Luvlgenius:

No be small thing o!!!

D couple should get jobs that are really engaging. D lesser d time dey spend at home d beta so as to avoid strife & friction with inlaws

Fhemmmy:

It is a no no no.
Being a man means being able to provide for his family
Get his wife comfort and that means rent his own place.
Why would a man that lives at home marry?

snowdrops:

Interesting opinion. So a ban should be placed on men living at home marrying. Maybe if you remove your rose tinted glasses you would realize that not everyone was born with a silver spoon in their mouth.

Nwaka77:

So you have to be born with a silver spoon to be a MAN? If you cannot provide and take care of a family of your own, then there is no need to get married just yet. No one said there should be a ban placed on "Mama's boys" from getting married but in this day and age when in advanced societies 20 something year old females have their own place (be it rented or purchased), you should not have grown a.s.s naija men with bia bia still living at home with mum and dad and making pathetic excuses. No shame!

snowdrops:

Interesting opinion. So a ban should be placed on men living at home marrying. Maybe if you remove your rose tinted glasses you would realize that not everyone was born with a silver spoon in their mouth.

snowdrops:

Your comments are pathetic and you ignorantly and/or delibrately miscontrued issues.
It shows you are too immatured to partake in such a brain storming discuss. You have no clue what you are on about. Read my previous posts, and i believe its enough response to your half-hearted one.
While staying in your family home and married is not ideal, it is not a contraindication and does not define happiness or success/failure in the union.

Fhemmmy:

I am sure we all can share our view without insults . . . .

snowdrops:

Your comments are pathetic and you ignorantly and/or delibrately miscontrued issues.
It shows you are too immatured to partake in such a brain storming discuss. You have no clue what you are on about. Read my previous posts, and i believe its enough response to your half-hearted one.
While staying in your family home and married is not ideal, it is not a contraindication and does not define happiness or success/failure in the union.

snowdrops:

@ Fhemmmy

You appear to be on my case this afternoon. The last time i checked the dictionary and insult meant "To treat with gross insensitivity, insolence, or contemptuous rudeness".
My comments was borne out of a need to educate the writer who had attacked me. I had to defend my stance and my beliefs. I felt he/she was uninformed on such a sensitive issue. The intention was well meaning. It was not GROSSLY INSENSITIVE, INSOLENT, CONTEMPTOUS OR RUDE as you tried in vain to highlight. It may have appeared as patronizing on face value but when digested in the context of the discuss, it is a different story.

Deep Soul:

A man who cannot provide shelter for his wife and children is not qualified for marriage.

U do not need to be born with a silver spoon in order to be a man!

If you're so "desperate" to get married, that should be enough motivation to make you work hard and get shelter.

Living in One Room (aka face-me-I-face-you) is better than living in your father's house

jumie:

Only a lazy man/mummy's boy will want his nuclear family to live with his parents in their own house.

Shame on such men!!!!

jumie:

Only a lazy man/mummy's boy will want his nuclear family to live with his parents in their own house.

Shame on such men!!!!

Deep Soul:

A man who cannot provide shelter for his wife and children is not qualified for marriage.

U do not need to be born with a silver spoon in order to be a man!

If you're so "desperate" to get married, that should be enough motivation to make you work hard and get shelter.

Living in One Room (aka face-me-I-face-you) is better than living in your father's house