Benita27:

Personally, I can't spend my money on a Nigerian guy, perhaps my husband.

Mcowubaba:

Always ventilating once it concerns Nigerian men.
Awon Feminist warlord, president in charge of Gender Equality Ikorodou branch badoo junction.

On topic,
1) An average Nigerian girl sees a relationship as Job opportunity, this is not about whether Nigerian men are not worth the stress, you can only keep lying to yourself.
Even the ones that sincerely love, can't just do without leeching off the man,

I won't blame them so much, because the society and African culture is on their side, men are meant to take control and charge of most financial responsibilities in this part of the world..
This has been the norm from generation to generation, men are the ones that pay bride price, expected to carter for the woman's needs and that of their children.

So it's actually a cultural thing, but just that the Nigerian girls of now are abusing this culture, the have become more of parasites, the don't even think clearly again, it's all about money money, to anyone who comes their way

See, even Abroad the ply this same traits of Parasitism, An average Nigerian girl go gaga when a white guy is toasting them online, what immediately comes to their mind is Western Union and Foreign exchange

This case is White guys oo, do Nigerian girls also like them for just their dick and money, If so, WHO DO NIGERIAN GIRLS TRULY LOVE

See, I don't want to talk much about myself or reveal unnecessary details about myself, I like my anonymity.
But for the sake of this discussion, I don't really stay in Nigeria, sometimes I come to Nigeria with some white people, "mostly males", when we go out to shopping malls or other places, if you see the way Nigerian girls throw themselves at this my friends, carelessly, I used to be ashamed.
There are 2 sex maniacs amongst my "friends", the usually have lots of sex tourism with this girls

The tell me this Nigerian girls usually beg them for dollars, € or £, just any foreign currency, and for them to take them over to their country.

The mock me with this, that's one of the reasons I talk against Nigerian girls, truth be told, I'm not so close with those 2 white guys again, but you know we men don't really keep malice and moreover I have a great history with them. For them visiting Nigeria with me on a regular basis, should explain more about our relationship.

Now what will you say in this case, this Caucasians are also not worth it
This are tall, slim, young, handsome boys. I ask again who do Nigerian girls like? Who will they not carry their problems to, I really want to know

2) Who told you that we don't date and marry foreigners, I wonder where you get your information
Millions of male Nigerians abroad are dating Foreigners.
You may say for papers, for money, not all. I know this things.
I'm not degrading Nigerian girls, some white girls are scum too, the aren't Saint. But I choose them over Nigerian girls a million times.

Nigerian girls have over taken the Prostitution business in Italy, Malaysia, Dubai, Ghana the are trying to get into Scandinavian countries, but it ain't easy for them.

Yes, some Nigerian guys are also doing some nasty shit, like drugs, yahoo yahoo.

No sin in lesser, but believe me, a Drug pusher or yahoo boy has more pedigree than a hooker, ashawo koboku, Olosho.

Nigerian girls and money for hand, back for ground, legs for air

3)You say you Nigerian girls tolerate our inadequacies, Lwkmd. I have mingled with some Nigerian girls back then in Nigeria, the don't offer anything thing, except to open leg, nd using their body to get favors, look I'm a hardworking boy, my mama train me well, I cook, wash, clean for myself, I don't need no girl to do that for me..

Even in my experience with some Nigerian girls, I was the one that cooked, washed our plates and cleaned up my house regularly, few of them will say, baby let me help you, I tell them not to worry about it.

Before tomorrow someone will say I used and dumped them, because they cleaned my house and cooked food that we both ate

Lastly, I don't know about other Nigerian guys, but I know I positively influence the people around me, I'm a free thinker, a realist and a logical person, and I apply that in all my dealings, plus the money we give you girls, if that's not influence , I don't know what is

The money no dey change una life, girl wey nobody for her family background don use IPhone before, go suddenly become IPhone 7 user
Carry Peruvian hair, 100% natural. Lol, carry Chanel bag, sit down in front for better motor_passenger side with AC
The form Boss chick, Slayer general, abbatoir Commander Lwkmd. Oniranu Slayer general mama.
Meanwhile, her papa dey drive Maruwa(Keke Na pepe) her papa never give am reach 10K before to use do hair.

Mbok, we dey try jor. Our influence is too much.

Spear me the details of we are what we attract, I resemble Magnet

Anyways, I read online that there are some wonderful Nigerian girls, I need their phone number.

Ps
No girl should feel offended by this post, I know some of you are wonderful people and I love and appreciate you all

NevetsIbot:
In Nigeria? Maybe I might but the probability is very low.

From all I've experienced....
1. Most Nigerian girls Don read or develop their intelligence level.

2. They hardly think rationally.

3. Have a lot of baggage

4. hardly investment in their man.

