ThoniaSlim:

You mean jobless. . .no work or at least business to call his own? Don't think So!

Thank you jare. !

'Jobless' . . . . . that word means one thing only.

I have an uncle who freeloaded off women for decades, before he finally got settled/married at 42.

Jobless, handsome, with some good phucking skills lands a man a woman. Playing and juggling all of these women becomes his JOB.

Just promise women marriage and do most of the things she says/things she wants to hear, the sheeps will come to the Shepard.

posakosa:


a woman desperate to marry will marry any walking manliness, yes and that includes a jobless graduate. Don't you know women have the "he will change attitude"


and this includes an educated 31 year old single Nigerian woman,
her biological clock is ticking away,

I dont argue that a woman can marry a jobless man. But if you think its because he has a d**k then you are dead wrong!!

No decent woman will marry an irresponsible man because she wants to get married . . not to talk of a jobless one!!

Ujujoan:

I dont argue that a woman can marry a jobless man. But if you think its because he has a d**k then you are dead wrong!!

No decent woman will marry an irresponsible man because she wants to get married . .  not to talk of a jobless one!!

1. The notion of decent is absolutely relative.

2. There are many women who have married irresponsible as well as jobless men. It will NOT start or end with you. Now there may be a repercussion to pay but there is still this notion of "[b]at least I have a man[/b]"  going on. Believe it or not babe!

@ pakossa, i think u are truly jobless plus u are not always serious.

fitzmayowa:

@ pakossa, i think u are truly jobless plus u are not always serious.

u're MAD

posakosa:


1. The notion of decent is absolutely relative.

2. There are many women who have married irresponsible as well as jobless men. It will NOT start or end with you. Now there may be a repercussion to pay but there is still this notion of "[b]at least I have a man[/b]" going on. Believe it or not babe!

Me ke?

@sextacy and justwise, one of u asked me what am bringing into the marriage and one also said he's sure i will want him to be tall, handsome and bla bla bla. i will only answer u two bcoz it seems u fit into the described persons shoe. i will be graduating next year, after which i will go for my master  and PhD degree concurrently. and guess what guys, i pay my sch fees from day one till tomorrow. i wouldn't enter a marriage if i do not have a job either.i am a young girl but hardworking and independent. i will definitely place thesame expectation on the man qualified to be my husband. so  justwise, yes i want a tall and handsome man because am 5.9ft tall and beautiful and above all,i deserve one. u don't want me walking on the street with a man looking like a briefcase

i will one thousand times sef,if he loves me and i love him

@kerosine, i hope say u no go sell kero for d rest of ur life if u try that. ask people who have suffered with a man in d time past and let them tell you their rewards. the first thing you will hear from the miserable man is "I CANT MARRY YOU WITH PITY" just bcoz u assisted me when i was jobless? by that time u will know say age no be number but it makes women's body wrinkles faster than men

@mubowa,atleast hes not gonna remain jobless for life, particularly if hes a goal acheiver and intelligent, anyway the marriage or dating have to placed on conditions though,like HE loving me 800% than i do,more concentrated on his side i mean.there are millions of graduates in naija that are jobless, so u think girls that are okay would not marry them all becos they are jobless?

All the ladies saying they cant, what if u marry a graduate that has a job and lost his job afterwards?

@post
I can date a jobless graduate cuz i know he wont be jobless forever

TOPE2000!:

All the ladies saying they cant, what if u marry a graduate that has a job and lost his job afterwards?

@post
I can date a jobless graduate cuz i know he wont be jobless forever

Good point. Jobless man is different from a jobless graduate!

kerosine:

@mubowa,atleast hes not gonna remain jobless for life, particularly if hes a goal acheiver and intelligent, anyway the marriage or dating have to placed on conditions though,like HE loving me 800% than i do,more concentrated on his side i mean.there are millions of graduates in naija that are jobless, so u think girls that are okay would not marry them all becos they are jobless?

On point

@post

If u simply date or marry hiim simply cos he is employed or not then u got to have a rethink. Most times it all depends on d kind of employment we r talkin bout here. If he is an enterpreneur he certainly has potentials to soar higher and on the other hand if he is not employed, That aint enough to say he is not capable of takin care of a woman as lng as he is a man who can face d hurdles of life and cross it with time

mubowa:

@sextacy and justwise, one of u asked me what am bringing into the marriage and one also said he's sure i will want him to be tall, handsome and bla bla bla. i will only answer u two bcoz it seems u fit into the described persons shoe. i will be graduating next year, after which i will go for my master and PhD degree concurrently. and guess what guys, i pay my sch fees from day one till tomorrow. i wouldn't enter a marriage if i do not have a job either.i am a young girl but hardworking and independent. i will definitely place thesame expectation on the man qualified to be my husband. so justwise, yes i want a tall and handsome man because am 5.9ft tall and beautiful and above all,i deserve one. u don't want me walking on the street with a man looking like a briefcase

Good, as long as u bring such quality into the marriage then u got every right to demand ur dream man.
Now i'm cool with ur previous post.

its not about marrying him, how did you want to fund the wedding? first help him to get on his feet, get a job for him or encourage him to start something little, try to create a different impact on him aside from marriage, that way, you cannot be forgotten

Would You Marry/date A Jobless Graduate?----Nope. Male or female, if you haven't got a source of income, then you haven't prepared yourself for marriage. Marriage it self can be a game of chance, so it's best to make an effort before going into it.

all this girls saying it is not about the money, na lie, see dem , when reality stares them in the face, dem go know wassup

mubowa:
I can date him but i cant marry him. ladies lets be realistic, would you like to suffer when you are suppose to be happily married? and when you now see ur friend enjoying, you will start forcing on ur hubby in d house? HELL NO. am not going on that road with no man. if u wanna marry me. u need to have a job and an alternative source of income just incase u loose ur job. coz mubowa is a diamond and need to be treated as such.

hoe

ketori:
I like ur comment crazyman. Am passin thru similar issue with d guy am datin almost 1yr, he graduated 3yrs ago 4rm UNIPORT of which we're stil hopin 4somtin good of which am very sure of.

nice one,I hope you guys are married now?

mubowa:
@kerosine, i hope say u no go sell kero for d rest of ur life if u try that. ask people who have suffered with a man in d time past and let them tell you their rewards. the first thing you will hear from the miserable man is "I CANT MARRY YOU WITH PITY" just bcoz u assisted me when i was jobless? by that time u will know say age no be number but it makes women's body wrinkles faster than men

Thumbs up

Wouldn't mubowa be working too?

mubowa:
I can date him but i cant marry him. ladies lets be realistic, would you like to suffer when you are suppose to be happily married? and when you now see ur friend enjoying, you will start forcing on ur hubby in d house? HELL NO. am not going on that road with no man. if u wanna marry me. u need to have a job and an alternative source of income just incase u loose ur job. coz mubowa is a diamond and need to be treated as such.