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Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
chibuzorAbia:so u are advising people to follow this part cant u see how ta-tarred NORTHERN KID ARE we talking of quality life |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 3:10pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
blip:Thank you jawe. You share similar reasoning with me |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 3:22pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
rash47:It happens bro. Most ladies tend to take their leave when a financial stable dude pressurize them and shower them with material things Do you know that some housewives even leave their husbands for another man that can pay their bills? 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Addicted2Women: 3:29pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
debbycreamy: Just shut up, you're a liability How much does your husband have ?? Just a small financial problem and you will know you're a liability Does your husband have up to 50 million naira ?? That was how much i lost in business and investments, had it not been for my employed wife, i wouldn't have been able to get back to my feet and make back the money i lost 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Addicted2Women: 3:31pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 3:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
SnowJay92:You're just so funny ehn Meaning, they will be visiting Mr Biggs everyday eating fried rice and chicken 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by tylesh(f): 5:01pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Addicted2Women:I see...... U guys look alike. What a resemblance! |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Lol, u sef check am, even with the rough economy, what happened to buying food in bulk to last a while and supporting with just perishables and ingredients? what do i know shaa, some are privileged. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Mypeople2(m): 7:54pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Trottle:hahahahahaha |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Addicted2Women: Ahn ahn 50 million? So you invested 50 million in MMM ? Chaiiii |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Addicted2Women: Do someone need all d money on earth to prove a point Eehhya I pity u d fact he doesn't let me work dey pain u Oya go hug transformer na we don't have millions buh we are comfortable and d first time I met him he had nothing buh today I'm proud of wat we have achieved Sorry for u lost all destinies r not d same Respect people for who they r Some don't work due to health conditions people have their reasons don't think u know it all ok 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Smeeky(m): 10:50pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
ratioxyz: Well...I agree with him at some point. A friend resigned from his previous place of work were he was earning 140k due to some issues he had. He searched for a decent job for a while, but he couldn't find, so he took up a contract work for 45k as a single guy. He got married within the middle of the year he started the contract work. Before the end of that same year, the company confirmed him as a full staff with 300k and an official car. Well not everyone has that favour. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ksstroud: 11:17pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Akposb: Best brain 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by obeauty21: 11:58pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
[color=#550000][/color] NaijaElba: Inasmuch as its good to post stuffs, let's be mindful to give credit to whoever originally own these kind of matetials. I have seen this post severally on my whatsapp and m sure u didnt sit down to write this. This is plagiarism. Even if you cant source, put copied and that would be fine. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Addicted2Women: 12:27am On Jul 24, 2017 |
tylesh: Thanks |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ratioxyz: 6:13am On Jul 24, 2017 |
Smeeky:lucky him! |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jul 24, 2017 |
Smeeky:story even if he married 10 women and not perform he would not be confirm |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Smeeky(m): 2:28pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Alikote:Are you saying those who are contracted do not perform well on the job |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Smeeky:performance or not has noting to do with marriage ...rational thinking not african dead idea....dangote is not married an he the richest black man |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
It really depends on the type of life you want to live. My Parents' drivers earn 60K each a month and have about 4-6 children. As for me, I'd like for you to earn at least 1m+ while I also have my good-paying job. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by bosfawe(f): 10:27pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
How much you need to earn before marriage depends on several factors eg where you live, the standard you hope to maintain, distance of your house to office, how soon do you want to starting having children, do you have a car etc Since there are so many variables, it will be difficult to give you a figure. Nevertheless, this is a scientific approach to it. Write down your current monthly expenditures, adjust for rent and other things which may change after marriage.your partner too should do same. Both of you should harmonise your expenditures. This will give you a rough estimate of what you will need per month. Compare this with what both of you currently earn, it will show you where you are financially. Will you need to reduce your standard? Will you need to get a cheaper accommodation? You are in a better position to know if your current earnings can sustain a new family or not. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by McTobe(m): 5:04pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