5. They like wahala.

6. They decide to lose shape and grow fat after marriage.

A guy like me hates stress that's not related with work. Can be too emotionally attached to a girl.... Now imagine me being attached to a Selfish Nigerian girl. The horror. Any relationship I get into with a Nigerian girl comes with a lot of stress for me.

Even the intelligent ones have ego issues and feel too insecure. Here's a thread by me about one I met
https://www.nairaland.com/3288345/when-girl-believes-shes-too

I'm not saying great girls aren't in Nigeria but as far as I'm concerned... I'm tired of searching. Been single since February and I'm enjoying life without relationship stress. Girls these days are too cheap... Getting laid is as easy as breathing

cooldood:


Wao!I thought I was weird for thinking exactly like you boss (but now I know am normal)!it's like you are a wizard. Items 1,3 and 5 are my biggest concerns. Me n emotional drama are like antonyms meanwhile its like drama is the middle name of most 9ja babes. I have a female friend whom I met at a former place of work, she grew up in the UK and Ethiopia largely but she's Nigerian. Her attitude was just too pleasantly distinct from other babes. Meanwhile other babes in the coy had gone for Masters in the UK but come n see drama,its this British-Nigerian gal that used to settle quarrels for the other babes. I think the Nigerian environment produces very harsh humans generally and the gals are not immune to it. But 9ja-grown gals can work on themselves to be 'normal humans',rather than all these poverty orientation,low level of knowledge of issues of life for intelligent discuss and overly dramatic attitude common to most of them.

lefulefu:

never heard a situation when somebody girlfriend dey come visit am den she go ask the guy for transport fare .except u hook up with a random babe for facebook or instagram and invite her over for d night.understand that many of these ladies who hook with random strange men for social media engage in internet prostitution .

trojan84:

You are right to some extent, but like u said "neva heard". some girls still do that, though not in anyway near majority but they still exist which to me is no longer a situation of "us" but "you" and "I".

Mcowubaba:


Nwanyi Oma, Iyawo mi, no be fight.
We disagree, to agree and vice-versa.

I display many personalities here, I play around, sometimes I Curse, sometimes I discuss seriously.
That's my life.

I can keep going back and forth with you all day..

But
Now, I'm in the mood to play around, I play a lot sometimes.

Don't let the negative impact of the internet get to you, it's all Fun, no take dey matter personal. .

I can see you're interested in winning the argument, so you have won Bravo!!

Sorry for calling you a Feminist too, but being a Feminist is not BAD ooo, I don't know why you're against the nomenclature.
I will like my Daughter to be a good Feminist

The only problem I have with Feminists is that some of them usually get their ideologies mixed up, especially the Nigerian ones.

I will Highlight (Bold) this write up, so you'll see it well, no excuses.

Wait ooo, *Modified*

I just read the so called post you claimed to edit, you even insulted me more, saying I prefer to act like a child, undeserving of having a discourse.. Hmmm Na wa ooo.

So much bitterness, tantrums and anger.

I'm tempted to ridicule you brutally, I play dirty, no think say you get talk ooo, I don tey for this kind matter oo, but I will pass....

I'm not bragging or anything, but my dear, don't try me, REAL life and online, I go fvck you up any how you want am...
I didn't say I will beat you physically. There are many other ways to get you hurt.
"I'm not threatening you"

You just changed my mood again to Serious. You're one hell of a bitter person.

I have tried to joke around with you, but you just so fixated on your bitterness and argument

Resist the temptation of replying me, I'm not going anywhere tomorrow, neither do I have any important thing to do, so I will dedicate my time to...... .

On the other hand, I may not just reply you again till March 2018 , I'm happy man.

rali123:


You think she's bitter? With all you wrote above, Please check yourself...

Baby girl, I'm a lover not a fighter.
Give me a chance in your life , u will never regret it...
I will buy you IPhone 8 oo, jokes apart

Papiikush:
What do you expect from a jobless, broke, boyfriend depending liability who thinks guys can throw money at her whenever she asks because she's got a hole between her legs .

Lol.# chews corn.

That is how one random guy online asked me to visit him. with my own hard earned money. I wonder if sugar dey him D. tfu

seriously Nigerian girls don't think Nigerian boys are worth wasting any money on.

In Europe after the girl has bought the tickets and travelled down, they go on romantic dates, sight see and it's so fun for both.

But if a naija girl waste money to come and see y'all, she gains nothing. she go cook tire like say u don marry her, then steady knacking till day break.

so tell me, are you worth a girl spending 2k to come and see you!!?

Let me get this straight.
You invite a girl over, and she would pay her transport fare to and fro?, what are you as her boyfriend doing?.
She should as well take you out and pay for your orders.
She should shower you with gifts.
You want to be on the receiving end without offering anything beside your dick, and because she's a Nigerian girl she should do all these in a relationship you won't think twice cheating or terming her desperate.

Personally, I can't spend my money on a Nigerian guy, perhaps my husband.