Busy_body:

Exactly Uju, why make a mountain outta a molehill, why fix something that ain't broke?


Zimex
From your post, it is clear your ex was "the one that got away", if the strong reason you had to part way is still a "barrier", implore with your ex to quit contacting you out of respect, that you have moved on now and then delete his number from your phone, if the "barrier" is still there, thats a good thing, as that should act as a constant reminder that having anything to do with him is a no-no.


THE ONLY PROBLEM YOUR POST HAS HIGHLIGHTED SO FAR IS THAT YOUR husband works away from home and you only get to see him at the weekend, so their is no need telling him about your ex, because he will only translate it to "my wife is giving me an ultimatum that she will stray if i don't find another job that will not keep me away from home". Not a nice thing to offload on him.


So why not take the initiative instead and find ways to meet in the middle, tell him your concerns, that you are feeling isolated and neglected, that you need to keep the union fresh and alive, find time to visit each other, have some brainstorming session with him to find ways to work on the issue, discuss the possibilities of relocating to where he is based, make the most of skype, etc . . .


If you both can't create the spare time needed to see each other as much as you would like, try to endure and find some hobbies to indulge in to wile away your time, because i am sure this situation of working away from home is temporary. 

Ujujoan:

^^^ She's not being dishonest if you ask me! Somethings are just not worth saying. She'll end up making a mountain out of a molehill! She really dosent need that in aher life. I say it's a phase, that will most definitely pass within a short time. I think shd just let it go. If he starts stalking and calling and all that, she can then tell him!

Busy_body:

^^^To those saying she should tell her husband, If this was not an issue Zimex felt could get out of hand, she should have found a way to tackle it rather bring it on NL.The fact that she did indicates she is not strong enough to withstand temptation, heck this ex hasn't even said anything, and she is already in such emotional quandry. Ya think the husband would not suss this out and start to feel inadequate?


So what does she stand to gain other than crushing hubby's spirit by saying " honey i feel you working away is depriving us of spending quality time together and my ex got in touch and i fear i'm about to stray"

Busy_body:

M.lady, sup, hope u've remembered to wrap up warm for the cold snap that is on its the way today, lol.

Busy_body:

So what does she stand to gain other than crushing hubby's spirit by saying " honey i feel you working away is depriving us of spending quality time together and my ex got in touch and i fear i'm about to stray"  

FL Gators:

Be specific. Which door?
So much ashy and ewos on NL sha

follypimpi:


U dey vex i no knock on your Door,Jealousy.To think we be ekiti,chei.

Is sth wrong in having me as a sister?

Agaba
I trust you. . . . Your own word abi?

follypimpi:


It is oo, u no throw any chikala come my way,i go disown u soon.

Busy_body:

I see that
@ no one in particular

All Ekiti's girls and dem wonky frame and stature go soon develop high BP over us picture perfect flawless Osun gyals.

We like it like that. Na only your state go give birth to scammers like TheSeeker. 

Jealousy jealousy, se nitoripe awa Ekiti l'ewa

Girl your just thirsty buy some lingerie and get busy with your HUSBAND

Abekeade08:

lol Girl, you sure don't mice words.

@ OP, I am going to assume you are married to a naija man. Naija men are proud, jealous and possessive. [b]Do not [/b]go around telling him that one of your old flames called and he has incited you with strange feelings. He might become angry with you, if the situation were reversed, would you like it if your husband did the same thing? It would make you doubt yourself as a woman and thus lower your self esteem. Abeg take Ebony's advice to help cure your thirstiness.

Busy_body:

FOLLY

I have changed me mind, no more garage for you, go knock on the dog's house door, i have trained them rottweillers wella on how to open/close doors, so they will let you in dearie.


@ no one in particular

All Ekiti's girls and dem wonky frame and stature go soon develop high BP over us picture perfect flawless Osun gyals.

ayettymama:

monkey

kilo fe faa??



what is this rubbish im reading??

ah who dash you??

pekele pekele

dont come here and chat rubbish ooo

ekiti girls are booriful no contest no contradiction NO CONTROVERSY!

GBA!