. That I am the me and my family type... What I don't understand is.. I haven't been with any of their family for once..how do they come about this theory. How can I prove them wrong.. Is it wrong for a wife to mind her business when she is married... Cos I am saddened by all these prophecies

hmmm what will i say

SmellingAnal come oh

You people should help a sister faa

Throughout your relationship journey, were you guys cordial and did you develop close contacts with his family to the best of your ability?.
Because I believe even if they were told that about you, the way you had presented yourselves over the years should prompt someone in the family to vouch for you and their perception of you at the end of it allwould definitely overide that .

It won't get better after you marry
Family does not change on account of an outsider either the outsider accepts, adjusts or rejects. It's not just him you will marry it's his whole family. So you have not met anyone from his side? What does he say about his family views of you?

Was it a joint spiritual consultation or u did it alone...have u discuss with ur guy..codedly...also have you try to meet his family members...even if just his siblings first