so I have been going out with this white girl (finnish) we clicked, she came to my house we had sex. she called again that she wanted to come another day... we had sex.. well I thought we had something going on... just for the girl to tell me she is not interested in me or being in a relationship but we should keep having sex. ... I thought girls get emotionally involved when sleeping with a dude.

why is hers different, i aint so interested in the sex i liked this girl.. she is young, tall and got an african booty not the popular old women to a black guy. right now it is like she has turned me to a sex outlet.. if she is in the country where I am she comes like 3 times a week. lucky for me this week as she travelled to spain for the week .

now how can you have sex with someone more than 10 times and still not catch just small feelings. ?

She is white..Thats the difference.
They know the difference btw a sex mate(rial) and husband material
You are a sex material.
Get used to it

missyadorable:
She is white..Thats the difference.

They know the difference btw a sex mate(rial) and husband material

You are a sex material.

Get used to it

dhensity:
so I have been going out with this white girl (finnish) we clicked, she came to my house we had sex. she called again that she wanted to come another day... we had sex.. well I thought we had something going on... just for the girl to tell me she is not interested in me or being in a relationship but we should keep having sex. ... I thought girls get emotionally involved when sleeping with a dude.

why is hers different, i aint so interested in the sex i liked this girl.. she is young, tall and got an african booty not the popular old women to a black guy. right now it is like she has turned me to a sex outlet.. if she is in the country where I am she comes like 3 times a week. lucky for me this week as she travelled to spain for the week .

now how can you have sex with someone more than 10 times and still not catch just small feelings. ?

You think it's like some Nigerians babes that will automatically ask you the next morning..."so what are we now"...all in the verge to turn u to ATM naaniii...no be say na love......
Enjoy yourself naaa...why are u being a sissy...its just a fling and u won't to automatically upgrade urself to boyfriend status..
And if u are a Nigerian in a foreign Land......she might be thinking this guy might try to use me for legal permanent stay...so she's just keeping it casual as possible...

And if u really like her...mayb u should show some commitment not minding u might get dumped...thats what love means u know...buy her gift, take her out when she comes around,na oyinbo naaa..u dont have to buy her Iphone7 before she will appreciate...but if u can afford more than IPhone7 please go ahead..

1StopRudeness:


You think it's like some Nigerians babes that will automatically ask you the next morning..."so what are we now"...all in the verge to turn u to ATM naaniii...no be say na love......
Enjoy yourself naaa...why are u being a sissy...its just a fling and u won't to automatically upgrade urself to boyfriend status..
And if u are a Nigerian in a foreign Land......she might be thinking this guy might try to use me for legal permanent stay...so she's just keeping it casual as possible...

And if u really like her...mayb u should show some commitment not minding u might get dumped...thats what love means u know...buy her gift, take her out when she comes around,na oyinbo naaa..u dont have to buy her Iphone7 before she will appreciate...but if u can afford more than IPhone7 please go ahead..

yea i have got that in mind to use her as legal permanent stay but i still like her sha.... na why the thing they pain me. if na orobo oyinbo nau or old ladies they will be the ones begging you, to fall in love with them

Sorry sir.
Marry local to save the Nigerian economy.

missyadorable:
She is white..Thats the difference.

They know the difference btw a sex mate(rial) and husband material

You are a sex material.

Get used to it

Hypocrites! Now you're here referring to him as a sex object

But when ever we refer to you ladies as that cause most of y'all have nothing to offer apart from Puna, you'll scream and start cursing out.

dhensity:


yea i have got that in mind to use her as legal permanent stay but i still like her sha.... na why the thing they pain me. if na orobo oyinbo nau or old ladies they will be the ones begging you, to fall in love with them

If you don't have anyone uve made marriage promises to back at home in Nigeria.....then just be romantic once in a while without looking desperate at the same time, you know how they do those lovey dobey shiits in telemundo...and be urself, you'll be surprised she doesn't even like who you are pretending to be...if she can fvck you, she can surely have a serious relationship with you.
That is if she doesn't have anyone serious and her family doesn't have problems with blacks especially Nigerians.....

missyadorable:
She is white..Thats the difference.

They know the difference btw a sex mate(rial) and husband material

You are a sex material.

Get used to it

Did you study distroyology in school?

VargasVee:


Hypocrites! Now you're here referring to him as a sex object

But when ever we refer to you ladies as that cause most of y'all have nothing to offer apart from Puna, you'll scream and start cursing out.

That's why miss adorable put the clause : "she's white"
Black African girls hardly think that way...once you straff her, u are already in a relationship with her inside her head cos she doesn't want u to tag her as "cheap".....and u must pay even if she's not a prostitute ooooo but u must still pay....you cannot come and be straffing a Nigerian girl for free.....its the order of the day in Nigeria....we are used to it now...u shuld get used to it and stop lamenting...

Inna op
It is only in Nigeria or west Africa at large do girls see sex as a special thing
I have seen guys sexing girl at night (that I was even hearing them scream ooo), and in the morning the girl didn't even greet the guy
You are even lucky the white chick want you to be fuckmate if that is want you want anyway

Sadly you can't change her mind, girls like that have their mind made up, even more than the virgins here in Nigeria
So if you want more, I ssuggest you move to another girl

missyadorable:
She is white..Thats the difference.

They know the difference btw a sex mate(rial) and husband material

You are a sex material.

Get used to it

Bad mouth though painful truth sha!

guy if you no fit continue,send me her number jooooo lol

Next time she wanna meet, tell her to meet you at a local bar to hang out, and see if you guys even have something to relate (other than sex)... Having a relationship demands some affection, something to like about each other, some care, some common ground etc.