I have been with these church girl who seems to be ignoring me but maintain prolong eye contact. I once sort for you advice on her actions (you remember?).
Today, when I called her we greeted casually and I dropped the call. Exactly 2 minutes later she beep my phone and I called her back and she asked me to come over to her shop so we can chat.
When I got to her shop, she was working on some dresses and we started to talk. Later she told me her about a guy who was hitting on her. She said she didn't like him because of his bad lifestyle. But now the guy is a good Christian and he is married. (I didn't know why she telling me this).
Later she said "can I ask you a question?"
"yes, no problem" I replied.
Then she asked " what kind if woman do you want to marry and What do you want in a woman?"
I told her I do not know. But I know God will show me.
So I returns the question to her and she said "I want a man the will help me achieve my dreams. You know when you love somebody, you will do anything for the person". Yesterday she asked me If I could do a favour for her. And I replied " anything for you ma" I guest it's because I used that phrase yesterday that's why she used it today. Pls I need you opinion my friends.

try not to fall for her Lil skim o..either she is trying to know the kind of person u are.dont let her know who u really are. if she ask u for money don't give it to her.

Nah there style oooooooooo... Just use your head shaa

use your head first by being conservative with the answer and observe her xter to see if she is very real in everything she says and does.
I onced dated a girl who had a very funny xter. Infact, she was materialistic and in the course of time she pressurized me to notify the church abt our relationship but I was reluctant cos that would be a journey of no return. while I delayed, something happened and she blew up and revealed her real self and we broke up. Now, she's back begging me to forgive her and I have but no more relationship cos she is eyeing that area.

ekdee:
use your head first by being conservative with the answer and observe her xter to see if she is very real in everything she says and does.
I onced dated a girl who had a very funny xter. Infact, she was materialistic and in the course of time she pressurized me to notify the church abt our relationship but I was reluctant cos that would be a journey of no return. while I delayed, something happened and she blew up and revealed her real self and we broke up. Now, she's back begging me to forgive her and I have but no more relationship cos she is eyeing that area.

Na wa o. Thanks for the advice man.

Guys, does the question implies that she wants a relationship with me?

nijaomegacode:
Guys, does the question implies that she wants a relationship with me?

YES

OP how old are you?

nijaomegacode:
Guys, does the question implies that she wants a relationship with me?

Yes she does.
But, don't hesitate. Her type tends to get bored if you're not "responding"

guy watch out or you'll be FRIEND ZONED.

Baba use ur head, no let make dem turn u to cashier sake of say dem won say yes to a relationship

beautebeats:
OP how old are you?

I'm 26 and I do not much experience with dating. I have only dated one lady who intensionally ask me out. I broke up with her because she told me she can't leave her boyfriend. This new girl is my choirmistress( I am not a really great singer sha....Hahahahaha). The lady is 23.

Hillzy:
Baba use ur head, no let make dem turn u to cashier sake of say dem won say yes to a relationship

Thanks. Also, today she was preaching about God's love to the choir members and she looked straight at me and said "God will not force anyone to serve him. I wish you follow me, I wish you DATE me. But if you refuse, he will not force you" She said so casually that I doubt if anyone noticed. After the program which ended around 8pm, I called her with the intention of asking her if she got home safely (there was a heavy rain and she entered the rain). As soon as she picked the call, I haven't said anything yet but to my surprise the first thing she said was " Hello, yes I got home safely thanks a lot" I was shocked!

Can you do the Okamfo , Do you know the Okamfo ooo . #Singing

nijaomegacode:

Thanks. Also, today she was preaching about God's love to the choir members and she looked straight at me and said "God will not force anyone to serve him. I wish you follow me, I wish you DATE me. But if you refuse, he will not force you" She said so casually that I doubt if anyone noticed. After the program which ended around 8pm, I called her with the intention of asking her if she got home safely (there was a heavy rain and she entered the rain). As soon as she picked the call, I haven't said anything yet but to my surprise the first thing she said was " Hello, yes I got home safely thanks a lot" I was shocked!

De fall in love de shock but use your head make dem no use church level scam uou. Always be vigilant be loving caring sweet whatever skill you have but once a girl start asking you for money be at alert n rebuff most of such demand expect such demand coincide with your intentions. Also stop being a sissy in relationship.

MissCokie:
Can you do the Okamfo , Do you know the Okamfo ooo . #Singing

I don't know o. Pls tell me about it.

OAFMods:


De fall in love de shock but use your head make dem no use church level scam uou. Always be vigilant be loving caring sweet whatever skill you have but once a girl start asking you for money be at alert n rebuff most of such demand expect such demand coincide with your intentions. Also stop being a sissy in relationship.