whao:shalom...May his grace sustain you 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by McTobe(m): 5:13pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
SnowJay92:My broda even d privileged stock food. D nature of posts I hv bn reading confirm my guess that only few posters on this thread are living and taking care of themselves/ married the rest are either students or social fantasts, so wot does dat tell U 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
McTobe:shalom ke 60 k hp the wife is working ?who told u guys single earning 300 k anit happy they are thinking of runing an Msc in canada to get a stay the dont want to settle for less,the dare to dream and their dream are big |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by McTobe(m): 5:49pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Alikote:May his grace sustain d, Canadian big dreamers too. listen my good friend that same person u see dat earns 60k today and works in a govt dept can be a director, PS, or anything big tomorrow infact as a matter of fact u don't even know how far he can still go in his work tomorrow dats if he choose to stick to it. He can see opportunity tomorrow and bkom one big contractor, anything big. Moreover what makes we d younger generation think that our success is tied to one masters or d other or going to Abroad, I don't know. Just live ur life man let others live theirs #Whatever works for u 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
McTobe:ps or director are just bunch of thieve in the ministry any ps or director living large in asokoro or maitama are just looter ?keep waiting to steal when u reach level gl 17 or we use quota system to get u out ..u can marry on 60 k that your choice 720 per anum when house rent na 350 k for manage put nepa bill,transport ,etc so tell me if no be marrying into poverty what are u talking ...those director where living in govt house when them they level 8 plus govt bus ,several directors that didnt steal are roasting in retirement in mowa,nyanya marrabba ..so guy wake up ....keep your job ,keep your marriage take loan from coperative open a side biz for your wife and your self ...pampas is cost oooooh |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by McTobe(m): 6:15pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Alikote:So bkos some PS/Directors are stealing now mean dat every other successful PS/ Director is stealing? So u think they all sit down and just eat their money without any serious investment? U think their wives are just house wives...i laff in Swahili...My HOD wife is a big Accountant in a foreign Cement Coy, D former HoD too d wife is an Asst Director in a Govt Agency and i dont see dem complaining. So if u find ursef in dat position and one big FG contractor that ur role was just to sign his documents and stamp it come around tomorrow to give u one and half plot in Asokoro u will not take? I am sure if by virtue of ur office they are allocating houses in an estate and u are in good terms with d political head of ur ministry if he choose to allocate one or two plot u will reject it. My nairaland friend there is no straight jacketed path to success. u think everyone will be entrepreneur abi? well I don't think so, like i said whatever works for u stick to it. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Trottle: 5:01am On Jul 27, 2017 |
debbycreamy: Preach to them ma'am! Some of them do not want to understand and respect that not all women want to hold "office job" or any career for variety of reason. You don't even need to prove anything to them. Let them just talk, their problem. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 6:26am On Jul 27, 2017 |
McTobe: I never went past the front page, laughter Wan kill me, anyone that follows Internet standards eh, this forum is full of people that are still depending on others, reality has not hit them yet, while it's good to dream, it's also good to take into account the realities on ground. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
McTobe:that also corruption not merit ...how many persons in over 1 million public workers will ever be ps or director less than 5 thousand per 10 year ..am in the system for over 12 years started around 26 year old the chance are high that i might be a ps considering my age and state but cant wait for 27 year to drive an 1 million an old honda or steal govt money ....i rather have side bussiness like poultry an wait the remaining 15 years ..i dont advice any guy on level 7,8,9 to marry expect they are above 30 they should wait till level 12 when income cross 100 k aleast and have small impress unless if wife is working or u inherited a house hence no rent ...no need to rush to bring babies into lack and poverty we have over 100 m very poor people in nigeria already |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by McTobe(m): 12:34pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
Alikote:OK dats for U. Personally I will not advice anybody to wait till GL 12 before he marry. As for u calling what I said above corruption I hope u will reject them when they are offered to u |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by McTobe(m): 12:36pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
SnowJay92:very True |
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