Thanks man. She never asked for money anyway. Today I called her and asked if she has a boyfriend. She laughed and said " pls let us talk about this when we see. Maybe be we should meet later in the day and talk about it" When I met her she said "I have a boyfriend but there is a story behind it. I will tell you the story if you tell me the reason why you asked that question. Do not worry, we are humans and such things are bound to happen. Just open up to me" So I told her that my mom asked me to bring 2 friends that I will be praying for so I decided to mention her name to my mom (she smiled) and we just want to know so that we can Join her in prayers over whoever she's dating. She instantly became cold and kept quite. So later I asked her to tell me the story behind her boyfriend which she promised to tell me been t she said "I can not tell you anything again because you did not tell me what I was expecting. you did not tell me what interests me so I can say anything now. Did you mother say you should bring names of people you want to marry?" I said "no". As she kept quite henceforth until I left. What can you say about this? Is she just flirting with me or really interested?

nijaomegacode:

Thanks man. She never asked for money anyway. Today I called her and asked if she has a boyfriend. She laughed and said " pls let us talk about this when we see. Maybe be we should meet later in the day and talk about it" When I met her she said "I have a boyfriend but there is a story behind it. I will tell you the story if you tell me the reason why you asked that question. Do not worry, we are humans and such things are bound to happen. Just open up to me" So I told her that my mom asked me to bring 2 friends that I will be praying for so I decided to mention her name to my mom (she smiled) and we just want to know so that we can Join her in prayers over whoever she's dating. She instantly became cold and kept quite. So later I asked her to tell me the story behind her boyfriend which she promised to tell me been t she said "I can not tell you anything again because you did not tell me what I was expecting. you did not tell me what interests me so I can say anything now. Did you mother say you should bring names of people you want to marry?" I said "no". As she kept quite henceforth until I left. What can you say about this? Is she just flirting with me or really interested?

Dis one strong oo

But OP sincerely, why beat around the Bush? You like this girl or you no like am? If you do, ask am out, if you no do commot eye for there. Just dey merry go round.

Ichietome:

Dis one strong oo

Baba no be small tin, is strong as d word strong it self. Is lik dis nigga dey add him own, cos d lite way d bae dey give am do pass green or is he a learner?

Funtan:
But OP sincerely, why beat around the Bush? You like this girl or you no like am? If you do, ask am out, if you no do commot eye for there. Just dey merry go round.

Baba I tire for d op self, d green lite way d bae dey give am fit blind eyes n him still dey dull

nijaomegacode:

Thanks. Also, today she was preaching about God's love to the choir members and she looked straight at me and said "God will not force anyone to serve him. I wish you follow me, I wish you DATE me. But if you refuse, he will not force you" She said so casually that I doubt if anyone noticed. After the program which ended around 8pm, I called her with the intention of asking her if she got home safely (there was a heavy rain and she entered the rain). As soon as she picked the call, I haven't said anything yet but to my surprise the first thing she said was " Hello, yes I got home safely thanks a lot" I was shocked!

Op me no understd u again self? U like d bae or not? If u do ask her out if u don't let her be

Hillzy:

Baba no be small tin, is strong as d word strong it self. Is lik dis nigga dey add him own, cos d lite way d bae dey give am do pass green or is he a learner?

I wonder

Hillzy:

Op me no understd u again self? U like d bae or not? If u do ask her out if u don't let her be

Thank all of una my guys. Na now I know waiting the happen to the babe. Her twin sister is engaged so her family mount pressure on her. It was that which led to the deaspiration to get married. I do not think she really likes me. She just want to be with me out of deaspiration. She don turn desperado!
Should I still date her?

Funtan:
But OP sincerely, why beat around the Bush? You like this girl or you no like am? If you do, ask am out, if you no do commot eye for there. Just dey merry go round.

The problem I'm facing with her is that she has a boyfriend. I feel like if she cheat on someone with me, she will cheat on me with someone else.

nijaomegacode:
Guys, does the question implies that she wants a relationship with me?

Yes and no. Sometimes i ask girls some kind of intimate questions that keeps them wondering if i actually wanna have a thing with them, but no; i'm not even interested in them most times. ''No knowledge is a waste''
But if u think she's stylishly giving u that norm girly green light then man-up and go for it, xcept u don't fancy her...

Guy...u f##k up 2 me ....2 me she likes u
Just tell her ur mind i begg instead 0f dulling
Anytin make e be....i hate all dis mumu dance j0r....

nijaomegacode:

Thanks. Also, today she was preaching about God's love to the choir members and she looked straight at me and said "God will not force anyone to serve him. I wish you follow me, I wish you DATE me. But if you refuse, he will not force you" She said so casually that I doubt if anyone noticed. After the program which ended around 8pm, I called her with the intention of asking her if she got home safely (there was a heavy rain and she entered the rain). As soon as she picked the call, I haven't said anything yet but to my surprise the first thing she said was " Hello, yes I got home safely thanks a lot" I was shocked!

All these choir love. Una well done oooo. Choristers in the house

I won't trust girls like her

lovelygurl:
I won't trust girls like her

I dislike double dating with passion.

donMIG:
Guy...u f##k up 2 me ....2 me she likes u
Just tell her ur mind i begg instead 0f dulling
Anytin make e be....i hate all dis mumu dance j0r....

Hahahahaha! Lower you energy oga Mi. Why I dey take time like this be say I ah no want make any girl break my heart ooo. I want settle down neh now. (I broke some hearts in the past. I am not proud if that and I don't want such thing to happen again). I want to look for away to let her down easy with making an enemy for myself.

All these Tom and. Jerry stories self...